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PeonForHer -> RE: Spoiled Rotten (11/5/2008 4:08:21 AM)
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Venatrix,
It's strange how we sometimes need to see the reverse of what we want in order to figure out what we do want.
A bit of Hegel for you, then. Some thesis, antithesis, then synthesis. [;)] Seriously, that "oppositional" way of thinking is so useful, I find. You don't know what "it" is unless you're also clear about what "not it" is, too.
I'm really not too keen on being spoilt rotten, but perhaps I could manage being spoilt just past my sell-by date.
You may feel the need to re-define yourself in terms of the sort of relationship you want, but please don't think of changing your style of humour or of writing. As they say, "If it ain't [sic] broke [sic] don't fix it" [:D]
For my own part, I'm not sure that subs generally expect the same level of pampering as people in general, as Lockit says. However, to me and using Akasha's own term, someone who's "spoilt rotten" is exactly that - rotten. There'd be a point where, for me, I'd begin to lose respect for the woman in question because, basically, she'd start to look like that child of five that you mentioned earlier. I wouldn't want a female version of Caligula as a domme . . .
Good luck in all, V.
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