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Icarys -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:03:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Ok Two points. First. I HATE it when I get to these threads late......:) and no I didn't read it all so this may have been said. Second........ Women here, like any Internet site probably get 100's of emails a week. who the hell has the time to answer all of them. To say it is rude to not answer an email from a stranger.... is just plain stooopid! Jeffwey Don't use it as a crutch..

WyldHrt -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:07:41 PM)
quote: Rude is rude no matter the excuse. If your okay with that, it doesn't bother me. I could see someone who has a Master and isn't allowed. So... it's perfectly OK if my Master (if I had one) decides that I'm not to reply to unsolicited email from people I don't know, but if I decide on my own not to reply to the same email, it's rude? Nice double standard. Shouldn't all Masters, being polite, insist that their subs/slaves reply to every "polite" email they receive?? Oh wait, they would probably rather that their sub spend that hour in a more productive way.....

Jeffff -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:09:55 PM)
Ic.... sometimes you say the silliest things. A crutch? how is it a crutch. On the personals side people are there to meet some one. They want to meet some one the might like. Often a bad message . or even a bad picture...( yes I know it is shallow), is enough for them to know. No response equals no interest. To equate it with bad manners, is bad manners Jeffwey

MsAuthoritarian -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:12:19 PM)
wow 222 posts on this topic so far, fasinating

CalifChick -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:14:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt So... it's perfectly OK if my Master (if I had one) decides that I'm not to reply to unsolicited email from people I don't know, but if I decide on my own not to reply to the same email, it's rude? Nice double standard. WyldHrt, I owe you a big, sloppy, wet, groping kiss in Vegas. Cali

KatyLied -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:14:43 PM)
quote: wow 222 posts on this topic so far, fasinating We are completely over-achieving on this one. And for a poster who doesn't have a profile.

Jeffff -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:15:06 PM)
Stick around, Op's like this generate alot of........scarcasm?.... and laughs. It's a whole lot better than the, " how can I find a REAL_______" topic Jeffwey

Icarys -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:15:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: Rude is rude no matter the excuse. If your okay with that, it doesn't bother me. I could see someone who has a Master and isn't allowed. So... it's perfectly OK if my Master (if I had one) decides that I'm not to reply to unsolicited email from people I don't know, but if I decide on my own not to reply to the same email, it's rude? Nice double standard. Shouldn't all Masters, being polite, insist that their subs/slaves reply to every "polite" email they receive?? Oh wait, they would probably rather that their sub spend that hour in a more productive way..... I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention"

WyldHrt -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:15:48 PM)
I'll take ya up on that, Cali [:)]

KatyLied -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:16:23 PM)
Did I get in the middle of a grope and kiss? goody!

susie -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:18:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: Rude is rude no matter the excuse. If your okay with that, it doesn't bother me. I could see someone who has a Master and isn't allowed. So... it's perfectly OK if my Master (if I had one) decides that I'm not to reply to unsolicited email from people I don't know, but if I decide on my own not to reply to the same email, it's rude? Nice double standard. Shouldn't all Masters, being polite, insist that their subs/slaves reply to every "polite" email they receive?? Oh wait, they would probably rather that their sub spend that hour in a more productive way..... I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention" So now it is not rude to not reply??? Have you changed your mind or are you just confused?

KatyLied -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:18:25 PM)
quote: I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention" What about submissives who are not looking for a partner and state disclaimer in their profile? Do they get a pass?

WyldHrt -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:18:28 PM)
quote: I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention" But if I'm not taken, I need to reply to anyone wanting my "attention", even those I have no interest in? Fascinating.

Icarys -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:19:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Stick around, Op's like this generate alot of........scarcasm?.... and laughs. It's a whole lot better than the, " how can I find a REAL_______" topic Jeffwey That's real grown up isn't it lol.

