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MissEnchanted -> RE: Personality Disorders and Mental Illness (11/19/2008 9:22:11 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
I feel for you, MissE! I was in your boat for awhile, and HE is the one who booted me, or who knows how much longer that train wreck would have gone on. I have worked since on losing my desire to "rescue", or at least stopping it before it goes too far. Truly, though, how much CAN we see at the outset? Sometimes new conditions develop, sometimes old ones rarely surface. If we were all 100% truthful about everything on the first date, I don't think anyone would ever leave their houses again!
Lady H,
Happy to hear you derailed that train wreck!
Yes, sometimes we cannot 'see all' from the onset.
The irony here is that he does have early onset Alzheimers and he is also a pain slut, lol. He is also a bit of a maso and I am a bit of a sadist so I am keeping a very watchful eye on my own behavior right now, and directing him to go to others for additional emotional support.
All my normal plans of action to 'correct' went right out the window.
This whole experience has all been very new for me and is starting to affect my health. Not good!
I have to be careful what I ask the Gods for:
Challenges, strength, danger, excitement!
I also asked for peace, support and guidance, so that should be coming right around. I am so glad to have friends that understand.
[;)]
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