cravinspankin -> RE: Is This Really BDSM? (12/19/2005 10:45:49 PM)
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I love anal play, absolutely love it, on the receiving end anyway. I used to just tolerate anal sex when i was married.. but now divorced, and in the last year or so have come to love it, for some reason. Odd, i guess. But I don't enjoy the giving side of any anal play, except rimming, and only do that for certain people. This may incite some people, but i find it's hard to think of a man as being dominant if he's wanting me to plug his ass, or use a dildo or vibe on his ass. However, i find it dominant if he wants me to rim him. And i find it incredibly hot that a Dom I'm seeing loves to plug me when we go out. Even though we are still just getting to know each other and there is no commitment to one another yet... even if just for the evening, that plug inside me is a constant reminder that i am with Him, and that for that evening, He is in control, that i am His to do with as He pleases. For me, that knowledge, that being able to feel in essence His presence inside me all night is thrilling.
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