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Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 6:31:06 PM

Coemgen

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I can't help but noticing when I browse proflies that the vast majority of women...dom, sub, and switch place watersports in their "hate" or "hard limits" catagory. Watersports seems to be a popular fetish amongst men, including myself. I have yet to experience it however because I haven't found a girl who's also interested. Any thoughts on why this seems to be such a masculine dominated fetish? Considering it's relative safety, humiliation factor, and ease, I would think watersports would be much more popular than it seems to be.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 6:33:55 PM

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I have changed too many diapers, and trust me, being pee'd on is not something I enjoy.......

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 6:43:06 PM

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Watersports is one of those fetishes that a lot of people aren't going to list as an active interest on their profiles.

But, believe me, once you get a girl to a place where she feels comfortable telling you about her really nasty thoughts that make her blush, you will be surprised.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 6:46:52 PM

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Watersports is one of those fetishes that a lot of people aren't going to list as an active interest on their profiles.

Because, believe me, once you get a girl to a place where she feels comfortable telling you about her really nasty thoughts that make her blush, you will be surprised.

Taps nose and points at MadRabbit.

I usually say it's a 'don't go there' place.. but it is a form of play I will engage in under certain moods and contexts, of which I don't really speak until I'm secure with my partner.
Mostly out of a fear of being judged or criticized or attacked with some wankers fantasy of the month.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 6:47:30 PM

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Well, I only know my own personal experience.

My boyfriend wanted a golden shower, and being the obliging soul that I am, said ok. I drank a LOT, priming my bladder so to speak. He got naked, settled himself into the bathtub, and waited while I patiently bitched at my bladder to kick in and feel the urge to void. Ok, so I'm standing naked over my naked boyfriend. Legs spread, feet on either side of him, and he's gazing up at me all expectant like. Performance anxiety? I don't know. But, I couldn't pee. I get out of the tub, while he's still laying there twiddling his umm...thumbs. I go and drink a lot MORE and spend some more time having a one sided conversation with my bladder, which is beginning to give me the impression that it was more sadistic than my boyfriend and I put together - because it still won't cooperate. My second gallon of water later, I grin and step into the bath tub, and straddle my saint for a boyfriend who is peering up at me all expectant and excited. I put my foot into his mouth, to lodge it open and then I pee. Except, instead of the steady full stream you see that gush out of men, I have a nice dainty, lady like little trickle, that probably would have filled a thimble, but not much anything else.

My boyfriend says, "Is that it?" I tell him, "Sorry, that's all you get." And we climb out of the tub and jump into the NOT GOLDEN shower for hot sex, minus any kink, because the golden shower was just too damn anti-climatic.

I don't know why other women aren't into it, but for me - it is too much work, too little reward.

Edited to add: That didn't stop him from peeing on me. That man seemed to think every time we showered together, that I wasn't clean unless he'd pissed on me. Either that, or he used the fetish as a reason to pee in the shower because I'd otherwise have fussed at him for being disgusting. Yes, I acknowledge the irony of it being disgusting to pee in the shower, but peeing ON ME, was hot. I never said my analocity was rational.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 6:48:38 PM

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Do you have any idea of what comes into the mailbox when it is listed as an interest? Not pretty.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 6:54:16 PM

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I honestly don't recall off the top of my head if I list it as an interst on my profile. It's not a priority but I've enjoyed it a couple of times in the past. We had fun.
A lot of females (And males), I think, wig out at what they perceive as 'the grossness factor', not being aware that urine is sterileunless theperson has certain infections.
Also, a lot of people are just pretty closed-minded.
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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 7:40:55 PM

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I think one reason men do watersports more then females might be......men have a "built in hose feature" that allows them to participate in watersports alot easier then females.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 7:45:18 PM

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You just need the right sub and a little toy I use that allows women to urinate standing!
Very liberating, and that's even before you write in the snow.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 7:50:10 PM

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i love watersports...not afraid to make it known either. maybe a lot of women out there are shy in admitting to liking it, who knows?

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 8:26:08 PM

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The urine of a healthy person may be "sterile", but you cannot assume that all urine is sterile. Bacteria can flourish in the bladder. I don't get why people automatically assume that if it came out of your body, it's sterile. Bleh.

That little bit aside, it doesn't do anything for me, which is why I have it under "tolerates". If the guy gets off on it, fine, but if he gets off on because he thinks it humiliates me, he's going to be disappointed. The last time we discussed shy bladders, I believe I described how I could pee with the entire Mormon Tabernacle Choir sitting on my lap. I am a champion! I can pee anywhere!

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 8:30:11 PM

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I could pee with the entire Mormon Tabernacle Choir sitting on my lap. I am a champion! I can pee anywhere!

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 8:40:36 PM

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Can't we just not like it? I've been peed on by cats, dogs, baby humans, and I don't like being peed on. I'm sure cat and dog urine is sterile too, but I still don't care for it.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 8:58:54 PM

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Men seem to have a thing about that protruding object from an early age and well... shooting things off is also a blast... so they stand and say they can hit the barn at three feet and write in the snow... they play with it at every opportunity. (smile) We ladies don't have one of those unless we borrow it, writing in the snow is a real challenge and hitting the barn.. just isn't happenin.

