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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 7:43:35 PM

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But I really didn't know you could have an anal orgasm. I'm begining to think I have been deprived of something here.... hmmmmmmmm

/nods vigourously

Yep, you have been deprived......anal orgasm.......MMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nothing else need be said

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 7:46:12 PM

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But I really didn't know you could have an anal orgasm. I'm begining to think I have been deprived of something here.... hmmmmmmmm

/nods vigourously

Yep, you have been deprived......anal orgasm.......MMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nothing else need be said

Oh you are just mean!... LMAO

Now I know I have to go find more information on this. Any good places to start?... LOL

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 8:15:26 PM

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I am so with you, I want to learn and I have been guilty of perhaps not being as tolerant--well I'm only human, but yeah--threads that get all this response and its crap--

so , YEAH I love getting ( and that so does not mean I am a switch---) and I love giving---but shhhh don't tell anyone, because the boy reads this and he might get weak in the knees---smiles

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 8:16:11 PM

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seconds the mmmm with a...
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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 8:48:24 PM

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/perks up

Anal sex??????????

LOL...Yes, Irish....means you have to have them there jeans ripped off again...LOL

I personally just bought one of those anal pumps...and so not wanting to give Master the pump...LOL....Does this mean I am afraid of control? OR afraid of giving a man a toy because he is definitely going to see how it works and how far it will pump up....lol

Can a slave have pump limits ? (just teasing)

Not that we have to see how it works just have to see if it works and as to seeing how far it will pump up that is to make sure its not broken and would have to be returned if so we hope its under warranty.
We pull them apart to see how they work but just cant get them back together again or if we do have parts left over for maybe trying to make another.

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 9:13:13 PM

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I guess there must be a lot more wrong with women than with men, right? Like three times more? (he said, tongue in cheekily)

Bob

I think that there are three times as many frustrated men than women. Also, three times as many men who aren't busy playing, and have time to post here. I include myself in the above, so nobody take it personally.

But, I will return home tomorrow and plan to spend a lot of time like the little Dutch boy. That is with my finger in a dyke. Well, actually my whole fist. And, she’s not a total dyke, but a submissive bisexual yummy, with big firm… and red hair just made for pulling… and an ass that begs to be….

Sorry, but it’s been a long trip away from home and I really need to get back.

Wishing you all pleasure in that for which you are searching,

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 9:16:47 PM

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Oh, and anal sex rules. Especially on someone else's sheets.

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 9:25:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Oh you are just mean!... LMAO

Now I know I have to go find more information on this. Any good places to start?... LOL

Funny you should mention it. I offer a workshop in achieving anal orgasms. If you'd like to sign up for Shake's Anal Orgasm Workshop let me know. The class is one hour lecture and 500 hours lab. If you don't have it down by then, then you can re-take the class for free! Attend with a friend for half price.

(Sorry, couldn't help it.)

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 9:35:02 PM

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here are as experianced,

you spelled that wrong <smirks>

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 9:47:05 PM

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I like anal sex but i am with truesub4u on the getting frightened part. I can't ever seem to relax enough to get started, and because it is so painful, I only do it occasionally.

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 10:45:28 PM

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Flaming on this site is actually dying down in my opinion... Some people seem to be banned and they were the main instigators.

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 10:45:49 PM

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I love anal play, absolutely love it, on the receiving end anyway.
I used to just tolerate anal sex when i was married.. but now divorced, and in the last year or so have come to love it, for some reason. Odd, i guess.
But I don't enjoy the giving side of any anal play, except rimming, and only do that for certain people.
This may incite some people, but i find it's hard to think of a man as being dominant if he's wanting me to plug his ass, or use a dildo or vibe on his ass. However, i find it dominant if he wants me to rim him.
And i find it incredibly hot that a Dom I'm seeing loves to plug me when we go out. Even though we are still just getting to know each other and there is no commitment to one another yet... even if just for the evening, that plug inside me is a constant reminder that i am with Him, and that for that evening, He is in control, that i am His to do with as He pleases.
For me, that knowledge, that being able to feel in essence His presence inside me all night is thrilling.

