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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 7:01:51 PM   
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But that does not negate the fact that the underlying cause of this mess was government intrusion to force financial institutions to loan money to people who could not repay it. 



I dont deny that mandated lending doesnt exist, or that banks are not in business to make money. But there is a difference between taking on risky debt at government gunpoint, and "getting creative" completely on your own in crafting all kinds of ponzi insurance schemes (derivatives) to insure repayment in the face of forced acceptance of risky borrowers.  In fact, the banks loved the loan insurance gimmicks so much they loaned to uncreditworthy people above and beyond the manadates of the government.

The system isnt collapsing from those risky borrowers predictably landing in default. It is collapsing from the liabilites related to the unregulated and inventive loan insurance schemes that banks crafted on their own. Banks chose that route, rather than to simply carry the high risk debt forced onto them by the government and simply weather the storm in the event of default.  The government that mandated the housing lending patterns did not mandate that the banks resort to various schemes of insurance. Again, banks went there on their own.  How ironic that the liabilities from the unregulated insurance schemes far, far, far exceeded the liabilities from the original risky loans in the first place, and are what is bringing those banks down.




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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 7:24:07 PM   
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I dont deny that mandated lending doesnt exist, or that banks are not in business to make money. But there is a difference between taking on risky debt at government gunpoint, and "getting creative" completely on your own in crafting all kinds of ponzi insurance schemes (derivatives) to insure repayment in the face of forced acceptance of risky borrowers. 


And I don't deny that lending institutions got creative.  Both to share the risk forced upon them, and to make money.  All of which is resultant to the government mandaged lending practices.

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In fact, the banks loved the loan insurance gimmicks so much they loaned to uncreditworthy people above and beyond the manadates of the government.


Can you blame them?  The government told Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae to buy up whatever risky sub prime loans they would make.  The more bad loans they made, the more Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae bought.  The government was encouraging this behavior.  C'mon, you can't blame them for doing what the government insisted that they do.

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The system isnt collapsing from those risky borrowers predictably landing in default. It is collapsing from the liabilites related to the unregulated and inventive loan insurance schemes that banks crafted on their own.


False.  Those unregulated and inventive loan insurance schemes would be quietly spreading risk (as they were designed to do) amongst many financial institutions today, if it were not for the sub prime loan mess.  Remove the sub prime fiasco, and there are no collapsing liabilities.  It's really quite simple in the cause and effect.

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Banks chose that route, rather than to simply carry the high risk debt forced onto them by the government and simply weather the storm in the event of default. 


Not just yes, but hell yes.  They're not idiots... why would they carry that liability all by themselves?  You must suppose them to be morons.

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The government that mandated the housing lending patterns did not mandate that the banks resort to various schemes of insurance.


Nope, they didn't.  But lending institutions were not going to sit idly by while the government screwed with their balance sheets.  One of the problems with governmental social engineering is that they presume a static environment... that nothing will change, and certainly nothing will change due to their policies.  That's why they're continually surprised when tax increases yield less revenue, and tax reductions create increased revenue.  It's because people change their behaviors based upon the changing environment.  And the same is true of financial institutions.
 
Bottom line is that you have a bunch of politicians making policy for financial institutions, and are wholly unqualified to be doing so.  Why would anyone be surprised that they would make a mess of it?

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Again, banks went there on their own.  How ironic that the liabilities from the unregulated insurance schemes far, far, far exceeded the liabilities from the original risky loans in the first place, and are what is bringing those banks down.


In that regard, you're right... it is ironic.  They were supposed to be spreading liability so that it was shared, rather than having it fall on individual lending institutions.  And it would have worked had it not been for the collapse of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac and the sub prime industry.  Government didn't even hold up their end of the bargain on that end. 
 
And when the value of those securities plummeted, the mark to market rules implemented by congress after Enron caused them to become insolvent... another congressional screw up.  And as they lost solvency, they hoarded their money to meet federal banking requirements, and that led to the loss of interbank lending.  More federal regulation.... all well intended, all with unforseen disasterous results.
 
