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BlkTallFullfig,

All Doms are perfect, didn't you know that?

Foxer

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In response to Foxer's comments that he only gets off the wall comments from females, I looked at his profile...that in conjunction with his comments that had already been posted did nothing to say that he was even worth a second glance.

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My profile is mine to create and I would not think of criticizing anyone for any profile they create

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Critiquing their profile seems a self-serving effort

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maybe to make you feel good about yourself?

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

Sunshine,

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I spent some time reading your post and your profile. There is something about a 60-something year old man looking for a woman at least ten years younger than he is, that initially put me off. Then, the constant reminding about how financially secure (and wealthy) you are is a turn-off for me also. Finally, the fact that the only criteria you require is someone who looks good and acts well on your arm, would make me just hit "next".

Now, there may be some good looking gold diggers out there that will answer your notes or contact you because all they want is someone to take care of them. However, many of us who are in that age range, attractive, normal weight, cultured, and educated don't need someone else's money. We can take care of ourselves in that way.

So, what else do you have to offer? I generally don't look at men your age as I prefer men more in my own age range. Women live longer than men and tend to be healthier. We should really be looking for men at least 4 years younger than ourselves. Do I really want to be possibly changing someone's diapers in 10 years or do I want someone who will still be able to travel and live life fully with me?

If you don't want to come across as being conceited and self-centered, I'd suggest that changes to your profile include women who include those in your own age range, may not be model material and I suggest you include more information about your life BESIDES the money. In fact, I'd leave the whole money part out. You don't want to be wondering if a woman loves you for yourself or your money......well, maybe you don't care.

1. My profile says nothing about money - your interpretation - which immediately makes me suspicious of your judgement. People of means don't dicuss money.

2. Don't get along with women my age, never have, and the very large majority of them have not taken as good care of themselves as I have which is usually apparent so I screen them out. Why they haven't taken care of themselves is an academic discussion that is meaningless. Best relationship I ever had was with someone 15 years younger than me. The next best was with someone 21 years older than me. The ones my age were always a disaster, I don't do topping from the bottom well.

Foxer

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ORIGINAL: orfunboi

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

Sunshine,

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I spent some time reading your post and your profile. There is something about a 60-something year old man looking for a woman at least ten years younger than he is, that initially put me off. Then, the constant reminding about how financially secure (and wealthy) you are is a turn-off for me also. Finally, the fact that the only criteria you require is someone who looks good and acts well on your arm, would make me just hit "next".

Now, there may be some good looking gold diggers out there that will answer your notes or contact you because all they want is someone to take care of them. However, many of us who are in that age range, attractive, normal weight, cultured, and educated don't need someone else's money. We can take care of ourselves in that way.

So, what else do you have to offer? I generally don't look at men your age as I prefer men more in my own age range. Women live longer than men and tend to be healthier. We should really be looking for men at least 4 years younger than ourselves. Do I really want to be possibly changing someone's diapers in 10 years or do I want someone who will still be able to travel and live life fully with me?

If you don't want to come across as being conceited and self-centered, I'd suggest that changes to your profile include women who include those in your own age range, may not be model material and I suggest you include more information about your life BESIDES the money. In fact, I'd leave the whole money part out. You don't want to be wondering if a woman loves you for yourself or your money......well, maybe you don't care.

1. My profile says nothing about money - your interpretation - which immediately makes me suspicious of your judgement. People of means don't dicuss money.

2. Don't get along with women my age, never have, and the very large majority of them have not taken as good care of themselves as I have which is usually apparent so I screen them out. Why they haven't taken care of themselves is an academic discussion that is meaningless. Best relationship I ever had was with someone 15 years younger than me. The next best was with someone 21 years older than me. The ones my age were always a disaster, I don't do topping from the bottom well.

Foxer

i wondered about the money comments myself, even went back and checked your profile and didn't see anything about it. You do seem very self assured and confident, maybe that scares people, sounds like a good thing to me.

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

I have spent some time posting personals on the web with little result. What is it with women...? I send emails to women and get these off-the-wall responses.

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The money comments were in the OPs first post. And then, later, he asserted that people of means don't talk about it. Well, I find those whose money is so important to them that they have to talk about it are generally people who value money more than people. JMHO.

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The money comments were in the OPs first post. And then, later, he asserted that people of means don't talk about it. Well, I find those whose money is so important to them that they have to talk about it are generally people who value money more than people. JMHO. There are many who write on this board that are financially secure, but don't rub it in others faces. It's just a matter of class.

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I have heard the very same complaints time and time again from men who are trying to make contact with women on CollarMe or other sites. Most, like you, have legitimate complaints. But the first thing that comes to my mind is this: Most of the women here have had bad experiences with men who respond to their ads. They probably have more messages per day than they can read in detail, and yours might not stand out as some of the others. Add to it the fact that we really do not know who we are writing to in the first place.

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Probably my biggest complaint is that woman are seeking something so specific that they do not want to spend any time getting to know someone that does not meet all of their criteria. The same thing holds true in the vanilla community, so it's no picnic for anyone!

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The only bit of information I can pass along is this: Don't give up, and try not to take these rejections too seriously. Good luck!

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55
While I'd love to continue this a bit and spar with some here, I've a busy week out of town and its time to get ready for launch. Thanks to all who ventured into this thread and made their opinions known, even the critical ones.

I'll certainly be thinking of some of your posts here as I drive north for the Holiday. I'm a bit vexed by the number of angry and defensive posts to come out of this but the world is what it is. Peer discussions can be testy but rational exchange with a little humor will always yield more productive results. Nevertheless, this was an enlightening exercise.

Thanks.

Foxer

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

Yeah... how's that working for you?

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Just open up a bit. Or you can go take a romantic walk down the beach with DelRey, cause my guess is he's not going to have any other offers.

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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

willing,

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Just to give my opinion, i am a confident business owner submissive, if i were not owned, your profile would intrigue me enough to learn more.

The expert in everthing would not put me off, but you would definitely have to prove to me your honesty.

Again, be true to your profile and set your standards high.

My standards for a Master were just as high and took me four years for Him to find me, but i have not one single regret of the wait. It's just a very frustrating time.

Personally, call me geographically prejudice, but i did limit my correspondence to a two state area. So that may be some of the off-the-wall responses, you never know, but i always let that fact be known upfront.

I wish you much success however you define it.

BTs willing

See...?

Foxer