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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:28:55 PM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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I don't remember saying i didn't think it wasn't rude..I could just understand if they said not to reply.


You made me go all the way back to page 5 for this:
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Filter then..No excuses work for me other than they were nasty to you right off the bat or you were told not to by your Master.



That doesn't mean i don't think it might be rude..I just pass it by if it says that in their profile. Nice try though.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:30:19 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Umm... I believe the argument is irrelevant in this case.  Clearly the only acceptable answer to the rudeness question is that one agree with mr goodmanners.  Anything else would only make sense to the rest of us barbarians.
*grunt*
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: HandSolo

You don't have to reply to unsolicited snail mail. You don't have to reply to an unsolicited phone call. You don't have to reply to unsolicited email.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:33:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Umm... I believe the argument is irrelevant in this case.  Clearly the only acceptable answer to the rudeness question is that one agree with mr goodmanners.  Anything else would only make sense to the rest of us barbarians.
*grunt*
Kyst
quote:

ORIGINAL: HandSolo

You don't have to reply to unsolicited snail mail. You don't have to reply to an unsolicited phone call. You don't have to reply to unsolicited email.


I was born with an Occipital Bun..If anyone is good at grunting it would be me


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:34:22 PM   
NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
OK Icarys, here's an experiment for you. I JUST received an email which said:

Can you handle this if you were my sub/slave?


Well fiddlefuck!  I got the same email!  And here I thought I was special.  See "what made you roll your eyes today" in the P&RS section for what my response was to him.  And he didn't bother to reply back.  How farkin' rude!


Cali



LMAO, now see my response was really polite (compared to yours!), based on what I learned on this thread today.

No reply to it as of yet.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:36:06 PM   
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That doesn't mean i don't think it might be rude..I just pass it by if it says that in their profile. Nice try though.

but then you said this:
quote:

I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention"

and didn't reply to the question I asked. Which is it, Iccy? Should taken subs be required to reply to every unsolicited mail they receive, or is it only rude if the sub in question is single but chooses not to respond?

Would you require your submissive to respond to every guy who emails her in the name of "politeness" and tell her that she must deal with the crap that comes with trying to be nice and reply to everyone?


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:36:56 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Umm... I believe that this concept is unacceptable for the mr goodmanners type.  Only one response will do and that is to say he is the epitome of grace and civility.  Your thoughts while valid, will only be understood by barbarians unskilled in the arts of gentlemanly behavior *snort*.
The rest of us barbarians will cheer you... lol but this idea is lost on him.  I wonder how he would do, attempting my test of sending back spam to unsolicited mail, and telemarketers.  The idea that anyone might not be seeking private email is too much for some.
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: HandSolo
You don't have to reply to unsolicited snail mail. You don't have to reply to an unsolicited phone call. You don't have to reply to unsolicited email. .


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:41:20 PM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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That doesn't mean i don't think it might be rude..I just pass it by if it says that in their profile. Nice try though.

but then you said this:
quote:

I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention"

and didn't reply to the question I asked. Which is it, Iccy? Should taken subs be required to reply to every unsolicited mail they receive, or is it only rude if the sub in question is single but chooses not to respond?

Would you require your submissive to respond to every guy who emails her in the name of "politeness" and tell her that she must deal with the crap that comes with trying to be nice and reply to everyone?


Actually what I do is read them first and then let them respond after wards...

Yes I do think it's polite for EVERYONE including Dominants to respond to atleast the first email as long as it's polite but IF a Dominant choose for his not to respond it's his choice and Whether I LIKE it or not..I'll still respect his choice.

My name is Icarys.  If you have any other clever traps you's like to try and place me in ..feel free.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:41:37 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		So.. does this mean I can look forward to a bunch of polite responses and immediate submission from any woman I eamil?............ I may have to change my opinion heere........


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:41:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff
but at least I don't drool


Yes you do.  The top of my head is sopping wet, and it ain't from me.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:44:14 PM   
susie


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

That doesn't mean i don't think it might be rude..I just pass it by if it says that in their profile. Nice try though.

but then you said this:
quote:

I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention"

and didn't reply to the question I asked. Which is it, Iccy? Should taken subs be required to reply to every unsolicited mail they receive, or is it only rude if the sub in question is single but chooses not to respond?

Would you require your submissive to respond to every guy who emails her in the name of "politeness" and tell her that she must deal with the crap that comes with trying to be nice and reply to everyone?


Actually what I do is read them first and then let them respond after wards...

Yes I do think it's polite for EVERYONE including Dominants to respond to atleast the first email as long as it's polite but IF a Dominant choose for his not to respond it's his choice and Whether I LIKE it or not..I'll still respect his choice.

My name is Icarys.  If you have any other clever traps you's like to try and place me in ..feel free.



So do you expect a response to every email you send out given the fact that you choose not to have a profile?

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:45:01 PM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Umm... I believe that this concept is unacceptable for the mr goodmanners type.  Only one response will do and that is to say he is the epitome of grace and civility.  Your thoughts while valid, will only be understood by barbarians unskilled in the arts of gentlemanly behavior *snort*.
The rest of us barbarians will cheer you... lol but this idea is lost on him.  I wonder how he would do, attempting my test of sending back spam to unsolicited mail, and telemarketers.  The idea that anyone might not be seeking private email is too much for some.
Kyst
quote:

ORIGINAL: HandSolo
You don't have to reply to unsolicited snail mail. You don't have to reply to an unsolicited phone call. You don't have to reply to unsolicited email. .