You want villians in this situation?  There are plenty to go around, I agree.  But chief amongst them are those folks under the dome in Washington.
 
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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 7:25:26 PM   
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I think I can sum up the principle you are elaborating on with one statement.   Never give the poloticians you agree with and trust any power you wouldn't give those you disagree with and distrust, because they will all use that power. 


Well said!!  By way of example, how many of you would be willing to put George Bush in charge of your health care?  You don't give that right to the person, you give it to the office.  And eventually, someone you really don't like is gonna occupy that office.
 
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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 7:52:44 PM   
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So say you. I see no supportive evidence. Cute sounding rhetoric, though.


I invite you to scour the Constitution of the United States for evidence of the furthering of any faith within it, or the mention of "God". It seems clear to me our founding Fathers, though many were men of faith, did this for a purpose.

As for evidence of the current administration's lack of primary regard for the constitution or the true welfare of the American people, one need only glance at the debacle that is Iraq, or the firings of eight U.S Attorneys to suit what we can only speculate about ad infinitum. How many times did Mr. Gonzales state "I can't recall" when questioned?




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History is not theory.



When used in the context of spinning it to refuse seeing the faults of an administration and its ties to religious zealotry, it certainly becomes so. That is the "cutest" form of rhetoric there is, in fact, and one of the most dangerous for a state of any form.




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Need I remind you that we have a Democrat controlled Senate and House. Any revisions will be their doing. The President does not make legislation.



And need I remind you it wasn't too long ago we had a republican dominated White House and Senate, the legislative and policy affects of which we are still feeling, and will for some time to come? The current dysfunctional arrangement between the White House and the House is a result of mismanaged power, from the way I see it; otherwise so many republican seats would not have been lost, per the vote of the people, and we would not have such a combative Speaker toward the President's policies.

Regarding legislation, the President can certainly influence the formation or revision of it, sign one bill or another into legality, and through his mandated authority, combined with the resulting sway of his cabinet and party, carry out the way a law is enforced...or circumvented. I honestly don't think that's too hard to see.

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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 7:55:20 PM   
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Being that we call America the land of the free,
 
I was just wondering how other countries viewed the Bdsm lifestyle?
 
I know that America is pretty laid back, and unless someone is killed by the lifestyle, I know that what we do in our own homes is private to us and the World doesn't have to know about it.
 
Any thoughts?
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"Man can't create Woman, but he sure can create gods."

 
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Well, we may *call* America the land of the free, but I'd have to agree with other posters that other developed countries are much "freer."  I'm thinking Holland in particular, at least the last time I was there.

I've been wondering if there is any type of scene in Jamaica, actually.

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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 8:08:02 PM   
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False.  Those unregulated and inventive loan insurance schemes would be quietly spreading risk (as they were designed to do) amongst many financial institutions today, if it were not for the sub prime loan mess.  Remove the sub prime fiasco, and there are no collapsing liabilities.  It's really quite simple in the cause and effect.



LOL, Thats like saying "the financial house of cards built by all the insurance initiatives would not have collapsed had there not been a weak card at the bottom".

How ironic that the "quietly spreading" part is precisely what has the financial world so freaked out now, because nobody knows what risk went where, and when it will eventually turn up bad.

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But lending institutions were not going to sit idly by while the government screwed with their balance sheets.



I take it that financial institutions making consequent choices that hinge on zero default in the system to not trigger implosion of everything is the far better outcome then? ( <--- thats sarcasm)

For the record, Im not for the mandates either. But the unqualified minimum wage guy that so many in financial circles are quick to place full blame on has 10% of the responsibility for the entire scope of the problem. The derivatives peddler has 50%, government 20%, and brokers chasing fees without applying litmus tests 20%.



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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 8:16:25 PM   
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FR! Gah! Left! Right! Stock brokers! Bankers! Who cares. You are all off topic! Lets talk about some ass beating in other countries! *grumbles a bit*


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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 8:31:55 PM   
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If you took my statement to mean that the right does not also curtain rights, allow me to disabuse you of that notion.  I took issue with the curtailment of rights as being exclusively assigned to the right, and provided a few examples thereof.  Government curtails our rights... politicians curtail our rights... regardless of their party... because they want to be perceived as "doing something" even if that something turns out to be the wrong thing.  It is a product of having convinced people to look to the government to cure all the ills of society. 



