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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I do not allow anyone to tell me what to do. I will listen to his opinion but its my judgement call.

~Lashra

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa
On the other side of the slash, it begs to ask, what would you do if your submissive asks you to cut off contact with one or more of your friends, kink or non kink? As a dominant, would you feel that it is not your submissives "place" to ask this of you?

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ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

Ive asked it a few times in my life simply because of the situation. In many cases it was behavior that happened when my partner wasnt in the room or home at the time. They would be viciously cruel, telling me that my owner was cheating on me, sleeping with them, they would throw things at me, trip me, track dirt or grease on things i just cleaned. Things that would cause me to then be punished by my partner because they were tasks not done. I told him when he asked me why it was not done the truth. And I explained if there was an issue further with this particular woman that I would not keep myself in the situation, and would not accept punishment for these acts. He didnt believe she did it and i asked him to set up the computer to record it. Sure enough the second he was out of hearing distance she started in and he cut of contact with her.. Why? to him it was more important to keep me in a healthy environment, and keep himself as well with friends that respected me, then ones that chose to disrespect both of us.

I wouldnt ask because i felt insecure, but if I had a reason like above and he did nothing about it, i would loose respect in him for his unwillingness to protect and keep the one thing i request of him.  To keep me safe from as much harm as he can...