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missturbation -> Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 4:31:08 PM)
We talk a lot about what we need from our relationships, not want, need. Usually the things we discuss are all on the side of feelings, emotional point of view. For example equality, equal rights, to be loved, needed etc etc. But what about physically? What do you need physically from your relationships? What do you feel you couldn't be in a relationship without? Mine would be:- Whips Knives Floggers Kneeling Painful sex

leadership527 -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 4:49:11 PM)
Hmmm, at a bare minimum and still be able to be happy in the relationship? Probably nothing.

ShiftedJewel -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 4:51:21 PM)
*Physically? Hugs, I'm pretty sure I couldn't be happy with out hugging.* *Jewel*

celticlord2112 -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 4:53:03 PM)
quote: What do you need physically from your relationships? What do you feel you couldn't be in a relationship without? Touching certainly. Touch is very important to me. Kissing is imperative (helps that I'm a good kisser![:D]) Wild hairy monkey sex is a definite plus.

servantheart -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 4:54:41 PM)
Kissing, cuddling, handholding, hugs...essentially intimacy. Kink-wise: His dominance Hand spankings Paddlings Beltings (or His chosen appropriate punishment when there is a lack of privacy) to remind me of my place when I forget Forceful sex Kneeling Bondage

gypsygrl -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 4:55:04 PM)
Food security, regular sleep, shelter and heat in the winter. Seriously. I've tried a relationship where none of that was a given and it didn't work so good. I like pain etc, but its not a need. Regular orgasms are. I've found that out through experience too. I can provide those myself, though. I can't be emotionally secure unless I'm physically secure in the sense outlined above.

everhope -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:00:22 PM)
need...to be man handled. want...breast torture, rough kisses, spanked, flogged, rough sex, throat assault, hugs, breath play, rope, licks, whipped, paddled, soft kisses.

OrionTheWolf -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:19:06 PM)
You come up with some very good topics and questions. I applaud you for being introspective. Mine would be: Sex when and how I want it. It is usually very rough, sometimes painful, and I am a biter. My property loves this. There are times for tenderness, and I choose those times as well. Physical contact is necessary, and my property is usually on the floor at my feet, either laying with her head on them or one hand laying across them. At night when she sleeps at the foot of the bed, she curls a hand around one of my big toes and uses my feet as a pillow. When she sleeps beside me, it is at least a head lower in the bed and I pull her across me like a slave blanket.

Lordandmaster -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:22:11 PM)
It's just not going to happen for me without doggie-style sex and halftime blowjobs.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:25:17 PM)
Need .... to be touched. everything else is up for negotiations [:)]

VampiresLair -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:25:24 PM)
Need for me is physical contact. Touching, snuggling, holding hands, lap sitting, sleeping curled up together, that sort of thing. Sex is the easy part, but the physical intimacy that ISNT related to sex is what I need.

mc1234 -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:29:16 PM)
Impact play with moderate to severe amounts of pain Kissing Rough sex Hair pulling Kneeling Bondage Serving him orally Soft, easy lovemaking ... at least once a year to ensure my gentle side still exists. [;)]

Padriag -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:31:33 PM)
There are very few physical needs I require a slave to provide for, in general I provide for my own physical needs. That leaves a pretty short list. Sex, and more to the point... good sex... would be probably the most notable. Most of the needs I have just aren't of the physical sort.

Lordandmaster -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:34:07 PM)
Pffft, all these self-pronounced football fans on Collarme and I'm still the only person who has mentioned halftime blowjobs.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:36:04 PM)
Sorry LaM, but I get nothing out of halftime blowjobs. Now, halftime quickies, 3rd quarter foot rubs... and of course the victory sex when my team wins... im all over it

IrishMist -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 5:39:41 PM)
quote: What do you need physically from your relationships? What do you feel you couldn't be in a relationship without? Quite honestly, Pain. Physically, pain is the one thing that I must have in any relationship. And I am not meaning pain that comes from clamps, knife play, floggers, etc....I am talking the kind of pain you get from kicking, punching, slapping, throwing...hard, brutal, severe pain.

DesFIP -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 6:45:43 PM)
A lot of touching. Hugging, kissing, sitting in his lap, holding each other naked at bedtime. Those things are paramount. Play stuff; ropes, gags, blindfolds. At that point anything he cares to do. I need to be fully used, to the point I'm worn out at least once every two weeks minimum or I get itchy for it and then my emotions start to seesaw from bitchy to weepy. A couple of times a week is wonderful but at least once every couple of weeks.

DavanKael -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 6:57:35 PM)
Physical touch, emotional availability and reciprocity, communication. Davan

SOsMINE -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 7:04:04 PM)
I would have to go with kissing A LOT of that. Constant touching any where on my body and his body at any time. Halftime blow jobs? LOL That's usually when I put out the real serious food for S O. LOL

hejira92 -> RE: Physical needs ? (11/9/2008 7:09:05 PM)
My marriage was almost touchless and I live for touch, so I've learned the hard way what I need because I withered for so long without it. I need hugs, random rubs, hand-holding, permission to caress Him at will, sudden breast squeezes, sitting on His lap, touching during discussions, and feeling His boot on my back as I kneel and kiss His feet. And I LOVE being unexpectedly grabbed and thrown against a wall to be bit, kissed roughly or grinded. I love being held down, tied up, pushed around, slammed in the ribs, shut up and fucked hard. Yeah, we once tried to "make love" all soft and romantic. It lasted about three minutes before I was bored and begging for Him to slam into His cnt and use His fcking hole for what it was made for.... But I could not ever again be in a relationship without the non-sexual physical affection and the rough sex, with a side of pain, that I have now. And since Master always tells me that He's never letting me go, I guess I don't have to worry. [:D]

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