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Balance - 11/7/2008 8:02:20 AM   
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First of all... I am DELGHTED in our selection of Obama.
 
What bothers me most is (if anything) is the identifing cry of “first black/ African-American” President. 
 
The reality is .. he is our first “Bi-Racial President”.
 
He is the personification of what America strives to be. He is a blend of two races and two cultures. Fathered by a black man..birthed by a white woman and raised by another one (“typical” as they may have been. Actually, they must have been “extrodinary”)  He’s experienced two opposites of religions.  He’s lived in both realities.  He IS unity.
 
To me, he reflects balance. He’s taken the best from both worlds and made it work. 
 
He is simply… himself.
 
 
 
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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 8:29:05 AM   
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To me, voting across racial lines is just as racist as voting along racial lines. Like affirmative action. I would hope that people voted for Obama for the right reason, that being what is best for the country.

Bending over backwards to be fair is not fair. I like to think that enough people knew we just can't take much more of the last eight years. I like to think that people crossed racial lines for that reason, rather than to look good. I also hope it turns out alright.

So we got four years to see what the guy can do. I hope he does something good. There is no way in hell that he can ever fulfill all of his goals/promises, but if he tries instead of lies, we will be alot better off.

Perhaps it is some sort of milestone, that people are learning to look at the Man instead of the meat.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 8:36:48 AM   
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True enough - I said as much a while back that considering all the fuss being made by certain quarters he really represents the US or at least what it is said to aspire to be in the way you describe.

And all in all there is no question whatever that of the two candidates likely to win, he stood head and shoulders above his rival on every point I could think of.

But his descent and his appearance as not just another white guy is undoubtedly a wonderful extra that deserves mention and hopefully will come to enfranchise so many both there and here who feel theyre excluded from life.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 8:38:42 AM   
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He identifies himself as African American: I think this should be good enough as an indication of how he would like to be referred as by other people.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 9:07:40 AM   
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Can anyone tell me how to search someone's forum posts further back than the 50 most recent?

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 9:49:23 AM   
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That Obama identifies as an African American is no surprise. Society has been patriarchal for a long time. There are exceptions but generally Men anyway will identify with their Father's side of the family. Actually I do, Dad's a Polak, therefore so am I. I know there is other blood in me, but if you knew my Grandfather, Father and I, you would see which tree this apple fell from.

No matter what was true in the past, all this hubub is about the fact that one person has DNA in them which affected their skin color and another does not.

Actually now would be a good time to think about solutions to our real problems rather than bantering this about incessantly. Right now, as much as I generally disregard it, things are different. Letter writing. Writing to a senator, one particular senator until Jan 20th.

Just don't forget about those days when you did not have a bunch of money Barack, and you could make alot of people alot less unhappy. We don't want anything, but please take less. That's all we need.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 9:52:24 AM   
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The middle class tax cuts could hit Congress as early of Jan, with perhaps a small stimulus package in the next few months.

(NPR news reports as I was driving around).

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 9:55:08 AM   
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Why do people find it so hard to just let African Americans be happy and proud about the black part of Obama. Hell let us white people be proud we have come to the point where skin color is not a part of our decision.

It IS an important part of his election if not the only part or reason.

Butch

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 11:57:38 AM   
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What makes me hopeful ( and proud of the nation ) is that Obama won a majority of all demographic groups except for the over 65 population. Blacks, whites, Hispanics, poor, middle class, wealthy, men, women, etc.. To me, that means he  and his plan to move America forward have a mandate. It is truly a victory for middle America that has, at last, voted in it's own best interest. Can't get more balanced than that.

With a Democratic majority in both Houses, he also has the means to accomplish those plans. Of course, I wish him and the nation well. If he doesn't deliver we won't be able to blame the Republicans or anyone else. But, please, let's give him a chance . W had his honeymoon untill it was clear what his real agenda was.


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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 12:53:06 PM   
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Yes but in the past if the right man for the job had been black (or biracial) he probably wouldn't have been elected. So we have come a long way and it's a big moment. 

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 12:59:50 PM   
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quote:

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He identifies himself as African American: I think this should be good enough as an indication of how he would like to be referred as by other people.


That label is good politics. He is what he is, mixed race. Much as I'm hoping the bloke is what it says on the tin, he is still a politician.

If he had crawled out of the ghetto and had black family back to the plantations, I'd say he was African-American, as it is, he is mixed African and white American.

As for being the first black president, Africa is full of them. Sorry for being cynical amid the euphoria but the bloke is human and a politician to boot. There are going to be a lot of disappointed people out there, even if he surpasses realistic expectations.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 3:04:19 PM   
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MC, as regards the term "African American" - the most pertinent fact about the label is that it is a self-description and not one handed out by the white majority.  It's interesting to discover that so many white people affect an understanding of black identity politics when they patently haven't any. 

