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Max1000 -> When did it start? (10/30/2008 2:40:20 PM)
I'm very curious about where peoples fetishes originate from and when they realised they had slightly skewed urges. I wonder mainly because I remember when first got aroused by the idea of a dominant woman and even decades later the memory is still completely ridiculous to me. You ready for this? Years ago Marvel comics had a series called 'Power Pack' which was a comic about pre-teen superheores. Like a Superhero Harry Potter I suppose but very lame. I remember buying it as a kid when I was say seven or eight. Anywho there was one issue where they team came under the spell of an evil adult super villaness who turned all the team bad and controlled them. Eventually one team mate broke free of the spell and against the odds saved everyone. Or something silly like that. Pretty derivitive stuff. Anyway I remember how back then, even before I knew what sex was, bing totally enamoured with this dominant, beautiful woman in control. And thus the seed was sewn. Anyone else care to share?

mistoferin -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 2:50:02 PM)
Yeah, I was about 3 and it all started with Penelope Pittstop and Polly Purebred. They were always getting tied up on some train tracks or some huge saw was about to slice them in half. I'd take all the toys out of my toybox, climb in, close the door, pretend I was one of them and masturbate.

IvyMorgan -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 2:59:23 PM)
I was about 14 and fantasising about being tied up. About 17 before I started being sexually aroused by it, and 22 before I felt comfortable enough to do anything about it.

CallaFirestormBW -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:18:09 PM)
I was 7, and my parents took me to the Midway at the State Fair, where I saw my very first tattooed man, and my very first flame-swallower. Then, when I was 11, I saw a documentary on Sun Ceremony, and they talked about the warriors piercing their chests with sticks tied to a pole, and dancing around the pole with no food and no drink until they ripped themselves free... and the same year, I saw a film in World History about the Maori, and their intricate tattoos... I was hooked. Of course, I was also the only kid in my grade school who -liked- getting the TB test done, and who didn't mind giving blood (except for arterial blood gasses, which hurt goldarnit!... and not in a good way!)

Max1000 -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:23:47 PM)
Well I'm glad someone else posted there. I thought I was going to have a tumble weed moment and sit her in awkward silence.

RealSub58 -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:24:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Yeah, I was about 3 and it all started with Penelope Pittstop and Polly Purebred. They were always getting tied up on some train tracks or some huge saw was about to slice them in half. I'd take all the toys out of my toybox, climb in, close the door, pretend I was one of them and masturbate. Wonders if a toddler of 3 yrs masturbates?? [sm=dunno.gif]

xenboi -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:26:50 PM)
Not sure of the exact age but before I became a teenager, I used to enjoy watching magic shows. My favorite part was always the part where the magician's assistant was restrained or put in a straight jacket, or locked up in a little box, ready to have swords inserted into it. Then when I became a teenager, a female friend and I were messing around and I tied her up for a joke and locked her in the cupboard. To my surprise I got enormously turned on by it and tried to persuade her to do the same to me. She didn't go for it!

leadership527 -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:28:35 PM)
In a serious way? Last November 16th... 7:30-ish PM. My wife brought me a collar and asked to be collared. That kind of got the ball rolling for me laughs

SailingBum -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:31:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Yeah, I was about 3 and it all started with Penelope Pittstop and Polly Purebred. They were always getting tied up on some train tracks or some huge saw was about to slice them in half. I'd take all the toys out of my toybox, climb in, close the door, pretend I was one of them and masturbate. Impressive at 3 wow. BadOne

RealSub58 -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:33:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Max1000 Well I'm glad someone else posted there. I thought I was going to have a tumble weed moment and sit her in awkward silence. Tumble weeds only move with the wind ! Am still trying to remember child psychology and if a toddler knows what masterbating is !! I have had a vivid dream (started about age 7) over the years stemming from real life experience.As a youngster we lived near a Tanzanian village and we would often go and play with the kids. There was a one legged elder that was a bit off in the brain and all the kids use to run and hide when he came into the village. (real) My dream continues... I was left alone with no where to hide. Crying, terrifed I was waiting for my "knight in shining armour."

Mercnbeth -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:34:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RealSub58 quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Yeah, I was about 3 and it all started with Penelope Pittstop and Polly Purebred. They were always getting tied up on some train tracks or some huge saw was about to slice them in half. I'd take all the toys out of my toybox, climb in, close the door, pretend I was one of them and masturbate. Wonders if a toddler of 3 yrs masturbates?? [sm=dunno.gif] this slave did at 5...and as soon as it was discovered, got the business end of a flyswatter for it.

mistoferin -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:35:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RealSub58 Wonders if a toddler of 3 yrs masturbates?? [sm=dunno.gif] Well I don't know what you might technically call it but that's pretty much what it was. My mom was forever after me to "stop diddlin" so I'd go off to where she couldn't see me. That's probably where my notion of it being a "bad" thing that I should feel guilty about started too. I think it's pretty common in young children. I know I made sure I never told my own it was a "bad" thing....I just stressed it was something they should do in private.

