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Tavane -> RE: feminization (2/9/2009 5:01:07 PM)
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I think too many people make too much of this. I'm transgendered and quite feminine and so passable that I need to wear my hair very short to "pass" as a man. I personally think it has nothing to do with whether males or females, or masculinity or femininity, is "superior", nor a putdown of any gender, or even an "emulation" of the female gender.
It's nothing but erotic/emotional pleasure, just as dominance and submission are erotic pleasures and happiness. It's no more surprising to me that Doms don't care for feminine guys than that other women don't care much for them. Why would they? As a feminine sub, that's unfortunate for me, but on the other hand, you don't need a majority of Doms to be attracted to you. You only need one, and if you find her, you get the TG pleasures as well as the submissive pleasures. I always wondered if my submission was connected to my TG desires (since as a gross generalization, females are submissive as mammals, the hyena being an exception), but I have no idea how many subs are TG, as compared with the percentage of TGs in the general population.
Historically, the feminine role was very submissive. One of the "interests" in this site is "1950's household", and I think both sub males and sub females probably use that one frequently. I put "Live for that", even though I'm a sub male, rather than a female. It's exactly what I want, but I want to be the wife, and I'd work, though I'd want my money deposited in my mistess's account, so I'd be as financially dependent as any 1950's housewife.
It's ironic to me that Doms could think that Subs would find femininity "less worthy" than masculinity. Subs worship women. TG subs worship femininity as well, but all the discussion in the world counts for spit, since it's simply a matter of incredible emotional, erotic pleasure, and nobody's pleasure is "superior" to another's, just as no variation of gender is superior to another, in society. In this subculture, subs like me love a female supremacy lifestyle and being a woman's slave, but I certainly would find it ridiculous to contend that one gender is superior to another, whether intellectually or otherwise, excepting only size and strength, which is irrelevant in today's society, unless you want to be a combat soldier or great athlete, or a few other occupations, and even in those, it's not a matter of gender, but rather size and strength. Many females are stronger and bigger than many males.
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