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RE: Jealous Subs - 10/16/2008 6:45:42 PM

yourMissTress

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I haven't heard it once as long as I've lived here. And I would know because my ears would bleed.

Tell him NIN will be here for Halloween?

Woo hooo... now THAT's a way to spend Halloween (if -only- security would let me tie Trent up and pierce him... it would be frosting on the cake, so to speak)

Umm YEAH!!!! I am entered in a radio contest for meet and greet vip passes for the show...keep your fingers crossed. And if you hear on November first that he's missing, don't be surprised if I'm not posting for a few days....

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RE: Jealous Subs - 10/17/2008 3:37:27 PM

QueenAlaleh

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On the other side of the slash, it begs to ask, what would you do if your submissive asks you to cut off contact with one or more of your friends, kink or non kink? As a dominant, would you feel that it is not your submissives "place" to ask this of you?

Put me in the camp of those who believe that jealousy issues should be sorted out before a relationship even begins. Beginning a relationship with a clear structure should alleviate most of these issues.

I see a concerned and respectful suggestion as tolerable. Any pressure beyond that is not tolerable.

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RE: Jealous Subs - 10/18/2008 4:53:40 PM

TexasMaam

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I'm sure it would depend upon why he's asking Me to cut off all contact. I'd consider his reasons and feelings then make my best call - depending on how much I value our relationship.

If his intent would be to isolate Me from My established support network of friends and mentors, we'd have to agree to disagree.

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RE: Jealous Subs - 10/20/2008 6:37:46 PM

CatdeMedici

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I feel it is My responsibility to ensure that My sub and My friends "mesh". If someone is hurting My sub, it means I have not done My due diligence and protected that careful dynamic. If I don't see anything of that nature---then someone is crying wolf.

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RE: Jealous Subs - 10/20/2008 6:55:08 PM

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If I was the dom/me I would be asking why they wanted me to cut off contact. The reasons matter...

but also being the slave I wouldn't tell..I would ask though and we would have a discussion like two rational adults.

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