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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/25/2008 5:46:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rover

I don't make a habit of this, but thought that an article I wrote a while back was particularly germaine to this thread.  Anyway, it's entertaining.
 
John
From There To Here…
… and what I’ve learned along the way.
by Rover
Copyright 2007
 
 
 
what a great read. 
you covered every aspect public community, online community, introspection, others, language/definitions. your matter of fact articulation of sometimes emotionally charged topics was awesome. 
thank you, Rover.
 
edited to add: what i have learned is to turn off my laptop before i fall asleep no matter how interested in catching up on the days going ons at CM. i fell asleep one night after working 18 hours with my laptop on my lap..gave myself a nasty burn on my upper thigh, blisters and all, now that is tired! i actually think it will be a forever scar to remind me....nothing is that important to read!
 
may we all find our bliss.
 
 


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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/25/2008 7:49:22 PM   
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That i can leave marks on myself quite well without the help of another. :( Now i just have to figure out how to hide them.

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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/26/2008 12:44:18 AM   
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New day, new thoughts;

-People will always supprise you in the good or the bad.
- A persons behaviour or thoughts will change from thread to thread on a forum
-People change in time, including yourself

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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/26/2008 10:10:55 AM   
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What have I learned here?  I'm not sure if even My response would be directly from here.  Still, here goes.

1.  I've learned that every day, I can write things here that people will either love Me for, or crucify Me for. 

2.  I've learned that the next day, I will write something else that will have the complete opposite effect.

3.  I've learned that there has been at least one subject or another that I have agreed with just about every regular poster here at some time.  In other words, I found that I've had something in common with those who contribute regularly.

4.  I've learned that the potential for the opposite also exists, and happens frequently.

5.  I've learned that you really can watch the personal growth of an individual you've never met, just by reading their writings on a message board.

6.  I've learned that the best things I read, or write here, usually come from real life experiences.  That includes the events that happened, the feelings connected to them, and how the whole thing worked out.

7.  I've learned there are certain people here that I have grown a great respect for, just because of the things they have written.

8.  I've learned that the reason for that, is they convey who they really are.

9.  I've learned it's ok to do the same.

10.  I've learned that I have been too harsh on subjects as pro domination, on line domination, and others that I have found do not fit Me.  I have to constantly remind Myself that not everyone feels the same way I do.

11.  I have learned that this is probably the best place to relieve the stress of My every day life, especially areas like My job.  I can read things here and come back to My inner self.

12.  I have learned that just about everyone who has ever posted something "under the influence" has come back the next morning, and wished they hadn't.

13.  I have learned that there are people here who have much better knowledge on certain skills than I do, and they are usually a great resource pool.

14.  I have learned that if I were no longer here, I would be missed.

15.  I have learned that there are people here that I would be greatly disappointed if they wouldn't be posting anymore.

16.  I have learned that this is absolutely the best place to get to know other kinksters from the other side of the globe.

17.  I have learned that some of the things here are funnier than anything I might find on tv.

18.  I have learned that no one will ever fill Loki's shoes.

19.  I have learned that I am rather long winded, and should probably shut up more.

20.  I have learned that people in My house think I'm completely nuts when I laugh uncontrollably at words on the screen.

21.  I have learned that some things I have read here, do make Me cry.

22.  I have learned that I will never cease to be fascinated with learning about how other people do things differently than Me.

23.  I have learned there is so much that I don't already know, and the posters here can teach Me.

24.  I have learned that for all it is, and all it isn't, these boards are the best place for Me to express Myself, and to read the expressions of others.

ETA....

25.  I have learned more about Myself, just by writing My opinions, feelings, emotions, and views on these boards than I have anywhere else. 





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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/26/2008 3:40:49 PM   
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I have been thinking of this thread for a couple days and I can't think of any specific or significant thing that I learned which come from CM.  I suppose there are things here and there and maybe a few things sent me down a path that caused me to learn things from other venues..... but I just couldn't think of anything.

But.. I do fine that CM has validated alot of my personal ideas and opinions on a variety of topics and I would also say that because of some comments here and there... some of my ideas and opinions improved with other things... is this learning?  Maybe it is... I suppose I am learning everyday then.

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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/27/2008 1:07:38 AM   
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I have learned that some people think they can tell me what to do. And i have learned that this site is not for me. Chao chee bye.

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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/27/2008 4:15:16 AM   
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I have learned that some people think they can tell me what to do. And i have learned that this site is not for me. Chao chee bye.


You'll be sorely missed. 
 
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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/27/2008 4:23:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rover

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirultimatedom

I have learned that some people think they can tell me what to do. And i have learned that this site is not for me. Chao chee bye.


You'll be sorely missed. 

John

I believe that message was directed at me. The last 3 "words" are swear words in chinese dialect.

Please ignore him.

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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/27/2008 4:45:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: zakkan

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rover

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirultimatedom

I have learned that some people think they can tell me what to do. And i have learned that this site is not for me. Chao chee bye.


You'll be sorely missed. 

John

I believe that message was directed at me. The last 3 "words" are swear words in chinese dialect.

Please ignore him.


"Bye" is a swear word in Chinese?  Sheesh, I gotta be careful on those departures.
 
Trust me, anyone who publicly professes himself to be the "ultimate dom of your dreams", publicly requests you to "fear me", and makes silly public posts does not want to be ignored. 
 
Of course, he may not get the kind of attention he's been fantasizing about.  I don't think snickers and ridicule are what he had in mind.
 
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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/27/2008 5:17:29 AM   
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Bye by itself  is not a swear word lol....

But the 3 words together form a phrase that roughly means "smelly vagina" The chinese believed that. It is a very popular swear word over here.


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RE: What Have You Learned? - 10/27/2008 6:12:09 AM   
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Bye by itself  is not a swear word lol....

But the 3 words together form a phrase that roughly means "smelly vagina" The chinese believed that. It is a very popular swear word over here.



I think they have sprays or washes or sumptin for that these days.
 
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