Jeffff -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:20:37 PM)
But what if you are not taken , but just not interested. or...... what if you are taken, but don't feel the need to tell a bunch of strangers reading your profile? Jeff Edited because I type like shit....... can't really spell either...... but at least I don't drool

Icarys -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:21:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention" But if I'm not taken, I need to reply to anyone wanting my "attention", even those I have no interest in? Fascinating. I don't remember saying i didn't think it wasn't rude..I could just understand if they said not to reply.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:22:32 PM)
You mean soI shouldn't ask how I can find a real toothbrush for real teeth, as opposed to fake brushes for fake teeth? quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Stick around, Op's like this generate alot of........scarcasm?.... and laughs. It's a whole lot better than the, " how can I find a REAL_______" topic Jeffwey

HandSolo -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:24:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Ok Two points. First. I HATE it when I get to these threads late......:) and no I didn't read it all so this may have been said. Second........ Women here, like any Internet site probably get 100's of emails a week. who the hell has the time to answer all of them. To say it is rude to not answer an email from a stranger.... is just plain stooopid! Jeffwey Don't use it as a crutch.. You don't have to reply to unsolicited snail mail. You don't have to reply to an unsolicited phone call. You don't have to reply to unsolicited email. A CM account arguably is an invitation to message, but only to a subset of the community. The recipient can decide what subset that is. You can reply to everybody. I reply to everybody except form letter bulk mailers. A Domme may reply to the 2% of her mail that shows evidence of the writer demonstrating the courtesy to read her profile and respond appropriately. Other than in person, there is no blanket rule of etiquette requiring a personal response to any message from a stranger. Specifically, on the Internet, a high speed, shortcut filled medium (u cn reed txtspk 4 a xmple), there is absolutely no expectation of a response, even from someone you are corresponding with. Responding to every online message would be a prison sentence. That is why there are Spam blockers on your email, and why there are filters on CMs messaging system. as a sender, you can not know whether a non-response is due to a recipient ignoring a message, or the message being blocked. Either way, you have your answer: not interested. If you are the only person demanding responses as a show of common courtesy, it is not because you are a pioneer in online etiquette, it simply means you have forgotten the "when in Rome " adage.

WyldHrt -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:26:15 PM)
quote: I don't remember saying i didn't think it wasn't rude..I could just understand if they said not to reply. You made me go all the way back to page 5 for this: quote: Filter then..No excuses work for me other than they were nasty to you right off the bat or you were told not to by your Master.

Icarys -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 4:27:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HandSolo quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Ok Two points. First. I HATE it when I get to these threads late......:) and no I didn't read it all so this may have been said. Second........ Women here, like any Internet site probably get 100's of emails a week. who the hell has the time to answer all of them. To say it is rude to not answer an email from a stranger.... is just plain stooopid! Jeffwey Don't use it as a crutch.. You don't have to reply to unsolicited snail mail. You don't have to reply to an unsolicited phone call. You don't have to reply to unsolicited email. A CM account arguably is an invitation to message, but only to a subset of the community. The recipient can decide what subset that is. You can reply to everybody. I reply to everybody except form letter bulk mailers. A Domme may reply to the 2% of her mail that shows evidence of the writer demonstrating the courtesy to read her profile and respond appropriately. Other than in person, there is no blanket rule of etiquette requiring a personal response to any message from a stranger. Specifically, on the Internet, a high speed, shortcut filled medium (u cn reed txtspk 4 a xmple), there is absolutely no expectation of a response, even from someone you are corresponding with. Responding to every online message would be a prison sentence. That is why there are Spam blockers on your email, and why there are filters on CMs messaging system. as a sender, you can not know whether a non-response is due to a recipient ignoring a message, or the message being blocked. Either way, you have your answer: not interested. If you are the only person demanding responses as a show of common courtesy, it is not because you are a pioneer in online etiquette, it simply means you have forgotten the "when in Rome " adage. I agree to the majority of what you said but I still see it as rude if you don't reply unless for any of the reasons I have stated.. I know how it all works though..No one is obligated to do anything in life but die. lol.

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