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Mastered, Mastering, to be or not to be - 12/17/2005 2:29:17 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		Heh. That is the question!

So i have an interesting question, that arises from a conversation i had last night. About dreams and what not. Little background. (you know you want to read a 5 page essay!)

i usually get death, destruction, morbid, ppl trying to kill me and others dying dreams. Usually in graphic detail. Limbs ripped off the body? No problem! Blood pouring from various bullet wounds? No problem! Bodies falling 40 floors to the ground? No problem! (boy i tell ya i never knew how bent bones could get till that dream) i usually sum up the dreams as "armagedon" dreams. As pretty much the whole world is being attacked by something and ppl are dying left and right. Though thats not always the scene. Sometimes its death on a smaller level. i mean i dream of falling from an airplane and landing 200 years in the future and there's dinosaurs in the park at night eating ppl. Ok? They're morbyd.

And they arent scary. Now i have noticed that i dont really have them anymore. i cant not remember the last time i had one. And they used to come very frequently. Um almost like all the time. i'm not dreaming them anymore, because oddly enough, i am dreaming of something else. Master. Every night, he is in my dreams. They're good dreams too. No morbyd, not death. Not mass murder. i dream of him and they're like NORMAL dreams. Well normal for me. One i can remember at the moment is of him and i driving to Amsterdam. Actually its a strange dream as he wasnt in the first half and the first half was heading towards morbyd.

Some girl got raped in the dream (might of been me) and was left out in the russian cold, and snow. i remember a man and a a robot and some other wierd things and the girl was naked out there. (things werent looking good for her) Its been awhile since i had that dream, bear with me. but i do remember the switch over. Which is all i remember really. From the cold naked girl in the snow and the man standing up on the hill at the house looking down at her the dream switches to me riding in a car with Master heading towards Amsterdam.

So he does STOP the morbyd dreams. Are ya with me? (i could give more examples, but for the fact no one wants to read a 5 page essay)

Come to find out what a logical reason for this is.

"Part of your mind feels it has no control so what it sees is often wrecked
THE image oof broken bones and mangled bodies represents an inability to make things right
Most likely because before control was lacking and now you are able to put that control in him.
So long as there is control, the bodies need not be mangled"

(thank you a certain some one for letting me quote you)

Another certian some one explained what the quoted ment. Cos well, i'm abit in left field for all this.

Basically i cam connected to him on a subconscious level and he allays my fears on a subconsious level.

Which brings us to the next step. Being Mastered. Now i KNOW, (cant deny it if i tried) that he has tamed me. i could give multiple instances of before and afters. You'll just have to go with me on this. (unless you are really interested in that 5 page essay)

Is being "tamed" the same as being "Mastered"? WHAT is MASTERED? Whats that mean? Whats the ins and outs of it? Anyone have some sort of a definetion so i can use it to look at things and wonder idly in my own little head if its true? i am soooooo dang curious. Because personally, i have ALWAYS considered myself way too wild and crazy to be Mastered. So technically in my little brain, Riotgirl + Him = Mastered? Impossible! So i tried to break it down. Riot divided by Girl pluls H divided by im = Mastered? Definetly doesnt sound right. So its impossible!

but for curiousities sake. WHAT does "Mastered" mean? What does it mean to be Mastered? What are the signs and symptoms of it? (and i'd look it up on WebMD, but i doubt they have it there)
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RE: Mastered, Mastering, to be or not to be - 12/17/2005 2:41:29 PM   
MTslave


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Status: offline 		This is such an excellent question..... thinks I'll go off to ponder some before answering... but this is one of those questions that I signed up here for... -does a little happy dance-

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RE: Mastered, Mastering, to be or not to be - 12/17/2005 3:15:41 PM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		Interesting,, I'm not sure what it is to be mastered? I love being submissive but I don't think anyone will ever master me either. I just can't picture it. hmmm interesting about the dreams and the control.. hmmm makes me think

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RE: Mastered, Mastering, to be or not to be - 12/17/2005 5:15:48 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I think being mastered means that someone will always know how to go about getting you where they want you to go.

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RE: Mastered, Mastering, to be or not to be - 12/17/2005 7:53:41 PM   
MTslave


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ok... I've thought about this all day now and I don't think I'm any closer to making sense now then I was earlier .. but I'll give it a shot.

Mastering

Mastering is when he knows what I'm thinking before I finish the thought myself
It is when he smiles knowingly, waiting for me to voice it even though he knows...

Mastering is when I can sit and listen to constructive criticism with an open mind and not become offended and fly off the handle. When I hear the love behind his words and know that he's just trying to express what I truly asked him for.

Mastering is when he knows the nights when I would really rather stay in my holey flannel pj's and eat ice cream from the carton watching 'You've Got Mail' for the upteenth time, and wonderfully doesn't say a word about it.

Mastering is when I accept that there just are things which are not tolerated and that it was my own free will that put me there... and so by my own free will I accept it and make the most of every boundary and limitation.

Mastering is when he plays my body like the London Philharmonic.... when he knows just where to touch... just how much pressure... just how much pain... just how much torture I can take before my subconsious rises up and sets up walls.... yet he always knows that I go just a little further each time...

But to me... in my simple opinion... true Mastery is...

When he knows when to lean on me, and I am strong and leading. When he can show his weakness and not be afraid of losing his domination. Of when I can see him at his most devastating moment and still see the truly wonderful Master I gave my will to.


Just my thoughts
Master T's imp

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RE: Mastered, Mastering, to be or not to be - 12/17/2005 8:32:21 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the responses. The whole "dream" thing has kind of wierded me out. So what i'm being told is he affects my "fears" on a subconscious level? A friend of mine, calls him my magic pill. The magic pill that makes everything bad go away. Which he does, especially in my dreams. Which i suppose isnt all that odd, as i've dreamt of one other before. But they're even wierder dreams. i dream of my x and the girl he left me for. Heh! The 3 of us in my dream! Which do turn abit morbyd sometimes. Bombs start counting down, ships start flooding in. Heck i had to save their kids in a dream once from a bomb going off in a mall. <shrugs> Just strange the other dreams have become nonexsistant enough that i even forget about them. And i dont remember how we got from subconscous (sp?) fears to Mastering. i just woke up from a late night nap, with a head ache and my brain isnt working too well. But SOMEHOW there's a connection. But anyways. Its all kind of wierd to me.

Thanks for the replies on the Mastering. i suppose i DO know the answer, i just want a different one or a re confirmation of the one i have. LA if your definetion is correct then i suppose its true. MT i'd sum up your definetion as "he knows you" But i would think that alot of "Masters" know their slaves, as do Doms.

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