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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 12:54:21 PM

Sensualips

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hate it that you can't see any good in Him.

Why are you concerned what others see or don't see in him? You do not need message board posters to validate your relationship and feelings. Right?

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 1:03:20 PM

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No, she just needs them to solve problems in her daily life. Consider the comments by users here the "fee" for such service.

TANSTAAFL.

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 1:10:17 PM

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I think you need to talk to your master about this issue. It is not unreasonable to insist you wear a collar. It is unreasonable to insist you wear a collar that causes you problems at work. Choker necklaces, a necklace with a heart lock, bracelets, etc. are all items that some submissives and slaves I know wear as daily collars.

Perosnally, my rules with my Mistress include the cavaet that if something causes a conflict with my work or family, I should modify the rule as seems sensible to alleviate problems.

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 1:10:48 PM

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I'm a little concerned about your boss to be honest....you said you told him a little about whats going on in your life and about your collar? But he wasnt upset by it? WHY call you in , in the first place, if the collar is that clear what it is and why your wearing it.....and he doesnt want you to change it...why talk to you about it, why not just hand you a scarf and say, 'could you slip this on for the meeting with the big guys' ? I'm not saying your boss is gonna do anything outta hand, but i wouldnt offer him to much info about your home life, it really isnt his business...and you dont want him getting off on your private life

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 1:16:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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He forced me to tell my parents -snip-. He knew keeping my lifestyle secret was agony to me, particularly with my parents, but also with my friends and work colleagues, so He has forced it all out in the open.

Okay, I have to ask....is this for real? I can see how some people would be agony.

Oh I've been giving this about a 30% chance of being a real relationship since Friday, and it's steadily lowering.

But makes for good discussion.

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 1:23:01 PM

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Real........Fantasy.........Boss.........Springstein..............Yep sums it up

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 1:37:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Okay, I have to ask....is this for real?

Well, as for my impression of this, and the many other posts, from the OP....she's not the only one having a hard time swallowing...just a tad hard to swallow...all of the stuff that's been posted.

I know that we shouldn't believe 'all' that we read, and take things with a grain a salt, but everything I've seen.....is hard to believe. I can't help wonder if it's mostly fantasy myself.

Either way...it's a soap opera, like Fastland said. I missed All My Children today, so watching this is my fix.

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 2:05:42 PM

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Hmm kind of off the topic but I find it really interesting when slaves and subs just give everything to their master. To have that much trust is something I just don't posess. It's weird how I crave this lifestyle but at the same time crave my independence. hmmmm

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 2:34:54 PM

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I missed All My Children today.....................

I caught the tail end of it, the baby of disappeared in a blue baby snow suit by the nut dressed as Santa Claus. It is getting old lately...........

Now General Hospital........its getting Good.........lol

Yep working from Home one has time to watch those things.......

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 3:08:44 PM

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im not here to judge . I personally would wrap a scarf around my collar at work , and remove it when in my car.

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 3:33:32 PM

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Hey, no worries at all, i've seen the Boss and everything is hunky dory. What a relief!!! He was fine with everything, said it was my right to wear anything i liked provided it was not offensive and he said i dressed so neat and smart and was always so polite and well behaved that no one in their right mind could complain about me being collared. He wanted to know more about it which was embarassing but i told him some of the stuff. He advised me to ask Master if i could wear the company scarf when in meetings with senior people so as to avoid the risk of confrontation and cover up the collar during the meeting. But he said i had every right to wear it in the office and he had spoken to some of the others who he expected were hassling me.

I don't believe any of this

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 5:27:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: sallysally

Wow, you guys don't like my Master. i adore him!!!! But what do i do when i go see my Boss in a few minutes? i can't say i'll take it off because that is clearly not going to happen.

I'm glad things worked out with the collar, but I'd be more concerned about you accessing a BDSM site on a work computer during work hours.

Be well,
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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 7:00:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Bruce Springsteen? Did anyone else think that?

Eyup, I sure did.

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 7:05:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: sallysally

Hey, no worries at all, i've seen the Boss and everything is hunky dory. What a relief!!! He was fine with everything, said it was my right to wear anything i liked provided it was not offensive and he said i dressed so neat and smart and was always so polite and well behaved that no one in their right mind could complain about me being collared.

What a dear!! i've never really spoken to him alone before. If i was not so in love with Master i think i would fall for Him!!!!

