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Usako -> RE: Tributes (10/15/2008 2:28:39 PM)
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I think the first issue is what do you mean by tribute. Do you mean paying for a real life session or do you mean women who demand money just to talk to them?
The pros or backroom hotel "pros" get the money for doing a service. If she's legite, you'll get your money's worth. If not, then it's probably a scammer who calls herself a pro and just walks around in latex and maybe spanks you a little. Either way, they're doing something (good quality or not) for said money. Customer pays, customer gets what wife or domme who wants commitment won't give.
The other tribute type, that won't even go to coffee with a guy without a gift are usually just greedy.
A) They're an actual domme who thinks her time is worth SO much she can milk guys for gifts.
B) She's a pro, wanting MORE gifts.
C) They're a wannabe pro.
D) More often than not, she's a young girl with a nice body who thinks if she throws around a bitchy attitude it makes her a domme.
E) One excuse I've heard is it filters out wankers from the serious men.
Why can women get away with this? Because there are more horny, desperate male subs than women to be with them. Many are married or just into a fetish and want any woman who will do it. They either pay a pro or are cheap and bother non-pros thinking they'll get a free wanker session. Some women get annoyed by it so demand tribute to make up for it. Some women are just greedy and see the rush of wankers as a way to make money.
Why do some women demand tributes? Because men give it. If men stopped opening their wallets then women couldn't demand anything. But not all dommes demand tributes. Maybe a lot seem to, but not everyone does.
Why don't male doms not require tribute? I assume because most female subs aren't about to pay a man for this stuff? Maybe more female subs are looking for long term things rather than wanker fodder? Someone said the males require sexytime tributes...some might. I guess. I have no opinion about that, never really run into it. But also, I assume, there are less female subs than male subs so a man has less to choose from than a domme. So why scare off the prey by saying "PAY ME MONEY BITCH" or whatever.
Supply and demand. Do the women who require tribute only do it for the money? I assume many do, they learn to spank a lil or flog then think they're in business. Doesn't take much skill to pee on a guy, he pays her and she pees then she can be off to a party with her friends in under an hour. Some women who want money do like to do what they do. And some do it for free...though we're more picky who play with; at least I am. And horny male subs don't always want to deal with getting to know a woman and all that polite stuff.
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