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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 9:41:09 AM   
BeingChewsie


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I met R online though not on collarme just about 10 years ago now. I have been in his household almost 9 years, married to him for over a year now, and am still as happy as I was the day I met him.

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 10:36:49 AM   
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While not on this site, i did meet Mistress online just over 6 years ago.  We spent 2 years in a long distance relationship, racking up frequent flyer miles before myself and my family moved to Michigan 4 years ago. 

Life is grand :)

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 11:39:26 AM   
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Unfortunately, all the doms I've been involved with threw me back. Apparently I have big mouth/attitude issues.


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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 11:47:54 AM   
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Well, I met my wife in the old-school way... on a business trip ( *sighs* And I had always sworn that no matter what else, I would NEVER be one of those guys who picked up chicks on the road ). But still, it's a way happy ending so that's gotta count for something.

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 11:48:45 AM   
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I love hearing all the happy endings!

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 12:33:05 PM   
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Oh, wtf??  I gotta share my donkey with her??

This hardly seems fair.

*stomps foot*


Oi, no infighting.........just get on the fuckin' donkey......you're at the front, Aileen at the back......and when you get here, I don't want to hear you've been bullying Aileen and drinking her share of the water........

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 12:42:38 PM   
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While my Lady and I did not directly meet via CM, but a poly matchmaker site.  CM however, was part of our early experiences as when we began talking, she sent me here to read her profile and to look at the site to learn a bit about BDSM. We just passed 5 weeks together now and it is just wonderful! 


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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 12:50:46 PM   
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What a great idea for a post, thanks
We met here on CM almost 3 years ago . 2 1/2 years ago i moved in with Him and in Feb this year we were married.
We feel  very blessed to have found each other. Neither of us has known such love, happiness and peace before, We are still very mushy and romantic, just ask our familes

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 12:56:19 PM   
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I got dumped by a master I met here (he wanted me to leave my kids and move several states away). I figured I'd give it one last go before deleting my account and going back to dating vanilla jewish lawyers (boring!).
 
I sent an introductory email to Master (who had recently ended a LD relationship Himself) and the rest is history.
 
2 1/2 years of wonder and awe later- it just keeps getting better. Just two weeks ago, we exchanged committment rings.  
 
We still have separate domiciles, but kids, resale values and cats keep getting in the way. It will happen, though.
 
I try to avoid the 'M' word- I had an 18 year horrible experience with it- but, as Master says, never say never.
 
But we are unmarried, partnered, committed, life long companions. And Very, very happy.

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 1:54:24 PM   
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.........just get on the fuckin' donkey......you're at the front, Aileen at the back...


Ummm.....You sure this is about riding the donkey?

< Message edited by marieToo -- 10/11/2008 2:00:40 PM >


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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 2:52:02 PM   
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The warm fuzzies are exactly what I wanted to hear. I think my upcoming anniversary is making me mushy lately.

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 3:13:21 PM   
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No marriage story, but I met my best female friend on CM, my artsiest female friend on Alt -- and another woman I met from CM who has been a pal for over a year just asked if we could go on a vacation together.  I love the first two women, and am quite fond of the third.  I'm still "single," but I'm not looking as intently as I used to be.  I disabled my Alt profile, and I seldom hit on anyone here.  I've found some people who care about me, support me, and keep me kinkified.

Other than the outright scammers, I haven't really encountered any "fakes."  But I have made long-term -- hopefully lifelong -- friendships with women who are intelligent, compassionate and real.


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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 3:44:45 PM   
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Met my Master on Alt.com. i had decided to stop looking, having run into all the wrong ones for me. We talked on the phone, met in person 3 days later and i was collared that week. Here we are, 5 years later, happy, in love and have (i hope) many years ahead of us.

< Message edited by tkenslve -- 10/11/2008 3:45:50 PM >


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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 5:17:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: marieToo

quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent



.........just get on the fuckin' donkey......you're at the front, Aileen at the back...


Ummm.....You sure this is about riding the donkey?


Why do I always get the fucking back????

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 5:29:24 PM   
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Me and my master will be celebrating our one year in a few days time. I have never been happier and can see us spending many more years together x

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 7:51:35 PM   
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TheEngineer and i met a little over8 years ago on alt.polymory groups.  he moved me to texas with him this summer, and we're hoping to get married by the end of the year.  (finances, finances)

pretty damned happy...which feels pretty damned good. 

kitten

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 8:15:33 PM   
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Master and I met online 4 yrs ago. Dated a year. Moved in the next year and have been married now 2 yrs. He is the one person who knows me better than anyone ever has. He is the most non-judgmental, loving, exasperating, sensual ,goofy  man I have ever met. He accepted and adores my son because he is the neatest human being alive and because he is my son. For this he will always have my loving devotion and undying respect.

scarlet


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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/11/2008 8:52:57 PM   
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I met Master on alt in 2006 originally and then ran away from him due to my mental head issues that I was still dealing with at the time. We reconnected in 2007 when I sent him a note thanking him for his friendship and kindness. We started playing together, then in February 2008 he asked me to be his exclusively and I agreed. It is the best I have ever had and I hope that We continue our journey together for many more years though not sure about the whole 'marriage' thing but would for us to be able to live together at some point.

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/12/2008 3:06:36 AM   
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InkedMaster and I met here on CM and celebrated our first year as Master and slave on the 4th of this month and are now 10 weeks into our living together.  All I can say is that it just gets better and better as our relationship continues to grow deeper and stronger. 

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RE: Married, partnered, life long companions - 10/12/2008 3:26:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent



.........just get on the fuckin' donkey......you're at the front, Aileen at the back...


Ummm.....You sure this is about riding the donkey?


Why do I always get the fucking back????


'Just sense that Marie is a touch more head-strong, so she's more likely to get you here quicker by going the transatlantic route rather than 'round the Cape of Good Hope route......plus, you're an artist, you can paint landscapes while Marie drives.....you see, only ever have your welfare at heart, Aileen.....

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