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 10:48:26 PM

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But, There are fewer things wrong with men than women, so it took less pages to express it. *w*

Nah, we're just nicer (to men anyway

), more tactful, and worry about more than your size.

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 10:49:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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But I really didn't know you could have an anal orgasm. I'm begining to think I have been deprived of something here.... hmmmmmmmm

/nods vigourously

Yep, you have been deprived......anal orgasm.......MMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nothing else need be said

oh heaven help me... anal orgasms... oh yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
some of my best orgasms come from anal sex alone.
omg.... it's getting warm in here!

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 11:07:32 PM

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IrishMist wrote:

"Anal sex??????????"

Yeah, that's when you make your partner do it over and over until you get it right. :-)

Eric

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/19/2005 11:35:46 PM

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Haven't been around the boards a whole lot, OMG, I am missing out on the actionBeen busy with MsN and all our escapades!

Well for once I am glad I don't know much about which ya'all are slinging about

All I can say is there are some people here who tend to react strongly to certain subjects.
There can be gaps of cyber time that are funny and everyone's mindset clicks and others where it seems everyone has a different strong point of view.
I think you have the option to read what you want, if a thread is disturbing, offensive, or too right in your face, pick another thread.

I like the diversity myself, if there was no conflict in thought would we be learning?

Edited to add, Don't especially care for anal sex, but love to have in a butt plug during sex

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/20/2005 12:18:53 AM

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I really enjoy the tightness, the different feelings and the TPE of it. It's very close to rape for TPE. I also feel it is just for me. Whether she enjoys it or not is not important. When I'm doing this I don't need to think about her or her pleasure. I don't need to try to slow down or speed up to make it right for her and I can just 'use' her for my total pleasure.

*nodsnods* -- and this from the receiving end!

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/20/2005 5:12:12 AM

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After the past 2 days on the forum. Are the fights really worth this? The snide remarks? The seriousness of making one feel uneasy with themselves? I think this STINKS!

Im not sure another person can actually
make
a person feel a certain way. I think we have the power to process what others do and say within our own framework of beliefs.
That said, it sure is easy to feel uneasy when one is being bombarded with criticism, that is true.
But, any time a person gets up on stage and puts him or herself out there, there is the possibility that what that person offers is not going to be valued by the people in the audience, so to speak.
I hope that you are able to filter out the opinions of those who dont really have any bearing on your life and also remember that this is a very two-dimensional world (the boards) and these people a. dont know you and b. dont necessarily have any more of their shit together than you do. (Myself included)

As for anal. I actually dislike the physical sensation of anal quite a bit which is probably why I like the idea of my Sig Other taking me that way. It's the mind f*ck I enjoy.
That statement probably would not make sense anywhere but here in this wonderful imperfect two-dimensional world.

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/20/2005 9:53:53 AM

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After the past 2 days on the forum. Are the fights really worth this? The snide remarks? The seriousness of making one feel uneasy with themselves? I think this STINKS!

BDSM discussion has taken a odd twist. One can't ask question or seek advice without fear of being ridiculed. No not all responses are going to be what we want to see. If they were, why bother?

But what happened to responding with out trying to degrade? What happened to seeking without causing a free for all? It would appear some of us need to remember that not all on here are as experianced, (I know I'm not). I came on here to learn more of what I knew I wanted in my life. And so far, other than a few great postings and threads. This has become a battle of the sexes, battle of the brains and battle of freedom to seek education!

Interesting...this post coming from someone that, in another thread, told LuckyA to die for posting her opinions. (That thread was immediately deleted by the Moderators after that.)

Not a flame, but I think one should practice what they preach. What's good to preach to "all" is good to follow for ourselves. Myself included.

As for the other topic, anal penetration is fine...as long as I'm the giver. 'Tis better to give than to receive. Fa, la, la, la, la....la, la, la, la!

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/20/2005 10:13:57 AM

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I have known women that hate anal sex
women that will submit to anal sex to please a man
women that like anal sex only ocassionally
even knew 1 woman that craved it

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