Read carefully.  Never did I say the left does not also curtail personal rights.  In fact, I'm surprised that you missed my 2nd sentence stating quite clearly that "both the left and right curtail personal rights."  The rest of your response contradicts your first statement.  Previously, you stated quite matter of factly:  "it's the left which curtails your personal right."  Now I see you've broadened that to the "government...regardless of their party."  Hmm...

 
Please reread what I wrote... I believe you misunderstood it. 

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People who vote for politicians seeking to limit choices concerning our bodies, our personal beliefs, etc implicitly choose to have their rights curtailed concerning these matters.


See, that's not how it works, though.   If you allow someone's rights to be curtailed, then everyone's rights are curtailed.  Rights are not doled out to each of us individually.  They are all of ours, collectively.  And if you allow one group to be singled out, you have provided justification for you to be singled out.

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Again, please read carefully.  How does making available more information and choices for the public to see and decide on for themselves equate to the government deciding what's good or bad for you??  I'm concerned about your sweeping generalizations and assumptions.  Where is the support for this? 


Because they do not require this of all restaurants, just those that serve fast food.  Just those restaurants that the government has deemed "bad".  So the government uses scare tactics... making one choice seem awful by comparison to some ideal, but not doing so for others engaged in the same business for whom no such comparison is made.  It's selective.  It has the specific intention of affecting a selected group's business in a negative manner.  I assure you, you will feel differently if and when your business is similarly selected for reasons unknown to you at this time, but for which the government will have a justifiable pretense.  Afterall, you have already given them the justification.

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In terms of school prayer and abortion, I'm going to stick with my point that you missed (again), and state that there should be choices.  Parents/children should be able to choose between options.  Some schools have a "moment of silence" in which students can CHOOSE to do anything from homework, pray, sleep, etc.  That's what I'm advocating for --choices!


Then you would be in favor of setting aside Roe v. Wade.  Doing so would not make abortion illegal.  It would simply afford the citizens of each state the freedom to choose whether they wanted to allow abortions or not, rather than having judges force it upon them.  Even abortion rights advocates understand that Roe v. Wade is bad law, and that the creation of new rights under the premise of the right to privacy has had all sorts of deleterious unintended consequences.  The court did not need to do so, it could have easily decided Roe v. Wade under the existing Interstate Commerce clause, without the attendant consequences of creating a new bill of rights.

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Yes, they do.  They infringe upon the property rights of American citizens.  The folks who own bars and restaurants are no longer free to do what they want in the confines of their own property.  It's no different than telling you what you can and can't do inside your own home.  And that's coming... because you've already established the precendent for it.
 
You may think you're "doing good", but the unintended consequences, although not unforseeable, do more harm than good.


It's not as simple as you might think.  There are issues concerning employee's rights and whether they have a right to work in a healthy environment where they're not exposed to secondhand smoke. 


Employees have every right not to apply for a job in a smoking environment on privately owned property.  What you're proposing (and I know, you are far from the only one or the first one to use this tactic) is the same as an employee suing an adult movie company because they are exposed to nudity in the workplace.  You don't like it, don't work there.  No one is forcing you to.

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Another issue:  if you establish a place of business that's open to the general public, there are liability issues concerning their safety and well-being.  For instance, if someone injures themselves in your place of business and it's reasonable that an injury could have occurred, you may face liability issues. 


Yes, that's why business owners carry liabililty insurance.  What's your point?

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Yet another issue:  your place of business is NOT equal to your own home as your reply suggests. 


Yes, it is.  In fact, many bars ARE their places of residence as well.  I know because my uncle owned a bar, and lived on the upstairs floor.  The Constitution does not distinguish between private property used as your domicile, and private property used for your business.  It is all just, simply, private property.

