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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:08:07 AM

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I am an attention whore too, at least I got some KS points. :)

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:08:43 AM

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And I will say it again, to you, for emphasis: GET OVER IT, IT IS THE INTERNET.

exactly, so why do you have to be so nasty?

If this medium is *only* 'the internet', why do you spend so much of your life on it (and expressing so much aggression).

It obviously plays a big part in your life. e.g. how many times do you post in here...how many times do you check this forum for replies each day? You obviously assign significant importance to 'the internet'

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:14:26 AM

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It's better to spend one's aggression on the internet and to administer virtual whacks to cyberpeeps rather than to give actual punches to flesh and blood people in real life.

Zilch KS points.

I think I'm going to like this

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:16:20 AM

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<-- virtual whacks, had to do it.

Hey! I was nice to the lady that rear-ended me this morning (and by "rear-ended", I do NOT mean in that good slutty way that we like).

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:17:34 AM

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And I will say it again, to you, for emphasis: GET OVER IT, IT IS THE INTERNET.

exactly, so why do you have to be so nasty?

If this medium is *only* 'the internet', why do you spend so much of your life on it (and expressing so much aggression).

It obviously plays a big part in your life. e.g. how many times do you post in here...how many times do you check this forum for replies each day? You obviously assign significant importance to 'the internet'

Ok, funnelgag, let's talk this out, 'k? I am being very nice to you and not nasty.

1. You seem very interested in how much time I spend online (as if you would know).
2. It is not your business what I do or don't do.
3. I don't have to answer to you on any subject.
4. I love online, it is part of my job actually.
5. Luckily for me, I have met alot of real life friends and lovers through this medium, as well as in real life. I am multifaceted that way, I can cruise online and then go meet real people outside.
6. I am not nasty, that is your perception. I am actually very sweet and helpful.
7. I do not display aggression; I am sorry you are so easily threatened by comments online. You should get out more and see how that works.
8. Your perception of aggression is your own, I see my words in a certain way as do others, sometimes you see negative intent when there is none and don't see humor. That is because....drumroll please...YOU DON'T KNOW ME.
9. And I don't care if you cannot stand my postings. I only care about those who I respect and since I don't know you, I have no feelings towards you at all.
9. There is a little button called HIDE.
10. I maintain my original point; read all the replies here, no one owes anyone a thing online, you can only control YOUR behavior and YOUR reaction, nothing more and nothing less.

Have a fabulously lovely day.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:20:09 AM

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It's better to spend one's aggression on the internet and to administer virtual whacks to cyberpeeps rather than to give actual punches to flesh and blood people in real life.

Zilch KS points.

I think I'm going to like this .

Yes, I agree, except in certain cases....like at a sample sale. Some of those bitches hit like a motherfucker.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:20:27 AM

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And I will say it again, to you, for emphasis: GET OVER IT, IT IS THE INTERNET.

exactly, so why do you have to be so nasty?

If this medium is *only* 'the internet', why do you spend so much of your life on it (and expressing so much aggression).

It obviously plays a big part in your life. e.g. how many times do you post in here...how many times do you check this forum for replies each day? You obviously assign significant importance to 'the internet'

OK... now This.
Red knows me... gawd she and I have tussled in the past and will continue to do so - and she knows how I feel about snarking and the like BUT... what have you just done yourself?
Used innuendo to make it seem that she has no life off CM? Really? How is that in anyway being a good example? How is that any different to what you are bemoaning? How does it even help?

Done that, been there... I had to sit down and look at my behaviour and go WTF? I went offline and contemplated about the way I had been to one individual and realised just how pointless it was. Running someone down because of the amount of time you think they might have been online is just passive aggressive.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:22:28 AM

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11. She was actually being kind, if indeed you are a masochist, to give you a little spank, even if only via this awful internet thingy.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:22:39 AM

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I find that its virtually impossible to receive a response from sub's and slave's when they are contacted thru here.

If it happens on a consistant basis, the problem might be with what you are sending.

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A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'.

that is laughable. The duties include what is agreed on between her and her Master/Dom. She is not your sub/slave and owes you nothing at all, as you are A dom, but certainly not HER dom.

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And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever.

No response = a response. Take a hint.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:26:26 AM

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I consider it pretty foolhardy to venture into ANYTHING new and forge ahead with your eyes closed and your fingers in your ears going LA LA LA LA LA.

This. Exactly. I always think of these as the "Hey guys!" types and wonder where they've been before that they didn't get a bit of a smackdown for that behavior. I'd bet you could find a yahoo group devoted to quilting that would summon some snark when someone shows up who obviously didn't take the time to figure out how the group operates or what information is already openly available. In the context of bdsm, it seems even more important to wake them up and caution them to look the fuck around and figure out what's going on before they take any action. You could get seriously injured or jailed doing this shit if you're wandering around blindly.

