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MasterChip2008 -> WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:31:44 AM)

I am growing deeply concerned about the sub's and slave's that do not ever reply/respond to message's sent to them by Masters/Mistreess's, not even a polite 'Thanks, but no thanks' would be nice. However, increasingly, I find that its virtually impossible to receive a response from sub's and slave's when they are contacted thru here. A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'. And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever.
Another matter, on a different subject is...there has been a huge outbreak of 'supposed' subs/slaves sending message's to Masters and Mistresses from out of the USA, from Ghana for example. They claim they want a 'owner', but then go  on to 'demand' extreme funds for plane tickets, visa's, and passports, making claims that all can be had within 72 hours time, IF they have the money. I have, personally, checked this out....the shortest time anyone can get a passport/visa from Ghana, or most anywhere else is actually 6 months or more, and even then, some governments require that the person requesting thses documents have a large bank account balance and real property in they're country, there-by assureing thery're return. I have not found any country willing to grant visa's and passports within 72 hours, and normally there is a long and detailed process by which said items are gotten anyway.
My advise to all Masters and Mistresses, if you get a message from someone outside of your own country, simply do not reply, its most likely a 'con-game' to simply get your money. And for those who receive message's from those in your country, be sure that if you assist with transportation for these subs/slave's, you pre-pay for the ticket, so you can get a refund if the ticket is not used and it cannot be cashed in by anyone else...
On a final note, I hope everyone here, Masters,Mistresses, slaves and subs have a wonderful day and night!!
Master Chip 2008




Slavelary -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:36:26 AM)

I've had one idiot on CM saying he was on a ship to Africa wanting me to mail some packages for him to start our 'relationship'.  Stay away from such scams!




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:36:41 AM)

[sm=popcorn.gif]  Chip you should head for the hills while you still have time. 




KatyLied -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:37:31 AM)

Strangers do not owe you a response or submission.

No response = no interest

See how easy this is?




DesFIP -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:38:28 AM)

No response is a response.
The reason you don't get "thanks but no thanks" is that when we do that, what we get in return is vitriol. Believe me, even one email a month saying "you fat pig, I hope you get gutted and left dead on a roadside like you deserve" is more than any of us wants to deal with. When we don't respond, we get much less hate mail.

As far as the Nigerian, Malaysian etcetera slaves dying to meet you. Of course it's a scam. Report it and move on.

Re politeness: all caps is rude. Ordering people who haven't agreed to submit to you is rude.

Also, I'm not allowed to serve/obey/submit to anybody but him. And before him I wasn't submissive to anybody so I still didn't have to obey someone I don't know who announces what qualifies as a true submissive for me. Do you really want someone who takes everybody's orders or would you rather have someone who treated you as special?




CalifChick -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:38:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterChip2008
A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'.


The duty of a person new to a forum is, first and foremost, to take a little look around so they know what they're getting into.

Your interesting perception of what people who identify as submissives owe you, a stranger, merely because of the label you put on yourself, won't get you far.

If you had bothered to take a look around, you might find that, among other things, your messages to them simply could be going to their bulk mail folder, due to the filters they have set up (maybe none of the skinny, attractive chicks you're looking for are interested in someone who is over 50).  You also might have found that no one here owes you jack squat.


Cali




RedMagic1 -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:39:10 AM)

Welcome to the wild and wacky world of kinky internet dating.  Both topics of your post have been discussed since, oh, the day these message boards began.

Good luck.  Believe it or not, female subs (and switches and doms) do indeed write back.  If you are concerned they are not writing back to you, consider posting a new thread with a question about how to improve your profile or intro letter.




simpleplan2 -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:39:30 AM)

And when you do respond, most "masters" tell you that you're ugly and fat and worthless, etc.  What's the point?




KatyLied -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:41:18 AM)

Um, you look okay to me!




HalfShyHalfWild -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:43:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterChip2008

A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'.


I demand to see the rule book on this [8D]

No offense, but there isn't one person on this site I owe anything to nor is it my
'duty' to 'serve' anyone just because they emailed me.




RedMagic1 -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:43:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick
You also might have found that no one here owes you jack squat.

Gosh.  That doesn't sound very subbly.  You need to be shipped off to submissive boot camp somewhere.  Oh, wait.....




catize -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:43:57 AM)

If I served every dom, dick or hairy on the internet I’d have little time for real life.  Not to mention I’d get pretty tired, so once you got around to emailing me, I’d probably be asleep. 
Quite frankly, I have no concerns at all for self labeled masters, and you might feel more relaxed if you saved your deep concerns for the important stuff.




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:44:04 AM)

Stop it Katy....... you're responding politely to someone and we just won't stand for it!  Go stand in the corner young lady! [;)]





tactileartist -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:44:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterChip2008

I am growing deeply concerned about the sub's and slave's that do not ever reply/respond to message's sent to them by Masters/Mistreess's, not even a polite 'Thanks, but no thanks' would be nice. However, increasingly, I find that its virtually impossible to receive a response from sub's and slave's when they are contacted thru here. A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'. And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever.


My duty is NOT first and foremost 'to serve'.  My primary duties are to be a wife to my husband and a sub to my Master, a mother to my children and his child, to maintain his home environment, and to keep myself in good heath. 

Certainly  I have no 'duty' to any other Master or Mistress.  None.

Perhaps your perception that every sub or slave on this networking site is obligated to reply to you may have something to do with your lack of responses?

Just something to think about.






CallaFirestormBW -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:44:33 AM)

Chip, dear,

"Polite" includes not shouting in your headings/titles. Internet etiquette. All caps=screaming one's fool head off.

CFB




MsAuthoritarian -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:44:40 AM)

Why you may think it is rude the reality is they do not "owe" anyone a reply. Just because the phone rings, does not mean someone must answer. Just because there is a knock on the door does not mean someone must open the door. They may in fact think it is rude that you "expect" any response. Then is is always the, "if they do not respond then that is your answer".
 




littlewonder -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:44:55 AM)

Why do you need a response?? You need to ask yourself that one. The answer may be enlightening to you.

No response means not interested.




PanthersMom -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:45:14 AM)

it's not just the newbie submissives who are amusing this morning.  i've had an interesting morning so far, is it going to be "that" kind of day?  i think i'll go back to bed!

PM




Madame4a -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:46:52 AM)

welcome to collarme ... oh and the internet.. no one owes a stranger anything...




GreedyTop -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/12/2008 8:47:08 AM)

The only people I owe anything to are the ones who I know and care about, and myself (oh, and those that control my housing and utilities....LOL).

M4!  *smooch hug* how are you?




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