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RE: Total Control??? - 12/10/2005 12:48:05 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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Total control sounds too much like work to me. I prefer the term ultimate control i.e., ultimately, mine is the final word.

Happy to see you posting again Suz, there is so much a lot of us here can learn from you. Please stay a while.

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RE: Total Control??? - 12/10/2005 1:24:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

Happy to see you posting again Suz, there is so much a lot of us here can learn from you. Please stay a while. M

My dear Ms M:

How very kind of you to say so, thank you! As you know, work work work and no play play play is making Suz a dull and sexually frustrated girl.

I really must remedy that. In the meantime it's nice to be back! :)

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RE: Total Control??? - 12/11/2005 10:53:19 PM

jamesthehumanrug

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greetings open minded slave(moi?)
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i dont know if this makes any sense but if i am going to be hurt i would rather give the control to someone i like and worship than let someone take it if that makes any sense so a slave really never gives up control in that sense

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RE: Total Control??? - 12/12/2005 8:49:29 AM

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Yes, I like this phrase as well. Not because of the amount of work, but because "total control" seems to set up this image that doesn't allow for delegation and assignment. Ultimately, I manage or delegate, and what I say (or, in our household, my mate or mates say) is the rule -- this may mean that I do it or tell exactly how it is to -be- done... or it may mean that I delegate it, and all I want to see is the final result, that being what -I- want the final result to be.

So much easier to discuss in the context of a relationship than in the abstract.

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Total control sounds too much like work to me. I prefer the term ultimate control i.e., ultimately, mine is the final word.

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RE: Total Control??? - 12/12/2005 5:40:53 PM

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I think its one of those expressions that sounds great , "total Control", but having to command over , even the littlest decisions, seems a waste of time... I mean i can see someone demanding Control when at play, because you hear the expression"its all about me, not you !" so I figuring that is what most Doms are addressing .However , I am sure there are some out here that expect 24/7 Total Control

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RE: Total Control??? - 12/12/2005 10:00:27 PM

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Wait, is it even possible to have total control over someone. I honestly don't think it is, but that's just my opinion.

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