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undertable -> RE: How to feed your Houseboy... (12/11/2008 11:09:33 AM)
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Thank you all for your responses.
Shakti- you hit the nail on the head. The service I have provided and continue to give to my Sirs and Ma'am is based off of a mutually beneficial exchange. While outwardly it may seem like service submissives recieve nothing for their labors, in my personal experience nothing is farther from the truth. My Sirs check in with me weekly (if not daily) about my life, school, work, and progress towards my goals. They encourage the potential that I have to be a man of passion, integrity, and my own version of success. There is no absence on the part of my Sirs, on the contrary, they are always available to talk, even if it means the dishes don't get done.
I have never been the "perfect submissive". When I began my journey, I was an awkward 19 year old kid, just starting to figure out who I was and what I enjoyed in the world of kink. Today, that process continues. The work I do is constantly appraised by my Dominants, and I am given feedback which I am expected to respond to immeadiatley. The care and patience it takes to rear a service submissive to a Dominant's expectations is not for the weak at heart- it is a labor of love for both parties. It takes a nurturing individual with high expectations to meet the needs of a service submissive, and I am so greatful to those who have provided me and continue to provide me with that guidance. It is invaluable to me to have men to look up to in the scene, who care for me, and would put the task list aside in a second if they thought we all needed to check in.
It really is so much more than "helping out". No task is meaningless if your intentions are set on those who you serve.
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