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Your place of business is subject to a much higher degree of scrutiny than your own home.  For instance, if your place of business is a place of public accommodation or a place of entertainment, you are subject to laws that don't apply in your own home.  Restaurants, bars, and nightclubs apply.  Property rights do not apply across the board for all properties. 

 
Actually, property rights do apply across the board for all properties.  What you describe are property responsibilities, not rights.  And government does have the right to license businesses, and to attach certain responsibilities to those licenses.  Loss of use is not one of those responsibilities.  Requiring a sprinkler system, for instance, does not limit the owner's use of that property at all. 

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You do not have a right to be in a privately owned property.  You have no right to be in a restaurant or bar.  An owner can refuse you entry for any reason at all, or no reason, and you have no recourse.  It is their property to do with as they please, and you have no more right of entry or use at their place of business than you do in their home.


You could not be more wrong.  I have every right to be in a restaurant or bar thanks to the good old Civil Rights Act of 1964 that prevents owners from refusing "[me] entry for any reason at all" according to you.  See  U. S. v. DeRosier, 473 F.2d 749 (5th Cir. 1973)


Funny you should cite this particular case, since it was decided on the same Interstate Commerce clause that Roe v. Wade should have been.  In US v. DeRosier, the government had to demonstrate that the bar included a form of entertainment that was derived from interstate commerce in order for the federal court to have jurisdiction.  The lower court ruled that the presence of a juke box, shuffle board and pool table were insufficient.  But the appellate court (in this case) ruled broadly that such games did constitute interstate commerce, giving the federal government legal standing.
 
In point of fact, all this ruling did was to remand the case to a lower court so that the government could present a case that the defendants had violated the 1964 Civil Rights Act. 
 
You're mixing apples and oranges again.  A good law professor would never allow you to get away with this.
 
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As it relates to publicly owned property, I agree.  As it relates to privately owned property, you are under no obligation to enter if the environment does not suit you.


As long as it's not a public place of business.


If this concept were allowed to continue, it would result in the closing of any private enterprise engaged in public business that offended even a single person.  Which means that it would close every private business, because any of them offend at least someone.  Jewish and Islamic patrons could sue restaurants that serve pork.  Blue haired spinsters could sue strip clubs.  Certain religious sects could sue hospitals and doctors.  Irregardless of the fact that they are not in business to serve their needs, but simply because they are offended that their needs are not being served.  Sorry, this is nonsensical.

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And non-smokers can choose to go where owners allow smoking, or they can choose to go where owners do not allow smoking.  How are they denied choice?  The only choice you want to deny is that of the smoker... you want to ensure that there is no place that allows smoking.


Please don't put words into my mouth.  "you want to ensure that there is no place that allows smoking.Again, sweeping generalizations. I never uttered such a thing. 


If smoking in privately owned property becomes illegal, as it is already illegal in public facilities, then what places are left that will allow smoking?  No sweeping generalization, just common sense.

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Okay, it's quite clear to me that you're basing most, if not all of your arguments under the fallacy that owners of private property can do whatever they please on their property. This  does not apply to places of public accommodation or places of entertainment. 


That is true as it relates to the 1964 Civil Rights Act.  What cases do you cite for restriction of use?  Please cite your sources.

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Since, we're talking about anti-smoking laws, which regulate bars, restaurants, clubs, nightclubs, etc, (all of which apply under places of public accommodation/entertainment) what you say has no merit.  We're not talking about a person's place of residence. 


It's nice that you think it has no merit.  But what court thinks that it has no merit.  Please cite your cases. 
 
And assuming there are cases to cite, it would merely be an example of depriving citizens of their Constitutionally protected rights to property ownership via judicial fiat.  Worse than legislating from the bench, it's rewriting Constitutional law from the bench.  By faceless, nameless, unelected judges.  Our Constitution already has a clear process by which it can be amended.  Nowhere does it list judicial fiat.


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Again, read carefully.  I did not say I validate eminent domain in all cases.  I said it depends on what it's used for, whom it will benefit, and to what extent.  If the conveyance resulted in a greater good for the neighborhood in terms of generating revenue, increasing property value, etc, then yes, maybe the court was justified. 


