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OneMoreWaste -> What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/9/2008 9:28:49 PM)

It's my perception
that the general female dominant's perception
of the average submissive male
is that:

He is a chronic masturbator
He has no social skills
He has no interest in "the Real World (tm)" and has no aspirations other than being a slave
   (Except for the fact that his concept of being a slave has nothing in common with your idea of what a slave should be)
Is willing to submit to anyone, anytime, anywhere. Possibly anything.
Has learned all he knows about human interaction from porn, apparently since conception

and critically

Outnumbers you by (conservatively speaking) roughly one hundred and fifty trillion to one.
(and did I mention that his entire existence consists of watching porn, masturbating, and annoying women on the Internet?)

As these "men" have zero value to female dominants, and (at least in theory) even less to "normal" women, what would you propose that society do with them all? [:-]



Lockit -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/9/2008 9:36:57 PM)

ROFL... You just wanted us to have sweet dreams tonight eh?



ladyserenablue -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/9/2008 9:38:43 PM)

Have some almonds. You're so bitter that they'll dispose of your problem.



Celene -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/9/2008 9:41:24 PM)

He he he ... well now that you nailed him, I know I will. [sm=applause.gif]



Venatrix -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/9/2008 9:50:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

It's my perception
that the general female dominant's perception
of the average submissive male
is that:

He is a chronic masturbator
He has no social skills
He has no interest in "the Real World (tm)" . . .
Has learned all he knows about human interaction from porn, apparently since conception

and critically . .  .
(. . . did I mention that his entire existence consists of watching porn, masturbating, and annoying women on the Internet?)


Actually, most of your remarks describe most women's opinion of most men.  Go ahead.  Prove us wrong.



Racquelle -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/9/2008 9:57:07 PM)

He's only a chronic masturbator until I make him order a CB 400 off Extreme Restraints.



subexploring -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/9/2008 10:08:38 PM)

The more lame internet subs fit that description, the more I stand out, so it's all good.

But I do have to admit that the chronic masturbator part is uncomfortably close to the mark.



ShaktiSama -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/9/2008 10:28:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste
As these "men" have zero value to female dominants, and (at least in theory) even less to "normal" women, what would you propose that society do with them all? [:-]


http://www.uoregon.edu/~rbear/modest.html

I have a Modest Proposal.



MistressOfGa -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 2:34:15 AM)

In answering to the title of this thread:
 
Anything that their Dominant tells them to, within the boundaries of their own agreements.
 
As far as the rest of the bullshit, have a good day.



MmeGigs -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 4:25:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste
It's my perception
that the general female dominant's perception


I think that your perceptors are off.  What you've described is the way that many fantasy-driven fellows present themselves.  If I thought that this is what submales are like, I'd have been gone from the kinky world long ago.



MsStarlett -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 4:59:26 AM)

Actually, the OP just did a pretty good job of describing the vast majority of the people who send me messages.  I seem to be a magnet for the type.  *shrug* 

There have been plenty of threads about this.  Most agree that sub males should represent themselves as human beings first, kinksters second.  In the time that I've been here, I've actually found quite a few men that I enjoy talking to.  I don't 'Dom' them all.  Don't have the time or energy for that.  But one can never have to many friends.  Most go on to find nice Dommes close to them and move along and stop speaking to me... sometimes because their new Dommes ordered them to stop all other correspondence.

(Speaking of which, I meant to start a thread about that... I'll go do that next.) 



hopelesslyInvo -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 5:00:34 AM)

i've got amazing social skills.

hi everyone!!



Madame4a -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 5:47:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

It's my perception
that the general female dominant's perception
of the average submissive male on Collar me
is that:



I added the bold face words... I actually find things a bit different away from the computer...



MistressDolly -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 5:56:19 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

It's my perception
that the general female dominant's perception
of the average submissive male
is that:

He is a chronic masturbator
He has no social skills
He has no interest in "the Real World (tm)" and has no aspirations other than being a slave
   (Except for the fact that his concept of being a slave has nothing in common with your idea of what a slave should be)
Is willing to submit to anyone, anytime, anywhere. Possibly anything.
Has learned all he knows about human interaction from porn, apparently since conception

and critically

Outnumbers you by (conservatively speaking) roughly one hundred and fifty trillion to one.
(and did I mention that his entire existence consists of watching porn, masturbating, and annoying women on the Internet?)

As these "men" have zero value to female dominants, and (at least in theory) even less to "normal" women, what would you propose that society do with them all? [:-]


lol, not my submales.



MistressDolly -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 5:58:39 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix



Actually, most of your remarks describe most women's opinion of most men.  Go ahead.  Prove us wrong.


lol



OneMoreWaste -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 6:32:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama
http://www.uoregon.edu/~rbear/modest.html

I have a Modest Proposal.


You just don't see writing like that anymore [&o]

A very logical proposal in theory, but with one flaw- we've got the Numbers [8D]



Steponme73 -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 8:20:28 AM)

I have to add my 2 cents worth.  If you read the profiles of both on collar me there is a lot of truth in his statement.  LOL...I would like to think that some of us have some good attributes to offer.  I realize being a man puts us at a big disadvantage, but that just means we have to try harder.
I think where the subs go wrong in my opinion, is presenting themselves as subs/slaves first and not as a functioning human being.  It is like Ms. Scarlett said, present yourself as a human first and a kinkster second.
Of course that is a 2 way street for the Dommes also.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 9:11:57 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

i've got amazing social skills.

hi everyone!!



And you're sweet, too! [:)]



Venatrix -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 9:43:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

i've got amazing social skills.

hi everyone!!



And you've got an enormous . . . hallway.



Sylverdawn -> RE: What do you think the "average submale" should do? (10/10/2008 11:39:24 AM)

an enormous WHAT.. oooooooooooooooooooooo ...hallway..

The only perception I have of the average male sub is that he is a FLAKE... other than that I come with no expectations.


SD



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