Does he have any idea how much company time you spend on kinky websites? I wonder if he'd still be a dear about that.
Ive got to say this whole story sort of smells....fishy to me.
No offense intended, just sayin...

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 7:09:02 PM

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What a dear!! i've never really spoken to him alone before. If i was not so in love with Master i think i would fall for Him!!!!

He he you never know. One of your bosses secret inclinations could be a little subbie in HIS CLOSET!!

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 8:38:36 PM

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OK so by now you have seen the boss--what's the resolution so we can move on from this thread--

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 9:46:38 PM

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I have to say, I sure don't think much of your master. As a Mistress, I feel it is my responsibility to watch out for My slave's best interests... yes, even sometimes putting those above My own interests, if insisting that My slave do as I wish, if this would be something harmful to My slave. He has, after all, trusted me enough to place responsibility for every aspect of his life into My hands. Now, as his Mistress, I could whip him all night (if I was into that), but come morning, it's just as much My responsibility to see that he gets to work on time, that he is prepared for work, properly dressed, etc. To insist on flaunting My ownership in the vanilla world in such a way as to place My slave's career at risk, I would consider to be incredibly irresponsible, and behavior that would invalidate the trust placed in My hands.

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/19/2005 10:02:32 PM

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Several questions come to mind after reading this thread, some of them have already kind of been asked.

1) What kind of a collar is it that a boss took notice of it to the point of feeling that it warrented a discussion?

2) Why disclose potentially harmful and personal information about yourself to someone who has the ability to take your job with or without reason?

3) Why is this specific collar so important? Surely another one, a less obvious one would work just as well while in public.

4) What type of person "forces" another to disclose personal (and sexual) information about themselves to their parents, even though the parents knowing this information could permenantly damage the relationship?

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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/20/2005 3:36:00 AM

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Hello There,
I wear my collar on my neck 24/7 and have since last April. It's only been taken off once when I topped someone in our dungeon. Master said I couldn't have my collar on and be topping someone, but he put it back on when I was done.
I sell insurance. My collar looks like a dog collar. My boss didn't like it but there was nothing in the dress code about jewelry so I did not take it off when he voiced his opinion.
I can always get a new job. I can't go get a loving Master like mine again.
I also trust if I lost my job that Master would help me find a way to get a new job if he still wanted me to work.
I've also worn my collar to a big family gathering of my family 3X and my Masters family 2X.
When my Dad had ask why I had on a dog collar I just told him collars were in fashion now and Rick had given it to me. I also told him Rick and I had a deal that I'd wear it forever if he wanted me to.

If my family would die if I didn't take it off I'd do it, but other than that only my Master may remove it if he chooses to , and a Doctor may remove it if medically necessary.
There is no other reason I'd take it off ever.
Sincerely,
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RE: Got to see the Boss - 12/20/2005 3:47:21 AM

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Hey, i am secure and stable, i just get worried about new things but i know He is right and knows what He is doing and we have a great relationship but it is clearly on the basis that He makes the decisions, i say what worries me whenever He asks me and i do the running around and make life as physically comfortable for Him as i can. We are very much in love but the terms are His and i need to know that and i accept that. That doesn't mean i don't worry, everyone would worry with such a lot of change going on. He was real good to me at the weekend, He forced me to tell my parents when we went to stay and He stayed up real late talking to them about it, long after He had sent me to bed. He knew keeping my lifestyle secret was agony to me, particularly with my parents, but also with my friends and work colleagues, so He has forced it all out in the open. My parents were a lot nicer to me on Sunday morning after He had spoken to them than on Saturday evening. He made me keep the collar on all weekend so that they would accept me as i am and not keep hoping to "resuce me".

i hate it that you can't see any good in Him. He is my life.

Hello sally,
Don't worry about those who say they don't like your Master. They are basically just voicing their concern about how you said felt in your post. They have concern for your well being.
We don't know your relationship dynamics with your Master, or you personally, so any opinion is more of a guess based on this one thing.
If you are happy with your Master than that's what really counts anyway isn't it?
People think my Master is extreme and mean as they only see us when we play at the dungeon. They don't see his tender, sweet, and loving side I see at home. They only see the spanking they don't see things he does in aftercare or just because he loves me. They base their opinion on one tenth of the story and not our real deal too.
Don't let others opinions bother you if you are happy. I say as long as I know the truth I'm not worried if others don't get it. Do what you feel comfortable with regardless of others opinions as long as you're not hurting someone.

Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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