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faithbunny -> RE: Verifying People (10/10/2008 7:23:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: coupleowl Well if we have to prove ourselfs. It kinda sounds like we're not trusted to begin with. So what's the point of dealing with anyone who doesn't believe anything we say right off the bat? I have no problem with proving that I'm a girl, because there ARE a lot of creepy dudes online pretending to be chicks. I've had it happen to me on several occasions that a 'bisexual female' turned out to be a guy. That said, I wouldn't bother to do a phone call or cam unless I'd first talked to the person online a bit and found them interesting or amusing in some way. ~faith

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Verifying People (10/10/2008 7:44:39 PM)
quote: there ARE a lot of creepy dudes online pretending to be chicks. as ace ventura once said.. rrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllyyyyyyyyy??

coupleowl -> RE: Verifying People (10/10/2008 7:51:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faithbunny quote: ORIGINAL: coupleowl Well if we have to prove ourselfs. It kinda sounds like we're not trusted to begin with. So what's the point of dealing with anyone who doesn't believe anything we say right off the bat? I have no problem with proving that I'm a girl, because there ARE a lot of creepy dudes online pretending to be chicks. I've had it happen to me on several occasions that a 'bisexual female' turned out to be a guy. That said, I wouldn't bother to do a phone call or cam unless I'd first talked to the person online a bit and found them interesting or amusing in some way. ~faith All we're saying is that if we have to prove ourselves, the conversation isn't wort it. We've also talked to people over the phone, but not for the point of proving ourselves.

DesFIP -> RE: Verifying People (10/10/2008 8:21:22 PM)
I don't cam and I don't have a picture up. We did talk on the phone but not till I felt comfortable doing so. I felt more comfortable going slower, using email so he slowed down to my pace. And yeah, I'm weal and twue.

slaveboy291 -> RE: Verifying People (10/10/2008 8:25:50 PM)
Maybe because they don't have a cam and an unlisted phone number.

windchymes -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 7:35:44 AM)
Another reason occurred to me, and it's that we want to put our best face forward when showing it to someone we don't know, and maybe we're just sitting there with our night cream mask on, hair in rollers, ugly glasses and no make-up on, wearing our ratty bathrobe, and we just don't feel like getting glammed up?

LadyEllen -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 7:39:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes Another reason occurred to me, and it's that we want to put our best face forward when showing it to someone we don't know, and maybe we're just sitting there with our night cream mask on, hair in rollers, ugly glasses and no make-up on, wearing our ratty bathrobe, and we just don't feel like getting glammed up? but what if thats the other guy's fetish? ('cause everyone here is a guy remember) E

beargonewild -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 7:43:44 AM)
whew Glad to hear confirmation that I'm a guy hahahahahahaha

LadyEllen -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 7:46:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild whew Glad to hear confirmation that I'm a guy hahahahahahaha Yes, well - everyone here is a guy apart from you of course - I mean, that facial hair is so fake! E

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 8:24:23 AM)
are you willing to prove via cam/phone/whatnot that you're really a couple and not playing mind games? i reserve the right not to show myself on cam (if i had one) ...my pictures are current enough for you to know that i'm all woman ...and my triple D breasts agree with me too.

Raechard -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 8:42:58 AM)
Triple D you say?[8\|]

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 8:51:25 AM)
smiles i didn't stutter when i say triple D

beargonewild -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 8:57:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl smiles i didn't stutter when i say triple D And I've spoken with you and yes, you are female!

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Verifying People (10/11/2008 9:01:30 AM)
i've spoken to you too ...and you're definitely a fuzzy wuzzy bear man

ClwtrCpl -> RE: Verifying People (10/13/2008 8:40:24 AM)
LOL, no, the problem is how far down the road to go before one gets confirmation of who they are chatting with. We have no problem showing people that we are a couple, both of us on a cam. We don't do online sex or sex chat, it is not interesting to us, but we understand how others could. Most communication here never gets beyond a few emails, so that isn't an issue, but if you are talking about an actual meeting, you'd like to know who you are meeting is who they say. Considering the bad experience of having males posing as females on here call or show up to a meeting we'd like some quid pro disclosure.

ClwtrCpl -> RE: Verifying People (10/13/2008 8:43:03 AM)
faith, we do agree that a few emails to get to some sort of interest stage is required, we have no issue with that, but once things get to a more serious discussion of potential meeting, we like to have a call. As you state, we've had guys call posing as females.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Verifying People (10/13/2008 10:04:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild - keep a sense of personal privacy? - not willing to chance the other person is a pervert (in a negative sense) - some don't own webcams - some want to get to know you better before divulging more personal info The thing is, nowadays, people are less likely to offer too much info in case the other person turns out to be unstable. I know many people are very reluctant to allow others to get closer due to past bad experiences which can influence one's decision and they become less open about themselves to people they barely know. I tend to agree with you bear, as a young woman told me the other day,CM is all about verbal humping and no one wanted to take the time to really get to know each other first, cock and pussys rule...I am senstive about giving out personal information however I am up front what you see is what you get and my momma once told me if you told the truth then no lies were ever neccessary..bounty

Dnomyar -> RE: Verifying People (10/13/2008 10:42:20 AM)
Ok ladies. Should I get a cam or not? If not send me pics.

puppen -> RE: Verifying People (10/13/2008 10:55:38 AM)
Wow that would screw someone with me. I've been practicing to be a voice-over actress a long time. If I wanted to fuck with someone bad enough, I could sound like a small child, old jewish woman, or a male sports announcer. Phone is kinda stupid, if you ask me. And, honestly, I don't divulge cam or additional pictures almost ever. I'm not giving someone wank fuel.

Dnomyar -> RE: Verifying People (10/13/2008 10:58:06 AM)
call me and sound like a woman who wants me.

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