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beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 9:45:09 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		IN our lifestyle i have ran across some that brag about all the dommes or doms or even subs they have had. All the things they have done. How much pain or ds stuff they can take or do...

I have found this at all age ranges sizes and shapes. sexual oddities whos dones the most and such 
it gets a little boring and uninteresting after know said people after awhile. whats the point of being with someone that has done seen or had it all. what could bring to the table to such a person. sometimes to much is to much .   have you ever ran into said peeps  what was your iimpression  
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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 9:48:41 PM   
SNoB


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Status: offline 		Some people just think they need to impress everyone.  Some people like to hear themselves talk.  Its sort of a turn off to hear about someone bragging about how many partners they have had, and really anoying when you are negotiating a scene/doing a scene and they bring up past experinces over and over.

I was at a workshop with a play party once and met someone who introduced them self saying "Im an expert in almost every type of play, I just havent done it in real life"

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 9:58:05 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		I'm sheltered. I haven't met these people.

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 9:59:46 PM   
marieToo


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Status: offline 		It doesn't bother me in the least to be with someone who has done it all...or at least done a lot of it.  In fact, I prefer it because there's so much that I haven't done and things I'd like to do and try, and being with someone who has been there gives me a certain level of confidence in them.

Anyway, I think no matter how much experience someone may have (at whatever) there is always more to learn, or someone new to share the experience with.

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 10:02:31 PM   
SNoB


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

It doesn't bother me in the least to be with someone who has done it all...or at least done a lot of it.  In fact, I prefer it because there's so much that I haven't done and things I'd like to do and try, and being with someone who has been there gives me a certain level of confidence in them.

Anyway, I think no matter how much experience someone may have (at whatever) there is always more to learn, or someone new to share the experience with.


Its not an issue of someone having all of the experince, its the question of why do they needlessly brag about it?

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 10:20:44 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		I don't care if they have all this experience and done all these things but to continuously bring it up and brag about seems a bit insecure to me. People that assume everyone wants to talk about their experiences just feels like they are trying to prove something. If we are talking about experiences then that is one thing but to always need to brag is another.

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 10:29:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SNoB

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

It doesn't bother me in the least to be with someone who has done it all...or at least done a lot of it.  In fact, I prefer it because there's so much that I haven't done and things I'd like to do and try, and being with someone who has been there gives me a certain level of confidence in them.

Anyway, I think no matter how much experience someone may have (at whatever) there is always more to learn, or someone new to share the experience with.


Its not an issue of someone having all of the experince, its the question of why do they needlessly brag about it?



I realize that was the main focus of the OP.  But he also said this....

quote:

whats the point of being with someone that has done seen or had it all.


And that's what I spoke to.  I have no use for a braggart either.  But I did see a postive in the specific question above.

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 10:50:25 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		They've never done all that with ME. The people involved change the experience.

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 11:19:50 PM   
ElectraGlide


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Status: offline 		It does get boring on the scene when someone is bragging about how great they think they are. Of course potential play partners seem to be always in ear range of them. When someone is really good, people get sent to them, because of their reputation. I am monogamous so I talk about motorcycles, places to vacation, hobbies etc. until its time to play with my lady.

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 11:29:19 PM   
DefiantFlower


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Status: offline 		I shall call him squishy and he shall be mine, and he shall be my squishy!

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 11:36:02 PM   
mons


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Status: offline 		your so right i am a domme and my goodness i have slaves who and submussive who tell '
me how and who they had they have done it all. i do not want anyone who is so jaded and
does not know how to be humble and queit in the manners of BDSM

mons ( oh lost my pasword lol and i had to get a new one so i am back )

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/7/2008 11:48:24 PM   
NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: DefiantFlower

I shall call him squishy and he shall be mine, and he shall be my squishy!


Hahaha, cute.

"And I will love him and keep him and call him George - - I mean squishy." (remember that?)

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/8/2008 12:07:34 AM   
ElectraGlide


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Status: offline 		Hello Mons, I have not seen you on here in awhile, I hope you are doing great.  

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/8/2008 12:28:17 AM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

They've never done all that with ME. The people involved change the experience.

Master Fire



Totally agree. When I met Master I had absolutely no real experience but he had been in the lifestyle for nearly 25 years. I was always worried that he had tried everything possible as he had had a live in slave for 8 years. He has always said it is different with each individual. You never stop learning and experiencing different things.

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/8/2008 1:18:05 AM   
servantheart


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NuevaVida


quote:

ORIGINAL: DefiantFlower

I shall call him squishy and he shall be mine, and he shall be my squishy!


Hahaha, cute.