"African American" was popularised by Jesse Jackson and describes someone who is of the black diaspora and who lives in America.  It does not necessarily imply that they are the descendant of slaves, although for most that will be the case. Malcolm X's mother was born in the Caribbean but that doesn't mean Malcolm was "mixed race" (whatever that really means) or that it is not accurate to describe him as African American.  The after-effect of stripping black bonded labourers of their ethnic identity was that much later, with increasing measures of freedom, a name was chosen which asserts solidarity with all Africans.  Making this statement reflects the unique position that black people find themselves in, in our times. 

The confusion some have with this process is perhaps a product of being educated during a period when colonialism and imperialism were still fresh in the mind and culture of their educators.  Hence, someone here this week warmly referring to Obama as "coloured" - a term redolent with the social mores of apartheid South Africa and segregation.  I'm certain this person meant no offence and would regard being brought into the 21st century as a needless distraction.

I must also apologise for being cynical, because it seems to my mind that if a "mixed race" or "biracial" person is caught stealing hubcaps they're black - if they get to be president suddenly they've been raised by extraordinary white parents. 


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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 3:17:57 PM   
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quote:

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MC, as regards the term "African American" - the most pertinent fact about the label is that it is a self-description and not one handed out by the white majority.  It's interesting to discover that so many white people affect an understanding of black identity politics when they patently haven't any. 

I must also apologise for being cynical, because it seems to my mind that if a "mixed race" or "biracial" person is caught stealing hubcaps they're black - if they get to be president suddenly they've been raised by extraordinary white parents. 




Since none of it is relevant to me, I was just observing, I'll let it pass.

People can identify themselves how they want and it might be true to them, if the signifier sees them as other, that is how the signifier sees them.

However you look at it, he still has one white parent. That makes him mixed race whether he likes it or not.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 3:44:34 PM   
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MC, as regards the term "African American" - the most pertinent fact about the label is that it is a self-description and not one handed out by the white majority.  It's interesting to discover that so many white people affect an understanding of black identity politics when they patently haven't any. 

"African American" was popularised by Jesse Jackson and describes someone who is of the black diaspora and who lives in America.  It does not necessarily imply that they are the descendant of slaves, although for most that will be the case. Malcolm X's mother was born in the Caribbean but that doesn't mean Malcolm was "mixed race" (whatever that really means) or that it is not accurate to describe him as African American.  The after-effect of stripping black bonded labourers of their ethnic identity was that much later, with increasing measures of freedom, a name was chosen which asserts solidarity with all Africans.  Making this statement reflects the unique position that black people find themselves in, in our times.  



Well being one of those white people I guess I don't have an understanding of "black identity politics" since I'm not even sure what that phrase is supposed to mean.

I have always been confused by the African-American term though and how it applies to race when their are many countries in Africa and many white people in those countries.  Just off the top of my head, John Kerry's wife is a white African-American as is the actress Charlize Theron. 

If I were to use the term European-American to describe myself you would have no idea what race I was so how is African-American any more accurate in being used to describe race?

Or for that matter, how is Malcom X legitimately described as African-American when you say he is of Caribbean descent?

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 3:50:07 PM   
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MC, as regards the term "African American" - the most pertinent fact about the label is that it is a self-description and not one handed out by the white majority.  It's interesting to discover that so many white people affect an understanding of black identity politics when they patently haven't any. 

"African American" was popularised by Jesse Jackson and describes someone who is of the black diaspora and who lives in America.  It does not necessarily imply that they are the descendant of slaves, although for most that will be the case. Malcolm X's mother was born in the Caribbean but that doesn't mean Malcolm was "mixed race" (whatever that really means) or that it is not accurate to describe him as African American.  The after-effect of stripping black bonded labourers of their ethnic identity was that much later, with increasing measures of freedom, a name was chosen which asserts solidarity with all Africans.  Making this statement reflects the unique position that black people find themselves in, in our times.  



Well being one of those white people I guess I don't have an understanding of "black identity politics" since I'm not even sure what that phrase is supposed to mean.

I have always been confused by the African-American term though and how it applies to race when their are many countries in Africa and many white people in those countries.  Just off the top of my head, John Kerry's wife is a white African-American as is the actress Charlize Theron. 

If I were to use the term European-American to describe myself you would have no idea what race I was so how is African-American any more accurate in being used to describe race?

Or for that matter, how is Malcom X legitimately described as African-American when you say he is of Caribbean descent?


