pahunkboy
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Joined: 2/26/2006 From: Central Pennsylvania Status: offline
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-- I was thinking on moms pension. She gets a few hundred a month.... lucky if it is $200. She told me but I forgot. Around the time she was a few years with the state, my one brother lost out by 2 months on a pension. The fortune 500 company he worked for reorganized just 2 months before he was vested. So I deeply promted mom to get her 10 years in with the state. She was a glorified shit cleaner. [MR-MH direct care] During this time, if she had gone 15 years- her medical would have kicked in. I did not push her for 15. 10. I recall standing and holding her at her back door as she was sobbing. ( there was an incident at work and higher ups were after heads ) I still prompted mom to get her 10 years in. ...leaving it totally up to her if she got 15. Well mom came to play hardball just as the others had. You see, mom is more the baking cookie type, not work politics. So as she got closer I noted that forces at her job knew she was wanting "out" and she was one of those who out of small town respect- they put up with. [she worked hard...I dont diss that] Anyhow the very 1st HOUR that she could retire she did. :-) At that point she understood my plea to get her pension in. When she decided not to work the 15 years, I said thats up to you. Well- here around year 12, the contract was changed- and that benefit was deleted. After dad passed in the 80s mom had no idea on money managing. So lately she wanted to move back to Chicago. I sort of understand why, but no. Not totally. I dont care for a metro. The rule was - "you must get market price for your house" "dont give your house away, like the last one" oddly a family showed up that wanted her place- only her place. a cash buyer. So now mom lives in exciting Chicagoland where cocktail parties, evening gowns, and fancy people mingle. sort of. I hate that I will never bump into her in the store. I will never hear that one of a kind voice -- like when I was in the hospital in a haze. I dont know why I am posting this. Anyhow even tho the pension is $200ish, it means the difference of having some things she would not have. In hindsight, it was good planning. I warned my sibings the day the moving van pulled out. I told them her well being is in their hands. That I dont know IL law and system. I sense that they are dropping the ball...and I dont like it. Not that they want to be mean, but everyone is so busy. hmmm. I should get excercise instead of whinning here. smiles- thanks guys. So if I come down on a sibling- who how and to what end. "busy" has become worn out. "busy" hmm. not acceptable.
< Message edited by pahunkboy -- 10/13/2008 6:44:25 AM >
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