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DesFIP -> RE: Is mental incapacity in a person a deal breaker for you (11/6/2008 8:00:29 AM)
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Actually I'm going to say that strong, nurturing relationships do not help alleviate severe chronic, clinical depression. That's because I have spent years prior to the development of SSRIs suffering from that. What I can tell you is that my constant illness was probably one of the pressures that caused my parents' marriage to fracture.
Instead of their love helping me, my illness helped to destroy their relationship.
Nobody is strong enough to give and give, without being given back to. Eventually your well of love and energy runs out unless it is fed also. And I say this as both the person with the illness and as the caregiver of a severely bipolar child who cycles every five minutes. This kind of relentless need tears people apart.
With that said, I doubt it was the op's depression that caused this domme to turn him down, but his manipulative victim fetish as shown by his deliberate misquoting and misinterpreting of other people in order to put them all in the wrong while presenting himself as this poor, saintly type. However since most people here are more than able to see through such a pose, he has already gotten his comeuppance, not to mention ensured that no smart domme here will want someone who makes a habit of being this abusive towards total strangers.
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