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JustDarkness -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:02:29 PM)
I guess the deninition of a full fight is one you have to discuss very well then. To soem people full is full...else the female scratches your eyes out and rips your balls off. lol

allthatjaz -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:03:12 PM)
I would like to think that my partner didn't restrain himself mistoferen but I think JustDarkness is probably right. A former fighter is pretty awesome stuff. I have had scene fights and scene boxed women but never come accross a real fighter before. That would be really good.

allthatjaz -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:04:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustDarkness I guess the deninition of a full fight is one you have to discuss very well then. To soem people full is full...else the female scratches your eyes out and rips your balls off. lol I know that he could probably kill me in less than 5 minutes JustDarkness but I don't fear that

JustDarkness -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:07:49 PM)
It is not about fear for me...but about borders. If you say..scratch him on a spot..and it irritates him liek hell ...and as reaction he beats you in the face as reflex breaking your nose that would suck... PErhaps it is soemthing for the summer holidays..lol..so it can heal longer How do you know when to stop?

allthatjaz -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:13:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustDarkness How do you know when to stop? We didn't. I am possibly the most stubborn woman he has ever met and I just won't, can't relent. We were both exhausted, panting for breath and verging on exhaustion because this fight went on for a very long time. In the end he just lay on his back on the floor and I gave him a good using

JustDarkness -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:15:05 PM)
[:D] sounds good

JavamanTN -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:17:05 PM)
Just Darkness, I can't speak for everyone but I throw kicks and punches. Usually I pull my kicks and wear padded gloves. Once I get the bottom out of his or her mind their usually in a rage beyond the ability to edit and I get full force punches, kicks, scratches etc... thrown at me. I have narrowly avoided many a boot to the face. When I do this kind of play I usually get roughed up pretty well too. It doesn't feel like a real fight from my perspective as I'm firmly in control of my aggression. I usually try to get the bottom to crack out of this shell and to get him or her into that primal rage state. That is enjoyable for me. and once he or she is there I can ramp up the intensity of the beating as he or she can take more once in fight mode. Yum....

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:20:29 PM)
It sounds like a blast, and sexy as hell. I am always intrigued by people who can play like this, although I know it wouldn't work for me. Aggressive confrontation isn't something I can see myself doing. Not for fun, and not as foreplay. It isn't that I'm a coward, just that if I have to defend myself, I prefer long range weapons rather than hand to hand ones. WinD She who takes the high road AND the high ground.

BLGirl -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:23:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustDarkness HWat is the definition of "full on fight" doesn't sound so "real"to me..lol..more like fun. NO matter how hbard the fight goes..males are mostly holding back when fighting females. It is impossible to have a "full-on" fight with my Daddy, for just this reason! I have gotten froggy with him a couple of times, but he is able to subdue me without much effort, strangely enough, I like it that way. Excitedly, BLGirl

IronBear -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:24:04 PM)
Long guns at a kilometer, or muffins at 10 paces?

allthatjaz -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:25:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance It sounds like a blast, and sexy as hell. I am always intrigued by people who can play like this, although I know it wouldn't work for me. Aggressive confrontation isn't something I can see myself doing. Not for fun, and not as foreplay. It isn't that I'm a coward, just that if I have to defend myself, I prefer long range weapons rather than hand to hand ones. WinD She who takes the high road AND the high ground. Guns.... now your talking!

JustDarkness -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:30:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JavamanTN Just Darkness, I can't speak for everyone but I throw kicks and punches. Usually I pull my kicks and wear padded gloves. Once I get the bottom out of his or her mind their usually in a rage beyond the ability to edit and I get full force punches, kicks, scratches etc... thrown at me. I have narrowly avoided many a boot to the face. When I do this kind of play I usually get roughed up pretty well too. It doesn't feel like a real fight from my perspective as I'm firmly in control of my aggression. I usually try to get the bottom to crack out of this shell and to get him or her into that primal rage state. That is enjoyable for me. and once he or she is there I can ramp up the intensity of the beating as he or she can take more once in fight mode. Yum.... hmmm padded gloves are a good idea. I still have mine and my training gloves. I aso have soemwhere other padded things for my feet. I used to be 116kg a kick to the head with that mass would be a bit much.....but ladies fight mean also. I think I gonna change my profile to "looking for submissive sparring partner" grin....you people have lovely ideas.

DesFIP -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:32:55 PM)
It's one of those things that safewords are designed for. At such a time saying "oh stop, I think I've sprained my ankle badly" just doesn't cut it, but yelling just one word can prevent severe damage. We don't do it. First I wouldn't stand a chance and more than that, I don't go primal, I just can't try to hurt anyone.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:35:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Long guns at a kilometer, or muffins at 10 paces? Either or...I'm easy, though I'll confess to a preference for muffins [:D]

mistoferin -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:38:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustDarkness I think I gonna change my profile to "looking for submissive sparring partner" grin....you people have lovely ideas. See...that's the spirit. It should be fun, sexy and erotic!

JustDarkness -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:41:10 PM)
I added "submissive"...because I want to win ofcourse..lol

mistoferin -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:42:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP It's one of those things that safewords are designed for. At such a time saying "oh stop, I think I've sprained my ankle badly" just doesn't cut it, but yelling just one word can prevent severe damage. Nope, I disagree. We don't use safewords in this form of play either. When real damage is a real possible outcome, it is even more important to communicate precisely.

DragonLadysFire -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:43:56 PM)
I love primal fights, they are so hot!

AquaticSub -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:48:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz Sometimes I question things like this as going too far? I mean is rape with a full on fight going too far for most? does anyone else here do things like this? Too fair is entirely subject to your personal views. I'm sure, without reading the thread, that there will be people saying that couples should never fight because the owner is always right, that we shouldn't fight because fighting is bad and should calmly discuss all issues but... fuck it. We think primal is sexy and our way of clearing the air works for us. What you discribe isn't going too far for us and if I really, really, REALLY didn't want it and it was actually rape... well that's why we use a safeword. So that we can enjoy the resistence to it's fullest, complete with "Get off me you fucking bastard, I'll slit your throat!" as he rips my blouse... Mmm... memories... [;)] Edited to add: Wow - no "There shouldn't ever be fighting". That's an interesting change.

AquaticSub -> RE: Fighting? (11/6/2008 12:52:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP It's one of those things that safewords are designed for. At such a time saying "oh stop, I think I've sprained my ankle badly" just doesn't cut it, but yelling just one word can prevent severe damage. Nope, I disagree. We don't use safewords in this form of play either. When real damage is a real possible outcome, it is even more important to communicate precisely. And there are those of us who manage to communicate precisely with them and for whom the arousal just wouldn't be the same without being able to protest in vain. If someone manages to do the stats and it does increase the risk... fuck it. I'm not in this for safety. I know your mind won't change - just presenting a viewpoint for the boards. [;)]

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