On the separate subject of NZ points. To me, they came across as pretty juvenile when I first saw them. They still do, but I see it as a silly game where most of the players are aware of how silly it is. So they were off-putting to me in the sense of "what sort of immature dynamic is at work here?" I can see how others might find them off-putting in the sense of posters being favored or credentialed, but this is still just a lightly moderated internet forum and I think anyone interested and secure enough to stick around can find and have interesting conversations here.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:32:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: RCdc

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ORIGINAL: funnelgag

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
And I will say it again, to you, for emphasis: GET OVER IT, IT IS THE INTERNET.

exactly, so why do you have to be so nasty?

If this medium is *only* 'the internet', why do you spend so much of your life on it (and expressing so much aggression).

It obviously plays a big part in your life. e.g. how many times do you post in here...how many times do you check this forum for replies each day? You obviously assign significant importance to 'the internet'

OK... now This.
Red knows me... gawd she and I have tussled in the past and will continue to do so - and she knows how I feel about snarking and the like BUT... what have you just done yourself?
Used innuendo to make it seem that she has no life off CM? Really? How is that in anyway being a good example? How is that any different to what you are bemoaning? How does it even help?

Done that, been there... I had to sit down and look at my behaviour and go WTF? I went offline and contemplated about the way I had been to one individual and realised just how pointless it was. Running someone down because of the amount of time you think they might have been online is just passive aggressive.

the.dark.

awww..thanks .dark. I already dealt with the dude. I exercised my newly found restraint when I could have easily bitch slapped him. I am the new, mature SexyRed.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:36:00 AM

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awww..thanks .dark. I already dealt with the dude. I exercised my newly found restraint when I could have easily bitch slapped him. I am the new, mature SexyRed.

I saw... but only after...geezzzzzz y'all type way faster than me... !

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:50:21 AM

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On the separate subject of NZ points. To me, they came across as pretty juvenile when I first saw them. They still do, but I see it as a silly game where most of the players are aware of how silly it is. So they were off-putting to me in the sense of "what sort of immature dynamic is at work here?" I can see how others might find them off-putting in the sense of posters being favored or credentialed, but this is still just a lightly moderated internet forum and I think anyone interested and secure enough to stick around can find and have interesting conversations here.

Interesting observation, Lucienne.

I never really attached any significance to them, until he started following me and others around and being the discussion-dissecting hall monitor. Then you kind of see them as a device for garnering attention on himself in the guise of a silly game, and a continuation of the self-appointed role of distributor of credentials.

That degree of arrogance is ultimately futile in this medium, but I guess it fills his day.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:51:15 AM

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Agreed.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 10:55:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

It's a way of demonstrating status within a particular group, by playing a particular social game.

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I want my words to be judged on their own, and by me alone, not by who I happen to be buddies with.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 11:00:31 AM

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So they were off-putting to me in the sense of "what sort of immature dynamic is at work here?"

Don't look over in the Casual Banter section. The immaturity of it all! There's even a thread that was started on a dog-poop joke!

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 11:02:23 AM

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On the separate subject of NZ points. To me, they came across as pretty juvenile when I first saw them. They still do, but I see it as a silly game where most of the players are aware of how silly it is. So they were off-putting to me in the sense of "what sort of immature dynamic is at work here?" I can see how others might find them off-putting in the sense of posters being favored or credentialed, but this is still just a lightly moderated internet forum and I think anyone interested and secure enough to stick around can find and have interesting conversations here.

Interesting observation, Lucienne.

I never really attached any significance to them, until he started following me and others around and being the discussion-dissecting hall monitor. Then you kind of see them as a device for garnering attention on himself in the guise of a silly game, and a continuation of the self-appointed role of distributor of credentials.

That degree of arrogance is ultimately futile in this medium, but I guess it fills his day.

Yeah so he's my mate. But let's forget that a second.

On the points thing. Why are people so obsessed with NZ points suddenly? The subia mafia has been around a while... so have countless other fan clubs... sunshines, SD, GT... seriously... what's so different? Its immature - sure... but what happened to humour? I mean, I know these so called things aren't your sort of humour... but people are relating and being cool. Why piss on them all? You have a fan club too - so what? It's all groovy

You accused NZ of stalking you on the other thread. But who is doing the stalking here? You seem obsessed by mentioning NZ in your past few posts... are you purposefully trying to provoke him into posting back at you so you can be 'right'?

I'm not picking on your Ebonywood. I'm not defending NZ either... like I said... red and I have tussled but she and I are still cool. But you are showing a tiny bit of obsession here...

And I am still waiting btw

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 11:04:49 AM

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I'm not defending NZ either...

Huh?

Well, being audacious enough to have stealthily created a system that requires the willing reciprocation of playful posters to inflate my failing ego is a bit shady.

And, now that I think of it, I can't remember what I did in those 26 days that I went without updating the list and getting my much-needed fulfillment. It's all such a blackout for me.

*scratches head trying to remember whose couch or floor he may have woken up on during those lost days*

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 11:05:24 AM

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Speaking of NZ points - where the hell are mine?

Can I score some from a scalper?
Are they available on Ebay?

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 2/1/2010 11:07:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: I'm not picking on your Ebonywood. I'm not defending NZ either... like I said... red and I have tussled but she and I are still cool. But you are showing a tiny bit of obsession here...

And I am still waiting btw...

the.dark.

mmmmm...wrestling might be more fun than tussling? in jello maybe?

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