RealSub58 -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:42:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 In a serious way? Last November 16th... 7:30-ish PM. My wife brought me a collar and asked to be collared. That kind of got the ball rolling for me laughs At least you knew what the collar meant and could play ball ! I see the scenerio like a mini movie....... you take the collar, look at it, as she kneels in front of you, look at her, instinctively put it around her neck, thread your fingers through her hair, grab hard and pull her to yourself as you pinch her hard nipple fiercely. Huskily whispering as your warm hot aroused breath floats in her ear..... "That's my girl. Tell me, what is your desire?" [:)]

IvyMorgan -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:46:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 In a serious way? Last November 16th... 7:30-ish PM. My wife brought me a collar and asked to be collared. That kind of got the ball rolling for me laughs All the best things happen on November 16th :)

tweedydaddy -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:46:36 PM)
I recall sitting in front of a TV in the sixties waiting for the bondage scenes in Batman and the fact that Batgirl always smiled at the baddie when she was being tied up, and listening to Catwoman purr. I recall watching every episode of the Avengers where the stunning Mrs Peel, usually in a fetishy outfit was tied up, tormented and then kicked the lunch out of people. In the Uk in the sixties it was impossible not to see somebody being tied up. Naturally we acted everything out at school....

marieToo -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:47:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth this slave did at 5...and as soon as it was discovered, got the business end of a flyswatter for it. Jesus Christ.

JustDarkness -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 3:53:34 PM)
quote: this slave did at 5...and as soon as it was discovered, got the business end of a flyswatter for it. you propably still get that reward ;)

WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:02:21 PM)
The roots of many of my kinks can be traced back to my childhood and early teenage years. I actually had a lot strong fantasies involving watersports when I was in 4th Grade. Not certain the exact source, just remember the time period when it all started. I used to love doing magic tricks, including escape tricks and such. Sort of got me into bondage. Of course the girl next door was my assisent for a lot of things that slowly evoled from innocent into more serious play. All kind of twisted how it happened. Hell, I had build a homemade bed of nails after watching it on Ripley's Believe it or not. The things I did and first experimented with way back then. Knife play, hot wax play. Her and I started off making something called Huricane Candles. Glass Coke Bottles with different colors of Wax intentionally flowed and cooled down the sides of the bottle. Getting it on us felt neat. Was not long before we stopped making Candle holders and were pouring wax all over each other. She was in her panties and I was in my underwear as well. Pretty much almost naked for the most part. Then more things that happened.. Rape Play without going all the way and having sex with it. Breath Play, plastic bags, face slapping, hair pulling, rough stuff... too many things to list really. All these things started happening around the time I was 13 years old. Before that I had some experiences. Got some ideas from the things I watched on TV, and such. Basically anything that turned me on or excieted me.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:03:11 PM)
Toddlers and youngsters often masturbate. Usually they are trained out of it to be discovered again later, or taught to do it alone and in private (or they are shamed). Got me where they came from, and they've always been part of my wordly understandings in this life. http://www.collarchat.com/m_744252/mpage_1/key_nature%252Cnurture/tm.htm#744266 Do you think you were "born this way"? http://www.collarchat.com/m_691960/mpage_1/key_nature%252Cnurture/tm.htm#691984 naturally Ds? http://www.collarchat.com/m_499963/mpage_1/key_nature%252Cnurture/tm.htm#499979 Nature or nurture? http://www.collarchat.com/m_307130/mpage_1/key_nature%252Cnurture/tm.htm#307130 Do you feel being a dom/me is innate or can be learned? http://www.collarchat.com/m_461558/mpage_1/key_nature%252Cnurture/tm.htm#461558 hard-wired, why why why! http://www.collarchat.com/m_143698/mpage_1/key_born%252Craised/tm.htm#143698 nature versus nurture http://www.collarchat.com/m_760860/mpage_2/key_nature%252Cnurture/tm.htm#761518 born to serve? http://www.collarchat.com/m_468650/mpage_1/key_nature%252Cnurture/tm.htm#468650 nature vs nurture http://www.collarchat.com/m_35901/mpage_1/key_learned%252Cborn/tm.htm#35901 born or learned, how we become dom?

Mercnbeth -> RE: When did it start? (10/30/2008 4:04:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustDarkness quote: this slave did at 5...and as soon as it was discovered, got the business end of a flyswatter for it. you propably still get that reward ;) nope, it wasn't perceived as a reward then, it was punishment for being BAD...and this slave doesn't *ever* get the business end of a flyswatter now. masturbating, with permission, is fully allowed in Master's house, but not something that is rewarded...unless she is masturbating HIM.[;)]

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