Animals mark their territory... so do men it seems. lol Now... when I mark my territory, I do it a bit differently. As for peeing on someone, into someone or whatever... it is easier on the toilet, no lil spills and no mess and I can actually get dry with tp... where a tongue does nothing for me.

Oh I know I am a spoil sport to some men, but crouching over a man to do what I might need to do in a hurry... with these ol bones... come on... there are better ways to hurt myself, trust me! lol

But I do have a question... in all seriousness now... why is it that those with this fetish get so upset when we don't wish to do it and push it? I don't care what someone does... I just might not be into it, but every so often... okay... often, people post about this and are upset that many of us are not into this. I can understand you have a hard time finding someone to do it with and that might bring this about, but you need to understand that just like you, we have a choice and if we don't want to do it, why push it? Why be offended if we don't like it. Do I push my rock fetish on anyone? Noooooooooooo... You don't see me complaining because I get no rocks...

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 9:43:17 PM

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I wonder if it's because men, in my very humble opinion, are so tremendously horny, that their imagination takes them to newer levels than women, one of which is, perhaps, water sports. I realize women will "say" they're as horny as men .... but ..... if they were, then why is prostitution vastly skewed toward servicing the needs of men versus women (personal observation, no statistics, just reading the paper) and why is porn almost totally skewed toward men (including gay men, which, I realize, also changes the dynamic).

Anyway, if you accept my argument that both porn and prostitution vastly serve the male market versus the female market, then you can accept my unsubstantiated premise that men are hornier than women by orders of magnitude (again, speaking from personal experience mostly).

The horny woman (defined by me just now by the one who needs it twice a day like I do) is a rare sight indeed ... hence my premise that the hornier man has much more "imagination" than women ... where that erotic drive takes him to new levels, one of which is, apparently, water sports (not my schtick, mind you).

Ah hell, I've rambled on too much. Nuff said from me.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 9:52:56 PM

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Porn is almost totally skewed towards men because men are, on average, much more visual and visually stimulated than are women, on average. Therefore men are much more likely to buy porn than are women (not to say women never buy porn - I used to buy Penthouse but it was for the Penthouse Forum letters rather than the pictures of the naked chicks). My college roommate found my stash and decided I was a lesbian and I was harassed day and night for the rest of the school year. I learned to hide my porn better. Then I discovered there were compilations of Penthouse letters in books in the bookstore, much better for me.

This was before the Internet was in wide use, of course...

Any of yall who happen to be gay and out in Alabama in the late 80's/early 90's - man, I dunno how you did it, and my hat is off to you. I had to actually get the University police involved because people thought it was funny to call me literally every 5 minutes and suggest I join gay/lesbian support groups, while I was trying to study. Anyway sorry for the thread hijack, just reminiscing.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 9:56:09 PM

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Personally, I dont like the idea of peeing on what I kiss or lick. I dont like feeling like an animal marking its territory, its just not my thing.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 10:09:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Do you have any idea of what comes into the mailbox when it is listed as an interest? Not pretty.

LOLOL, I do.

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 10:19:34 PM

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This is not my thing. This is one of those kinks that does not trip my triggers. (I saw this phrase on one of Greedy's post, thanx girl you rock!) The x would do this in the shower, didn't do a damn thing for me. I know that Daddy would not like me to pee on him, we discussed this a while back and decided that it's not our thing. Why other females aren't into this? Who knows. Why aren't more females into breath play? Or knives? Or needles? We all have different kinks. That what makes us fun!!!

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RE: Why aren't there more females into watersports? - 11/5/2008 10:30:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Men seem to have a thing about that protruding object from an early age and well... shooting things off is also a blast... so they stand and say they can hit the barn at three feet and write in the snow... they play with it at every opportunity. (smile) We ladies don't have one of those unless we borrow it, writing in the snow is a real challenge and hitting the barn.. just isn't happenin.

Animals mark their territory... so do men it seems. lol Now... when I mark my territory, I do it a bit differently. As for peeing on someone, into someone or whatever... it is easier on the toilet, no lil spills and no mess and I can actually get dry with tp... where a tongue does nothing for me.

Oh I know I am a spoil sport to some men, but crouching over a man to do what I might need to do in a hurry... with these ol bones... come on... there are better ways to hurt myself, trust me! lol

But I do have a question... in all seriousness now... why is it that those with this fetish get so upset when we don't wish to do it and push it? I don't care what someone does... I just might not be into it, but every so often... okay... often, people post about this and are upset that many of us are not into this. I can understand you have a hard time finding someone to do it with and that might bring this about, but you need to understand that just like you, we have a choice and if we don't want to do it, why push it? Why be offended if we don't like it. Do I push my rock fetish on anyone? Noooooooooooo... You don't see me complaining because I get no rocks...

*hands a pretty pink polished rock to lockit*

Now as to the OP...i had to do it as part of my official "subfrenzy" extraveganza...and trust me, i have been a busy lil bottom this year. i have to say that i was impressed with how quickly i was able to space on it...and how deeply. That being said, i think that i will have to save that for "my" Dom...its pretty intense for me.
And i dont know where i put that on my list...but i hope i dont start getting all that gross mail related to the subject...i really think its something private and intimate and would hate to have it attempted to be ruined.....

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