It's funny because I've stated my beliefs on the subject I should be talked to in a sarcastic and condescending tone but I've come to expect it out of a few of you so I'm okay with it. Par for the course.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:46:40 PM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: susie

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

That doesn't mean i don't think it might be rude..I just pass it by if it says that in their profile. Nice try though.

but then you said this:
quote:

I would assume if your taken you'd have no need to reply to someone who was wanting your "attention"

and didn't reply to the question I asked. Which is it, Iccy? Should taken subs be required to reply to every unsolicited mail they receive, or is it only rude if the sub in question is single but chooses not to respond?

Would you require your submissive to respond to every guy who emails her in the name of "politeness" and tell her that she must deal with the crap that comes with trying to be nice and reply to everyone?


Actually what I do is read them first and then let them respond after wards...

Yes I do think it's polite for EVERYONE including Dominants to respond to atleast the first email as long as it's polite but IF a Dominant choose for his not to respond it's his choice and Whether I LIKE it or not..I'll still respect his choice.

My name is Icarys.  If you have any other clever traps you's like to try and place me in ..feel free.



So do you expect a response to every email you send out given the fact that you choose not to have a profile?

I'm sure this is another cute attempt at sarcasm..I'll check and let you know just how many I send out..give me a sec.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:46:54 PM   
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IF a Dominant choose for his not to respond it's his choice and Whether I LIKE it or not..I'll still respect his choice.

But you don't respect the choice of a submissive when she chooses not to respond to the 20+ emails that hit her mailbox per day.
Got it.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:46:57 PM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff
but at least I don't drool

Yes you do.  The top of my head is sopping wet, and it ain't from me.

TwueSubblyCali



Thats different...... you said you liked it messy!

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:49:48 PM   
susie


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Actually what I do is read them first and then let them respond after wards...

Yes I do think it's polite for EVERYONE including Dominants to respond to atleast the first email as long as it's polite but IF a Dominant choose for his not to respond it's his choice and Whether I LIKE it or not..I'll still respect his choice.

My name is Icarys.  If you have any other clever traps you's like to try and place me in ..feel free.


quote:

original:susie
So do you expect a response to every email you send out given the fact that you choose not to have a profile?

quote:

original:Icarys
I'm sure this is another cute attempt at sarcasm..I'll check and let you know just how many I send out..give me a sec.



I can assure you it was not an attempt at sarcasm. If I was being sarcastic you would know it. I was asking a perfectly reasonable question. If you are unable to answer then say so.

edited because I got my quotes all ass about face

< Message edited by susie -- 10/12/2008 4:52:51 PM >

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:50:11 PM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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IF a Dominant choose for his not to respond it's his choice and Whether I LIKE it or not..I'll still respect his choice.

But you don't respect the choice of a submissive when she chooses not to respond to the 20+ emails that hit her mailbox per day.
Got it.


I don't think you do get it..you just think you do..Your choice but I see it as rude..that's as simple as I know how to put it. If you can't respect my belief on this subject then that's your problem.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:50:32 PM   
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she chooses not to respond to the 20+ emails that hit her mailbox per day.


Especially silly ones like:  "tell me, do you feel the need to be used?"


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:52:04 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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IF a Dominant choose for his not to respond it's his choice and Whether I LIKE it or not..I'll still respect his choice.

But you don't respect the choice of a submissive when she chooses not to respond to the 20+ emails that hit her mailbox per day.

That's the part that I'm trying to grock... you respect his choice, but when it's her choice, you don't respect it.  Or is that not it?


Cali


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:52:14 PM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Actually what I do is read them first and then let them respond after wards...

Yes I do think it's polite for EVERYONE including Dominants to respond to atleast the first email as long as it's polite but IF a Dominant choose for his not to respond it's his choice and Whether I LIKE it or not..I'll still respect his choice.

My name is Icarys.  If you have any other clever traps you's like to try and place me in ..feel free.



So do you expect a response to every email you send out given the fact that you choose not to have a profile?

I'm sure this is another cute attempt at sarcasm..I'll check and let you know just how many I send out..give me a sec.



I can assure you it was not an attempt at sarcasm. If I was being sarcastic you would know it. I was asking a perfectly reasonable question. If you are unable to answer then say so.

8 original emails sent from my profile( all of which were answered). Now what does my profile have to do with anything?


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 10/12/2008 4:52:57 PM   
Subductrssss


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Status: offline 		I can only speak for myself right now but with everything that is going on with me, including the broken ankle I might leave collarme on all day and night but it's because I have a lot of things on my mind and simply forget to turn it off but the amount of time I am actually here is very short and in that time I might have 25 messages come in, 5 invitations to chat and 15 mails I need to return, plus if I have yahoo msngr up I have to deal with people wanting to talk to me.  So what I do is I  sit at the computer until my foot throbs then go back and lay down, the messages I get I try to once a week return an answer whether it's long or short, a no thank you or whatever.

The chats, I dont' accept as my computer mostly has issues with private chats and I cannot get to them anyways, the yahoo's well I try but don't always succeed in pleasing everyone.

So I talk to my friend as I can and do the rest as I am able.

This is all I can do.



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