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truesub4u -> Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 3:52:01 PM)
After the past 2 days on the forum. Are the fights really worth this? The snide remarks? The seriousness of making one feel uneasy with themselves? I think this STINKS! BDSM discussion has taken a odd twist. One can't ask question or seek advice without fear of being ridiculed. No not all responses are going to be what we want to see. If they were, why bother? But what happened to responding with out trying to degrade? What happened to seeking without causing a free for all? It would appear some of us need to remember that not all on here are as experianced, (I know I'm not). I came on here to learn more of what I knew I wanted in my life. And so far, other than a few great postings and threads. This has become a battle of the sexes, battle of the brains and battle of freedom to seek education! I really think the question here now should be...... WHO REALLY LIKES ANAL SEX???? Is it some you really like? Or just ingage in because of the stimulation it can cause to highten some great sex already going on? Is it a craving to some, a fear to others? Let's get back on the topics here that makes this a really fun forum to read. And lighten up some and let's have some fun, some laughs... I look forward to the responses on the question at hand... let's see how much we can have here.

candystripper -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 4:07:24 PM)
Flaming is silly and against the TOS and Forum Guidelines, so there is "block" which can make your enjoyment of the boards much nicer. There is also "report" if you want the Mods to review a certain post....but for me, i just think it's juvenile to be so upset by an argument that you attack the person making it...or having been attacked, cannot resist the urge to defend yourself. And i say this having behaved this way in the past myself. And no, i have no interest in anal sex, LOL. MY question is why did "what's wrong with women" reach 9 pages while "what's wrong with men" only reached 3 pages? candystripper.

MTslave -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 4:11:48 PM)
~just nods and agree's then goes onto the good stuff...anal sex~ Anal sex - I love it but not all the time. It's one of those special even type activities. Getting into the moment, doing what your doing, then taken by suprise when one decides to have anal sex as well, adding a new twist and demension into that times activities... just love it. Always Master T's impish slave PS... and those other posts got so dumb that I stopped reading at about a page and a half... no reason to even bother with idiocy

DesertRat -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 4:16:05 PM)
I guess there must be a lot more wrong with women than with men, right? Like three times more? (he said, tongue in cheekily) Bob

KnightofMists -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 4:16:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: candystripper MY question is why did "what's wrong with women" reach 9 pages while "what's wrong with men" only reached 3 pages? candystripper.[/font][/size][/color] mmmmmmmmmm just a possibility and not necessarily a fact.. But, There are fewer things wrong with men than women, so it took less pages to express it. w

MissDiandSirHugh -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 4:18:13 PM)
I (Sir) do not enjoy anal even though Bi would rather enjoy oral and play if not in a BDSM paly even then best have the Sub or Slave give oral if they are Bi or Bi-Curious just not my high. But have no trouble with anal play on a Sub or Slave if it is on their list of likes or want to try. Change chairs so new typest I (Miss) only enjoy it some times and yes it is very exciteing then but I do love anal play in any form and in love giving it in BDSM play and if it is with a Bi or Bi_Curious Sub or Slave are very able to do it to them if it is to either torment them or give them the experience of trying it to see if it is one of their limits. Also as I do own 2 strap-ons and all are willing I will happily use them or any other vibrators to take things as far as I can within the limits of whom what ever is being used on. Hate to tell you truesub4u but it is now 10:15am and you are either running very late or lost but then again we thing you are not going to be here so [:(]

darkinshadows -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 4:24:32 PM)
If it stinks too much you can do one of two things. Leave. Add a little perfume and wash away the smell. Complaining on something that is always going to happen is focusing on the negative and not on the positive. I am sure that you have made some friends on here - that is positive surely? Lets hear about that instead of ill wishes of death and nasty responses that occur because this is a forum full of normal human beings. And for the most part, human beings stink.[;)] Being a BDSM site doesn't make it any 'better' - no matter the fairytale ending that is desired. Anal Sex - private. We could lighten up and have fun - many of us do. And many who hang around know the personalities and what can make a person 'tick'... it's jumping in and making presumptions of a reply or just plain old not listening or reading thoroughly that causes the most problems. That and not liking the responses one gets... but hey - public forum and all that. The BDSM discussion board is for discussing BDSM - not just lighthearted banter... that is what the other forums are listed for. Reading the guidelines and terms of service helps assist on what topics go where, but few have the time to read them, let alone follow them... in an age of 'give me more now and quick' - patience and politeness wavers. Peace and Rapture.

