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Christmas Present - 12/12/2005 11:12:48 AM

ownedjulia

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Hi,

I have something of a dilema.....

What can I give my Master for christmas?!

he controls all the finances so getting money from him to buy HIM a present not only feels wrong but he would want to know what i want the money for.

he owns me and my body, it's his to do with as he wishes so i can't 'give' him something like further submission as he already has it.

HELP!

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/12/2005 11:16:21 AM

nephandi

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What aboute writing him a story, or making somthing or drawing a picture if you ahve the skill?

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/12/2005 11:17:03 AM

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You can either just ask for money to buy him a surprise gift, or do some service special thing like an extra car wash and wax or such.

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/12/2005 11:23:51 AM

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julia i know the feeling for my Master has the same control here also. Last year I sewed Him a very special robe and placed a gold dragon aplique on it for Him. This year Im still debating in sewing new lounging pants and special pillow covers for Him. It is so hard doing anything without Him knowing when it comes to money but one can be quite crafty if He is away anytime during the day. Im lucky though working from home, i can sew and He never has any idea. Im a big lover of Christmas, though He isnt but that is because of childhood upbringing. I figure maybe one day He will get into it like I do.

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/12/2005 11:58:31 AM

slavejali

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i make things for Master, what arty crafty talents do you have julia?

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/12/2005 12:29:40 PM

slavejali

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hey julia, i just thought of a neat gift and it wont cost you a dime.
Cut up little pices of paper and on each piece write something you love about your Master, or some good memory you have of your time together, then fold each piece up and put them in a little box, wrap it up, put a ribbon on it and there you have it.

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/12/2005 11:17:54 PM

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quote:

Cut up little pices of paper and on each piece write something you love about your Master, or some good memory you have of your time together, then fold each piece up and put them in a little box, wrap it up, put a ribbon on it and there you have it.

Oh great idea! I was going to suggest a scrapbook or photo album but I like your idea better.

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/13/2005 7:57:06 AM

Heinz

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Give your Master something from yourself.
Something special.
Or ...........................
make a very special promis as a geft to HIM>

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/13/2005 8:04:23 AM

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Course the obvious answer is to ask him what you should do, or just do nothing at all.

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/13/2005 8:42:55 AM

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quote:

What can I give my Master for christmas?!

how about asking Master what HE wants as a gift? is there a rule that it must be a "suprise" gift or an object that costs money or something suitable for wrapping and sticking under the tree?

it has been this slave's experience that as much as it might please THIS SLAVE to suprise Master with the "perfect" gift, it is FAR more important to obey Master's rules and if you don't know what the rule is, ASK.

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/13/2005 9:06:05 AM

fastlane

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give him a wedgie...and then run like hell!

Seriously, just give him your smile, your love, your submission and re-affirm it is his.
What a lucky Man!

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/13/2005 9:10:07 AM

ProtagonistLily

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quote:

how about asking Master what HE wants as a gift? is there a rule that it must be a "suprise" gift or an object that costs money or something suitable for wrapping and sticking under the tree?

it has been this slave's experience that as much as it might please THIS SLAVE to suprise Master with the "perfect" gift, it is FAR more important to obey Master's rules and if you don't know what the rule is, ASK.

Merc & beth

I would agree with Merc 100% here. Sometimes, we forget that essentially, regardless of what the dynamics of our relationship is, we are still in some sense boyfriend-girlfriend and those rules can and do still apply.

Sir was great. He didn't make me wonder what he wanted. He pointed me to his Christmas list in September and I've been ticking off the items ever since. I was told under no uncertain terms that socks and shirts and sweaters would be regarded with a high degree of disdain. He was looking for some specific things and I was able to procure 90% of them. I even stuck a few goodies in there for me, like a straight jacket ~grin~.

The thing that we always talk about with regard to D/s relationships is communication. Sir communicated his wants to me, and I gave him a list as well. I'm a submissive, not a clairvoyent, so I don't think our first Christmas would be as good if we hadn't communicated our lists to each other.

He may own my body and my heart, but I still have my own paycheck and I can still choose how I use it more or less. (Though, he did call me last week and told me I wasn't allowed to by another thing when he saw the pile of presents in my apartment that were for him. I'm wondering if that means I should send the straight jacket back....)

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RE: Christmas Present - 12/14/2005 2:03:52 PM

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Hello There,
You could write him a letter about how much he's changed or improved your life, what you love about him, or how you feel being his.
You could write him a poem. You could make cupons with suggestions of play nights where you spoil him. Like turn this in when you'd like to be bathed, massaged, etc.. You could just tell him you'd like X amount of dollars to buy him a present as you really want to. Or you could do something like a very hot strip tease for him.
Sincerely,
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RE: Christmas Present - 12/14/2005 4:21:29 PM

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Yes ask him what he wants, or ask for money for a suprise gift one other sugestion, if you dance, what aboute making a chorography just for him, a spacial dance to perform on Christmas eve for your Master, to show him you want to put alot of time and effort into making him a nice christmas.

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