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RE: The first meet? - 11/10/2008 4:08:32 PM   
Gleegal67


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As a self proclaimed nympho...I've had amazing first meets!

Fastest first meet...
Walking by a man and our eyes connecting and smiling and us leaving each of our friends to introduce ourselves...and getting a hotel room within 5 minutes.  (We "dated" for about 8 years...okay...we shagged liked mad rabbits everytime we saw each other...the conversation was great too!  Lucky for me he dug BDSM too!)

Longest first meet...
Corresponding and talking on the phone with a Dominant for 11 years, 3 months and fourteen days.  We just couldn't get together...I could write a book on all our missed meetings...and when we finally met it was like seeing a long lost lover...we knew what turned us both on...but it was all new at the same time.  Great time...too bad our personal lives didn't quite mesh...yet!  We're planning on meeting again when he turns 50...in 1 year, 2 months and 4 days.  I'm going as a present...LOL



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RE: The first meet? - 11/10/2008 4:51:43 PM   
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Oh, these stories are always so interesting.  Thanks to all for sharing!

As for my various first meets, one I met at his house (friend of a friend, and happened to live in the same neighborhood) I wore my Lucky 13 shirt and jeans, and fuzzy black slippers.  We had some play on the first meet.  This was short-lived, we only met up for play and only for a few fun-filled months, but ended on good terms. 

Another first meet, was at Starbuck's.  I had on a skirt and tank top, heels.  This was to meet with a couple who was looking for a "third".  I didn't get a good vibe from them, it had the feeling that this was all the guy's idea and his wifey was just along for the ride but not too happy about it.  Didn't play, didn't meet again. 

As for Daddy?  I had on brand new school clothes, we were in 3rd grade. 

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RE: The first meet? - 11/11/2008 5:35:32 AM   
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I always caution simply because many people turn their relationships into a series of kinky vacation weekends together.  They aren't dealing with real life stresses as a close couple, they simply turn off their lives for a few days, meet in hotels, get all hot and bothered and have great fun, and then return to their lives separately.  That's a very different dynamic than an ongoing closeness.


Well Stephen and me did meet in a hotel with the intention of having fun. We called it our 9 and a half weeks but we are now talking about spending Xmas together, the possibility of living together and perhaps sailing round the world together next year, so hotel fun can turn out to be something a bit deeper sometimes!!

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RE: The first meet? - 11/11/2008 10:02:37 AM   
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His sister in law dropped him off I came barroling,  out the door, right in front of her car cause I didn't realize she was there, leapt into his arms hugged and kissed him met the stuffed toy he brought for me, and  then we spent some time cuddling an he watched me paint some crafts, then he took me to quizno's and I hogged the whole sandwhich, mostly I fed him bits of it. Then I got horny and decided I wanted to have sex so we did . I had a ripping good orgasm, then we cuddled some more then we took him to the notomas shopping center to meet his ride home.

Ironically the whole time we talked about meeting, I was like no sex no bdsm play no hanky panky first meets are for getting to know you and see if I like you only. Sex stuff just felt right so I changed the entire no sex rule. I was wearing a blue dress with the american flag on it.

I've met quite a few people before Daddy, and had two long term relationships before him, one long distance and the other in this town.

We don't do the whole he instructs me to do stuff and I do it.
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

After reading the post 'LUCK' I thought it would be interesting to find out what happened on that very first meet?

What did you wear? Were you instructed/ or did you instruct that person to wear certain clothes?

Did you make a decision on the first meet that you both wanted to take this somewhere?

How many people did you meet before finding the right one?

Did you play on your first night?

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RE: The first meet? - 11/11/2008 12:07:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss



We don't do the whole he instructs me to do stuff and I do it.



Smiles... me nither YHMA in fact I would test any dominant and if he cant dominante me then I'm going to be dominating him!!!

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RE: The first meet? - 11/11/2008 5:51:39 PM   
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LOL I dominate daddy all the time. He finds it easier to go along with me than not to. hehe
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss



We don't do the whole he instructs me to do stuff and I do it.



Smiles... me nither YHMA in fact I would test any dominant and if he cant dominante me then I'm going to be dominating him!!!


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RE: The first meet? - 11/13/2008 3:03:35 PM   
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My partner and I traded a few C-mails, then moved to yahoo. We eventually cammed a bit, but just in a friendly way. We set a date for me to go to his house for an overnight, but the day before i chickened out. I was honest with him though, and we decided to slow down and just meet in a neutral place for dinner. The meal was good, and the conversation was excellent. At some point i reached across and took his hand, and the way he absorbed my touch was indescribable. I felt amazing. Eventually we had to leave the restaurant. It was spring and he suggested a walk. Seemed safe enough. On the way out the door i put my hand in his and apparently that's when i stole his heart. We walked the cobbled sidewalks of a historic downtown small town. At some point we got to where there was a nook and we ended up stopping and kissing. Before long we were finding lots of niches and walking through gardens and pressing each other against walls, gates, etc. He was a bit bolder than i was, but i was inspired. So as we came around one corner there was a perfect small corner to push him into. I kissed him hard then reached down, unzipped his pants and grabbed his balls and gave a squeeze. It was soooooo unlike me! He walked me back to my SUV and he was sitting in the passengers seat as i stood there talking to him. We started kissing (just kissing i swear) and this older couple walked by. The woman turned and came toward us lecturing on public displays of affection....we just stopped and stared, she stopped when she realized we weren't a couple of teenagers, and her husband grabbed her arm and dragged her away. We laughed so hard. We ended up in a hotel after all. Had an amazing night and somehow we've ended up here. Together forever... btw - we still have those amazing nights, at least once or twice a week, depending on when the youngin is out of the house :)

Meeting my pet was another story. There was a much higher level of trust needed on his part, but of course he came through for me. It was not what either of us expected i don't think, it was so much more. I never thought i would feel the connection that was instantly there with him, or that he would become so devoted so quickly. We're not inexperienced or kids...i guess we were just waiting for the right person. Even in the short time we have been together, I have grown as a dominant because i have grown as his Mistress.

Not sure how i got so lucky to meet 2 so amazing people who are each just what i need in their own ways

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