My 2 cents worth as a BLACK American is this.
I don't know of anyone that calls themselves "African American".
Especially in private, everyone that I know and usually meet that identifies
with being a Black American calls themselves "Black".
I have family members that have skin that is ivory, and a few that can pass for "White",
and they all call themselves "Black" or bi-racial, again I don't know of any that call themselves
African American.
I am wondering if White Americans call themselves "White" or "European American"?
What about Black people in other countries? Here goes!  African Russian or Black Russian?  African Canadian or Black Canadian?  African Asian or Black Asian?
  
I sincerely hope that people of another race don't try to start determining what Black people should call themselves or who or what they should identify themselves as.
Egads!

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 3:55:14 PM   
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Me, I am a pasty ass, middle aged, mean, broad from Iowa.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 4:06:58 PM   
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My 2 cents worth as a BLACK American is this.
I don't know of anyone that calls themselves "African American".
Especially in private, everyone that I know and usually meet that identifies
with being a Black American calls themselves "Black".
I have family members that have skin that is ivory, and a few that can pass for "White",
and they all call themselves "Black" or bi-racial, again I don't know of any that call themselves
African American.
I am wondering if White Americans call themselves "White" or "European American"?
My work is done here.


No, I usually just call myself American. 

I was born here.  Where my ancestory is from has no real bearing on me and who I am.

I realize we have differences in race, sex, age, economic status, etc., that do bring about prejudice but it seems we focus too much on emphasizing instead of minimizing the differences.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 4:28:21 PM   
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If I were to use the term European-American to describe myself you would have no idea what race I was so how is African-American any more accurate in being used to describe race?


Firstly, I didn't claim that the term was more accurate.  I said it was self-selected rather than imposed by other people.  I might be wrong but it seems only the terms "Asian American" and "African American" seem to have gained any real currency.  But I'd agree that both have shortcomings when it comes to summing up the incredible diversity of any human being - let alone one from a diversely populated country like your own.

I'd imagine that they are both reflections of terms like Italian American, Irish american, etc. and looking at the era of their genesis, perhaps the adding of "American" after a differentiating prefix fitted with the cultural changes Reagan encapsulated.  Patriotism was challenged and viewed more cynically prior to his ascent, or at least that's the way it looks to the outsider. 

Of course, unlike most whites in America, black people had generally lost all knowledge of their countries of origin by this time and could only relate to Africa and a pan-African ideal which maintained more cynicism about western nations.  The world over, black kids saw Rocky l -lll, it's true - but they also listened to Bob Marley.

But since in America, 66% of black people carry European and 33% of white people carry African DNA, as a legacy of slavery, I'd suggest all such titles are to be viewed in a broad sense and with an understanding that they are living and flexible, not latin biological terms from text books.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 5:19:19 PM   
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If I were to use the term European-American to describe myself you would have no idea what race I was so how is African-American any more accurate in being used to describe race?


Firstly, I didn't claim that the term was more accurate.  I said it was self-selected rather than imposed by other people.  I might be wrong but it seems only the terms "Asian American" and "African American" seem to have gained any real currency.  But I'd agree that both have shortcomings when it comes to summing up the incredible diversity of any human being - let alone one from a diversely populated country like your own.

I'd imagine that they are both reflections of terms like Italian American, Irish american, etc. and looking at the era of their genesis, perhaps the adding of "American" after a differentiating prefix fitted with the cultural changes Reagan encapsulated.  Patriotism was challenged and viewed more cynically prior to his ascent, or at least that's the way it looks to the outsider. 

Of course, unlike most whites in America, black people had generally lost all knowledge of their countries of origin by this time and could only relate to Africa and a pan-African ideal which maintained more cynicism about western nations.  The world over, black kids saw Rocky l -lll, it's true - but they also listened to Bob Marley.

But since in America, 66% of black people carry European and 33% of white people carry African DNA, as a legacy of slavery, I'd suggest all such titles are to be viewed in a broad sense and with an understanding that they are living and flexible, not latin biological terms from text books.


I do see your point regarding country of origin and considering oneself African as a result.

I also realize I may be splitting hairs here but we are talking ethnicity vs. race. 

Asian is a race, so classifying oneself as Asian-American is racially accurate but your ethnicity may be Japanese, Chinese, Vietnamese, etc..

Classifying oneself as Italian-American or Irish-American denotes ethnicity and may suggest, but not be in any way conclusive about, race.  The same as saying one is African-American.

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RE: Balance - 11/7/2008 7:09:14 PM   
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Same here.  I'm Hungarian, German and 1/8th Manx.  What does that make me? American.

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