But that is not the Constitutional standard for eminent domain, which allows for the expropriation of private property for "public use" (ie: bridges, roads, stadiums, etc).  Not for the "public good".  Not to take from one private citizen to give to another private citizen.  And until Kelo v. New London, no such thing could have been thought possible in America.  But again, the judiciary decided that amending the Constitution was a long and arduous process (and purposely so).  So much easier to simply dispense with it, and allow the court to rewrite it themselves. 

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BUT this is a blurred line because it's hard to estimate the future benefit before it actually occurs, and it's always easy to go back and validate or dismiss what you once believed was right.


The only line that is blurred now is whether you actually own property, or are simply a caretaker for it until the government decides it will benefit from someone else owning it.
 
John

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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 8:39:09 PM   
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You do not wish to debate... you wish to make political speeches. 
 
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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 8:53:39 PM   
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False.  Those unregulated and inventive loan insurance schemes would be quietly spreading risk (as they were designed to do) amongst many financial institutions today, if it were not for the sub prime loan mess.  Remove the sub prime fiasco, and there are no collapsing liabilities.  It's really quite simple in the cause and effect.



LOL, Thats like saying "the financial house of cards built by all the insurance initiatives would not have collapsed had there not been a weak card at the bottom".


Yeah, it's like saying that no matter how strongly the house was built, it will collapse onto a weak foundation.  House of cards or house of bricks, it would not have mattered.  Congress eviscerated the financial foundation.

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How ironic that the "quietly spreading" part is precisely what has the financial world so freaked out now, because nobody knows what risk went where, and when it will eventually turn up bad.


Yep, I've agreed that it is indeed ironic.  In hind sight, it's a mistake.  No one is arguing to the contrary.  But it is a mistake borne of necessity (ie: congressional meddling).  Even if it were not a mistake, we'd simply have the same institutions failing because they were not able to spread the risk around.  Kind of a damned if you do, damned if you don't.  And congress did the damning.

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I take it that financial institutions making consequent choices that hinge on zero default in the system to not trigger implosion of everything is the far better outcome then? ( <--- thats sarcasm)


In case you missed it, Congress had assured them that these defaults wouldn't happen.  They said they were backed by Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac... backed by the government.  But whooops... Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac tanked.  Under the watchful eye of Congress.  And now we want them to watch the rest of the industry?  Pfffftttt.  How many crisis do they need to cause before you stop trusting them?  And that was the bank's problem... they trusted Congress.

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For the record, Im not for the mandates either. But the unqualified minimum wage guy that so many in financial circles are quick to place full blame on has 10% of the responsibility for the entire scope of the problem. The derivatives peddler has 50%, government 20%, and brokers chasing fees without applying litmus tests 20%.


And that is your personal assessment of blame.  Not surprisingly, Congress will see it quite differently.  And I see it differently yet.  We had a system that worked quite well for quite a long time, before government decided to meddle in it.  And before you bring up the Crash of '29, read about how the meddling of the government is what turned a crash similar to what we had in the both the eighties and nineties into the Great Depression. 
 
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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 9:54:31 PM   
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Someone mentioned about the Netherlands
being laid back?
 
I've had a friend visit Amsterdam and he says it is
really laid back there.
 

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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 10:17:26 PM   
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You do not wish to debate... you wish to make political speeches.


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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 10:29:54 PM   
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That was me...I think there's not much illegal in Amsterdam.  They have, or at least did when I was there, pot bars, legal prostitution, etc.

I STILL want to know about a scene in Jamaica.  Anyone here from Jamaica? 

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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 11:16:01 PM   
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Any thoughts?


Not so much thoughts as mirth, really.

Land of the free reminds me of that banner with a picture of Osama and the text "I'm still free, what about you?"
And laid back does not seem to describe the American attitude to sex, let alone BDSM.
Of course, if you're comparing to the Middle East, you may have a point.

