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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 3:52:22 PM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		Just because we are all submissives doesnt mean we all have to be buddy buddy.  Its pretty much like being vanilla friends.  You dont have to like everyone, and everyone doesnt have to like you. 


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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 4:05:35 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		I think I'd put it more strongly, babygurlrides.  The woman who said these things has got something not quite right in her head.  I think if I heard that, and knew the relationship you two'd had to date, I'd have frowned and thought "Woah.  You're not properly screwed in, are you?"   Then I'd have moved away. 

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 4:15:20 PM   
nwcutie102


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Status: offline 		mean honey, she was mean and nasty. self esteem is a terrible thing to screw with. hold your head high!

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 5:38:05 PM   
babygurlrides


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ORIGINAL: TabrisMaceth

Something 50+ year old lady was saying shit like that?! Unless she's that hot granny from those exercise machine commercials, who the fuck is she to be insulting anyone's looks?!
You know what you should do? Extract revenge, of course! Hide a webcam somewhere, film her naked, wrinkled old ass, then speed it up while playing the Benny Hill theme and put the caption "OLD WHORE!" at the bottom.

-Tabris



ROFL   Right!.... x 10!!

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 5:40:45 PM   
babygurlrides


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Color me confused... she remotely turned on your cam?


Cali



Yes, Cali. This is a lady who I have spoken to in chat and email. As well, she has spoken to my Dom many times in that room. This was no accident.
Not that it matters anymore. I wont make that mistake again.

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 5:42:54 PM   
babygurlrides


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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

quote:

ORIGINAL: babygurlrides
luci... it is part of what my Dominant enjoys... the sharing . To all of you who responded, I thank you for your wisedom and kind words

Oh, I understand babygurlrides.  If Master desired that, we'd do it.  It's just that He doesn't and feels the same way I do about it.  It was just a rhetorical question, really.  If that's what your master wants, I do understand.........luci



 Thank you luci.. I appreciate that.

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 5:46:27 PM   
babygurlrides


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ORIGINAL: persephonee

bgr...im sorry that happened and im sorry that you took offense to it. Mean people do suck. i know you are just venting your feelings of hurt and humiliation...and im sorry that you had to experience that.
i am nekkid in public pretty much every weekend. People who i see every week, and who's names i am still fuzzy on most days see me in all my glory and then they get to listen to me whine thru my scenes. im soooo not a beauty queen. And frankly i would be crushed if anyones opinion of how i looked at my most vulnerable...cuffed to the cross or gawd forbid ass in the air on my favorite bench...if that opinion was spoken aloud and i heard it or heard of it.
But after i wiped away my tears...and all the snot....im soooo not a graceful crier....i would prolly just go smack the bitch in the teeth.
Hows that for a pretty picture?

delicate as a flower

perse


perse... thank you for your kind words. It is hard to be vulnerable.. yet it can be so glorious too. I totally relate to what you are saying, and for the record... I aint no beauty queen either;) I have wiped off the snot and tears as you say.. and I have gathered my resolve to get back on my horse and do what I love to do!:)
baby

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 5:53:49 PM   
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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 5:56:12 PM   
babygurlrides


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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Just because we are all submissives doesnt mean we all have to be buddy buddy.  Its pretty much like being vanilla friends.  You dont have to like everyone, and everyone doesnt have to like you. 


I have NO problem with that! I am sure there are many people in this world who dislike me, and it doesnt matter to me. There are people in the room who rub me the wrong way too... however that does not give me the right to criticize their body to others in the room. Call me a bitch.. call me a whore... but to say..."ewwww her tits are flabby and she has so many rolls you cant even see her pussy...makes me wanna puke!"... is just plain immature and mean!!!  For those of you who would be able to laugh this comment off while you were naked, well... kudos to ya!!  It affected me at the time.. and I wont apologize for it. I would NEVER demean someone like that in a public forum, even if I thought it.

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 5:59:40 PM   
babygurlrides


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

how does one remotely turn on someone elses cam?