"And I will love him and keep him and call him George - - I mean squishy." (remember that?)




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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/8/2008 2:03:29 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

"And I will love him and keep him and call him George - - I mean squishy." (remember that?)


Ack! Do not butcher the Bugs Bunny! Ack! Bad submissive! Bad! No!

;-)

Hugo the Abominable Snowman: [holding Daffy, whose shirt makes him look like a rabbit] Oh, what a cute little pink bunny rabbit!
[cradling Daffy]
Hugo the Abominable Snowman: Just what I always wanted. My own little bunny rabbit. I will name him George, and I will hug him and pet him and squeeze him...
Daffy Duck: I'm not a bunny rabbit...
Hugo the Abominable Snowman: ...and pat him and pet him and...
Daffy Duck: You're hurting me. Put me down, please.
Hugo the Abominable Snowman: ...and rub him and caress him and...
Daffy Duck: [shouts] I ain't no bunny rabbit!

The Abominable Snow Rabbit, about 2 min into the short (you gotta love youtube)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnrLK78ZFLE

BONUS! Daffy gets SPANKED for being a bad bunny rabbit. ;-)

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(Super secret: I have 12 dvds of Looney Tunes)

< Message edited by MasterFireMaam -- 10/8/2008 2:07:06 AM >

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/8/2008 2:49:06 AM   
silkncarol


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Status: offline 		I don't find it boring or uninteresting if someone has more experience than me.  I've found there's always something new to learn or try in the Lifestyle.  I've met people who have had vast experience at "doing" certain types of play and they have either introduced or succeeded in changing the way i looked at it.

I don't care for a braggart in or out of the Lifestyle......but someone with confidence, knowledge and a willingness to share that knowledge with me, i find exciting....


quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

IN our lifestyle i have ran across some that brag about all the dommes or doms or even subs they have had. All the things they have done. How much pain or ds stuff they can take or do...

I have found this at all age ranges sizes and shapes. sexual oddities whos dones the most and such 
it gets a little boring and uninteresting after know said people after awhile. whats the point of being with someone that has done seen or had it all. what could bring to the table to such a person. sometimes to much is to much .   have you ever ran into said peeps  what was your iimpression  


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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/8/2008 3:13:07 AM   
NorthernGent


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

IN our lifestyle i have ran across some that brag about all the dommes or doms or even subs they have had. All the things they have done. How much pain or ds stuff they can take or do...

I have found this at all age ranges sizes and shapes. sexual oddities whos dones the most and such 
it gets a little boring and uninteresting after know said people after awhile. 



If the "bragging" adds context to a discussion, then I'm fine with it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

whats the point of being with someone that has done seen or had it all.



There isn't a person alive who has "had it all"........and presumably you wouldn't turn down an evening with a politician/actor/comedian/scientist of your choice on the grounds that they are well-off for knowledge?

You may have a point with regard to those who have been in "the scene" (any scene) for a long time, in that they may be struggling to remain fresh and innovative........stated more as a question, rather than any insight.

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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/8/2008 3:52:03 AM   
TysGalilah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

quote:

ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

"And I will love him and keep him and call him George - - I mean squishy." (remember that?)


Ack! Do not butcher the Bugs Bunny! Ack! Bad submissive! Bad! No!

;-)

Hugo the Abominable Snowman: [holding Daffy, whose shirt makes him look like a rabbit] Oh, what a cute little pink bunny rabbit!
[cradling Daffy]
Hugo the Abominable Snowman: Just what I always wanted. My own little bunny rabbit. I will name him George, and I will hug him and pet him and squeeze him...
Daffy Duck: I'm not a bunny rabbit...
Hugo the Abominable Snowman: ...and pat him and pet him and...
Daffy Duck: You're hurting me. Put me down, please.
Hugo the Abominable Snowman: ...and rub him and caress him and...
Daffy Duck: [shouts] I ain't no bunny rabbit!

The Abominable Snow Rabbit, about 2 min into the short (you gotta love youtube)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnrLK78ZFLE

BONUS! Daffy gets SPANKED for being a bad bunny rabbit. ;-)

Master Fire
(Super secret: I have 12 dvds of Looney Tunes)

 
crackin up
 
gotta love looney tunes
 
the little one I take care of > LOVES  Miss Spider and her sunnypatch friends ( a great cartoon btw)  and
theres a little pink spider on there that says  " squishywishy"  in the most adorable way...
makes it hard to think of the word "squishy" in a negative way now..
 


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RE: beware of the squishy people - 10/8/2008 4:33:16 AM   
ishyB


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Now my feelings are hurt...

Master calls me his squishy ishy...

ishy

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