KnightofMists -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 4:31:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesertRat I guess there must be a lot more wrong with women than with men, right? Like three times more? (he said, tongue in cheekily) Bob Oh man DesertRat beat my post by 25 seconds.... Next time I gone tie weights around his balls to slow him down alittle G

candystripper -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 4:47:19 PM)
quote: mmmmmmmmmm just a possibility and not necessarily a fact.. But, There are fewer things wrong with men than women, so it took less pages to express it. w KoM Believe me, when i do find Him, i'm not gonna wanna change Him; i'm gonna wanna climb Him like a jungle gym, LOL. candystripper

MissDiandSirHugh -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 5:01:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: candystripper quote: mmmmmmmmmm just a possibility and not necessarily a fact.. But, There are fewer things wrong with men than women, so it took less pages to express it. w KoM Believe me, when i do find Him, i'm not gonna wanna change Him; i'm gonna wanna climb Him like a jungle gym, LOL. candystripper Be carefull candystripper just go gentle as he may have been waiting a long time just for you to enter his life also so if you go to hard and fast the whole show will be over before it begins. Would not like to see a post from you asking "What did do wrong to My ONE"

IrishMist -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 5:11:25 PM)
/perks up Anal sex??????????

willing2serve -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 5:17:45 PM)
quote: /perks up Anal sex?????????? LOL...Yes, Irish....means you have to have them there jeans ripped off again...LOL I personally just bought one of those anal pumps...and so not wanting to give Master the pump...LOL....Does this mean I am afraid of control? OR afraid of giving a man a toy because he is definitely going to see how it works and how far it will pump up....lol Can a slave have pump limits ? (just teasing)

OscarHargraves -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 6:27:18 PM)
Oh Candy girl. You're leaving yourself wide open for a wisecrack or two with THAT question.

OscarHargraves -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 6:34:27 PM)
Hi TrueSub4U, The answer to your question is, "Yes I do enjoy anal sex". I really enjoy the tightness, the different feelings and the TPE of it. It's very close to rape for TPE. I also feel it is just for me. Whether she enjoys it or not is not important. When I'm doing this I don't need to think about her or her pleasure. I don't need to try to slow down or speed up to make it right for her and I can just 'use' her for my total pleasure.

windy135 -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 6:46:52 PM)
Anal sex? good post! Yes I enjoy it although I have much more to explore with it, (never having an anal orgasm). Will be fun trying again.. hopefully soon.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 7:03:10 PM)
People in bdsm are just like people anywhere else. And I love anal sex when it doesn't hurt.

truesub4u -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 7:24:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darkangel If it stinks too much you can do one of two things. Leave. Add a little perfume and wash away the smell. Complaining on something that is always going to happen is focusing on the negative and not on the positive. I am sure that you have made some friends on here - that is positive surely? Lets hear about that instead of ill wishes of death and nasty responses that occur because this is a forum full of normal human beings. And for the most part, human beings stink.[;)] Being a BDSM site doesn't make it any 'better' - no matter the fairytale ending that is desired. Anal Sex - private. We could lighten up and have fun - many of us do. And many who hang around know the personalities and what can make a person 'tick'... it's jumping in and making presumptions of a reply or just plain old not listening or reading thoroughly that causes the most problems. That and not liking the responses one gets... but hey - public forum and all that. The BDSM discussion board is for discussing BDSM - not just lighthearted banter... that is what the other forums are listed for. Reading the guidelines and terms of service helps assist on what topics go where, but few have the time to read them, let alone follow them... in an age of 'give me more now and quick' - patience and politeness wavers. Peace and Rapture. Ummm ok

KatyLied -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 7:26:15 PM)
Anal sex deserves its own thread. geez [:)]

truesub4u -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 7:33:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: candystripper MY question is why did "what's wrong with women" reach 9 pages while "what's wrong with men" only reached 3 pages? candystripper.[/font][/size][/color] mmmmmmmmmm just a possibility and not necessarily a fact.. But, There are fewer things wrong with men than women, so it took less pages to express it. w LOL... No you did not just got there! That was just wrong!... LMAO Thanks Candy... great laugh there... and great response that followed.

truesub4u -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 7:37:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windy135 Anal sex? good post! Yes I enjoy it although I have much more to explore with it, (never having an anal orgasm). Will be fun trying again.. hopefully soon. Well damn, I think I've been missing out on something here. All though I enjoy, once started. Getting started frightens me really. But I really didn't know you could have an anal orgasm. I'm begining to think I have been deprived of something here.... hmmmmmmmm Time to investigate this further, I can tell already. Thanks for adding this response very much!

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