Hmmm.. perhaps I have the opportunity to speak to her one day, I will ask her!!!  For now, it's best I avoid her, because for me rage and hurt are at both ends of the line that I am not gonna cross. At least.... not today:)

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 6:01:51 PM   
bentonmaster


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Status: offline 		you are correct that you do not have to be buddy buddy but you do need to treat all thepeople in the room as you would like to be treated and whether you like them or  not you do not have the right to say negative things about them unless they have say something shitty to you

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 6:03:34 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

how does one remotely turn on someone elses cam?

You use Lifestyle Magic!

~stef

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 6:05:18 PM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 6:12:43 PM   
auburnvixen


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Status: offline 		What I'd like to know is...why would some of you assume that the rude bitch's ass is "wrinkly" just because she's fiftyish?

I just turned fifty and I assure you that my ass isn't wrinkly. It's quite plump and spankable.  And if anyone decides that they don't like the sight of it, I'd say - THEN DON'T LOOK!

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 6:18:16 PM   
bamabbwsub


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Babygurl, as a BBW, I understand your lack of self-esteem. I lacked self-worth most of my life, until I met my best friend, who is also a BBW and one of the most beautiful (and she knows it, honey!) BBWs you've ever seen. Luckily for me, some of her confidence rubbed off on me.

In the long run, I'd say that your best revenge is the fact that YOU were with a man who obviously finds you attractive, and SHE was lurking behind your webcam watching from afar. Whose opinion REALLY matters here?

Keep your chin up, gurl!

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 6:19:12 PM   
AMaster


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Status: offline 		Don't worry about what she said..... I think you ass is quite perfect.

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 6:23:47 PM   
monywildcat


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Status: offline 		"Beauty is only skin deep, UGLY goes all the way to the bone".  (I don't know where that quote came from, but bonus points for those that do )

It appears that you are starting to bounce back from this person's insults, OP.  That's good.  Stick with that. 

I'm still trying to figure out how someone can remotely turn on someone's webcam.  Jedi mind-trick?  Don't those little buggers have a button that must be physically pushed on?  It is painfully obvious that I do not have a webcam. 

*waving hand now, "daddy will get that flogger I saw"*

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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 6:48:20 PM   
faithbunny


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quote:

ORIGINAL: babygurlrides
For those of you who would be able to laugh this comment off while you were naked, well... kudos to ya!!  It affected me at the time.. and I wont apologize for it. I would NEVER demean someone like that in a public forum, even if I thought it.


You've already said that you'll be more careful about who can view you in future. I don't see where it's constructive for people to tell you that you should have known better.

A jerk was viciously hateful to you, and in public, at that. Feel however you feel, sweetie. I have one of those inner voices that tells me at random times that I'm not good enough as it is. If someone took a shot at things I was sensitive about, I'd be hurt, embarrassed, and angry. I don't think that's unreasonable.

Hugs...

~faith



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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 7:04:46 PM   
oceanwynds


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Status: offline 		I do hope you heal from this episode soon. It is a horrible experience to go through. Just remember who are you really giving your power over too? That woman isn't worth it. Heck i could had been offended when someone said people in their 50's are wrinkle. I am 57 and really don't have wrinkles. i just chuckled at that remark.
Enjoy who you are and give yourself a hug of appreciation.
blessings
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RE: Warning to new submissives! - 10/10/2008 7:06:38 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: babygurlrides

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
how does one remotely turn on someone elses cam?

Hmmm.. perhaps I have the opportunity to speak to her one day, I will ask her!!! 


It cannot be done with a standard webcam.  It can be done with a mega-expensive webcam or some tricky software which you would have to install on your computer. 

Further, on a standard webcam, no one can view your webcam unless you set it up to allow it.  That is not a standard setting.  For instance, running your webcam thru yahoo messenger, you would have to go to Preferences, then Webcam, then change the default option from "Always ask my permission" to "Allow everyone to view my webcam" or "Always allow the following people to view my webcam" and then you would add people from your friends list.  HOWEVER, that still doesn't turn it ON, it just lets them view it if it is already on.


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