Else, I would note that we've had American tourists insist we cover national treasures- like the statues in our parks- apparently because they are considered obscene...

Some various activities that can't be listed due to the CollarMe terms of service are acceptable. As I had it explained (and matching my observations and such), a significant portion- perhaps the majority- of our youth has tried handcuffs, been invited to gangbangs (though fewer have accepted such invites), perform oral as a routine part of their sex life, have at least had requests for anal (fewer accept, for obvious reasons, although Catholic girls have usually tried it), and have tried spanking or similar forms of light play at least once. Outdoors sex is reasonably common, and well tolerated if it isn't performed in a public place (although a few of our art parks are popular places for it). Girlie mags cover techniques and such on a regular basis. An acquaintance tried to have her pet pass as an animal on the subway, which occasioned a smile on the part of the ticket guy. I've been asked whether I'd like to fuck 20 minutes after showing a woman where to find the next book in a series she was reading, after a chance encounter at the bookstore.

Homosexuality and bisexuality are a matter of course, with marriages being a routine thing, and it is protected by antidiscrimination laws. Adoption is permitted for same-sex couples. Several prominent figures are openly homosexual or bisexual, including the former minister of finance. One particular orientation requires celibacy, and can't be mentioned on CM, but has been publicly admitted by the most successful minister of family affairs and child welfare. Polygamous groups cannot yet marry, but a proposal to allow it has been forwarded. There are sex toy shops in cities of a couple of thousand inhabitants, and people with deficiencies in this area can have such toys covered in the same manner as someone with other disabilities could get a wheelchair or the like. BDSM is reasonably well-known and accepted, but there is a slight distance to go in regard to the formalities, although it is possible for M/s couples to voluntarily appoint the dominant party as the legal guardian of the slave. Sadism and masochism is well-tolerated, but the line is generally drawn at grievous bodily harm.

While the US is debating whether to permit gay marriage, we're discussing whether to permit group marriages.
While the US is teaching abstinence in schools, we're covering BDSM, fetishes and alternate relationships.
While the US is pondering the HPV vaccine, we're pondering condom vending machines in high schools.

You debate the meaning of obscenity in court; we're more concerned with what the animal welfare society thinks of, well...
Your age of consent is 18 in some states, while we are debating whether we should lower it to 14.
You outlaw prostitutes, while we are considering a trial run with certified brothels.

Missionary position is considered a way to conceive, not have sex.

I wouldn't necessarily say that we are a liberal country, but I think you might want to rethink any notion of the US as a progressive, liberal or tolerant country with regard to human sexuality and the diversity of its expression, or with regard to human relationship types and family configurations. There will still be areas to improve for decades in our part of the world, but yours is stuck in the Middle Ages by comparison. When a high-school student answers the question "what's the kinkiest thing you've ever done" with a balled fist and a smug "sticking my arm up to the elbow in a guy's ass," then you'd be cordially welcome to get back to me on this.

Meanwhile, I would say "land of moral outrage" seems more apt...

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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 11:20:12 PM   
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If it wasnt for the seasons there, Aswad, I'd move there...LOL

(how the hell did this thread get so derailed???)


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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 11:21:32 PM   
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Some people challenged Rover. 

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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/29/2008 11:22:35 PM   
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oh.

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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/30/2008 4:38:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: zakkan

Some people challenged Rover. 


Actually, some people brought partisan politics here to an unrelated thread.  And I chose not to let their misstatements stand without reply, as that would give them the appearance of truth.
 
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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/30/2008 6:16:05 AM   
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Actually, some people brought partisan politics here to an unrelated thread.
 
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that's rich! Like you don't, huh?


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RE: Dominance in other Countries? - 10/30/2008 8:39:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: moonvine

That was me...I think there's not much illegal in Amsterdam.  They have, or at least did when I was there, pot bars, legal prostitution, etc.

I STILL want to know about a scene in Jamaica.  Anyone here from Jamaica? 



There is enough still illegal overhere.
Prostitution and pot is legal...with in limits and heavily controlled by the state.
They do this to take away mafia control.

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