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What's on your mind? Kink, Love, Sex, Relationships? - 10/27/2008 9:42:08 PM   
WhiplashSmile2


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Amazing as this might sound, kink and sex have not been so strongly on my mind lately.   It's still there but it's not a front runner of thoughts in my mind lately.  This is coming from somebody that has a high sex drive and thirst for dirty wicked kinky things.

Seems like a lot of people on CM have been making posts regarding relationship aspects and emotional involvement.  I myself have noticed this or at least I'm more tuned into these kind of threads lately.

I'm not sitting here thinking thoughts about the St. Andrews crosses I want to build, about some of the new toys I wanna buy, I'm not even thinking about trying out A TENS unit and feeling the zap of it for the very time, then hooking somebody up to it.  I'm not thinking about the beautiful floggers I have been eyeing up for a bit.   I'm not thinking 1/2 as much about the many twisted things that normally go through my mind.

I'm not too preoccupied with thinking about kink and sex.  I've met somebody really amazing, and well she has more of my attention lately.  Sure she's into kinky things and is into sex.   I'm actually not very worried about sex and kink between us, we know and have a base line understanding of mutual kinks and sexual tastes.

I want for this relationship to work out and be the best that it can humanly be.  Actually, I find myself having to aspire to be a little better and something greater.   When I was dating "the drunk girl with anger issues" there were other aspects about her that I was turning a blind eye to the facts about.  That I did not have any great expectations to live up to, easy to become everything and anything to somebody in her place in life.  Pffffffffffff... enough said.
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RE: What's on your mind? Kink, Love, Sex, Relationships? - 10/27/2008 9:59:18 PM   
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I think you're getting on another jag where these posts would be better served in your journal.

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RE: What's on your mind? Kink, Love, Sex, Relationships? - 10/27/2008 10:22:48 PM   
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Whip.. I'm finding myself falling into the same place...

I hope this one works out for you:)


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RE: What's on your mind? Kink, Love, Sex, Relationships? - 10/27/2008 10:46:29 PM   
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whats on my mind?? dreams of greedy spanking me in real life....

but really...hockey is on my mind....nhl in full swing...makes me happy.

though i need that spanking....its been 6 years since my last one...

however at this rate i wont make it to the usa next year...damn exchange rate..grrrr...1.29 today...1.00 3 weeks ago...sighs...


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RE: What's on your mind? Kink, Love, Sex, Relationships? - 10/27/2008 10:51:53 PM   
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And what does this have to do with general  bdsm?

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RE: What's on your mind? Kink, Love, Sex, Relationships? - 10/27/2008 10:56:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

And what does this have to do with general  bdsm?


the thread is about kink, love, sex.... bdsm is about sex....well 99.99% think it is anyway..


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RE: What's on your mind? Kink, Love, Sex, Relationships? - 10/28/2008 4:52:08 AM   
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Ignoring issues is never a good thing. Being so desperate to be in a relationship that you are in denial about serious problems and incompatibilities is never a good thing.

Kink and sex do not in and of themselves form the basis for a strong relationship.

Good luck with this relationship. Keep the communication open and don't punish her for the ex's errors.

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