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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/20/2005 10:29:55 AM

Yourkitten

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well, as for my self, anal sex is purfect. i love knowing that with this act i am giving myself completely.
and it feels so good

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/20/2005 7:14:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: FTopinMichigan

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

After the past 2 days on the forum. Are the fights really worth this? The snide remarks? The seriousness of making one feel uneasy with themselves? I think this STINKS!

BDSM discussion has taken a odd twist. One can't ask question or seek advice without fear of being ridiculed. No not all responses are going to be what we want to see. If they were, why bother?

But what happened to responding with out trying to degrade? What happened to seeking without causing a free for all? It would appear some of us need to remember that not all on here are as experianced, (I know I'm not). I came on here to learn more of what I knew I wanted in my life. And so far, other than a few great postings and threads. This has become a battle of the sexes, battle of the brains and battle of freedom to seek education!

Interesting...this post coming from someone that, in another thread, told LuckyA to die for posting her opinions. (That thread was immediately deleted by the Moderators after that.)

Not a flame, but I think one should practice what they preach. What's good to preach to "all" is good to follow for ourselves. Myself included.

As for the other topic, anal penetration is fine...as long as I'm the giver. 'Tis better to give than to receive. Fa, la, la, la, la....la, la, la, la!

K

And I do recall making the statment that I was wrong. And I have learned from my mistakes too. And the begining of this wasn't pointed at one person or all it was pointed at me. I said it stinks.. I did NOT state anyone else did. So please make sure you read it all before popping off on me. I attacked NO ONE on this post at all. I just made a remark, which is what we all do on here. But my remark was not focused on no one person, or people.

As this is also not pointed towards you, you are not the only one who has stated something simular to this. I just clicked yours on because it was the one i read last. So this is also not a rebuttle on your post alone. Nothing personal at all. As for LA... I got no problems with her, her patience with me and knowing I was .. and am.. a newbie and learning this site still.. has helped me understand alot more on here... thanks.

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/20/2005 10:36:30 PM

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Does anyone remember the anal sex scene in "Last Tango in Paris"?
Marlon Brando was hot back in the day...

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/21/2005 8:18:35 PM

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I guess there must be a lot more wrong with women than with men, right? Like three times more? (he said, tongue in cheekily)

Or could it possibly be that men have less substance?
Just a thought?

An example....and it relates to the anal sex topic.
I was involved with a man 12 years younger than myself.
Told him of my love for anal sex. He said that he could never do
that....even with a woman as it would mean that he was a homosexual.
(pretty good indication of less substance)
To make a long story short...he eventually did try it and loved it.

cathy

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RE: Is This Really BDSM? - 12/22/2005 6:51:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

After the past 2 days on the forum. Are the fights really worth this? The snide remarks? The seriousness of making one feel uneasy with themselves? I think this STINKS!

BDSM discussion has taken a odd twist. One can't ask question or seek advice without fear of being ridiculed. No not all responses are going to be what we want to see. If they were, why bother?

When I feel like a thread has turned into nothing more than an argument or someone's attempt to get attention through any means possible I walk away. Sometimes, if I think some good points were raised in the thread, I'll give some final thoughts. But in the end I walk away and I leave it alone. I did that with one such thread recently and I haven't looked back. I figure it this way, it takes at least two people to have a fight... if I refuse to participate then I'm not contributing to the problem. Some people seem to want to argue, that's their business. I can easily ignore the thread and move on to other things... and I do. Like finally posting an essay I'd been meaning to get to for a month!

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I really think the question here now should be......

WHO REALLY LIKES ANAL SEX????
Is it some you really like? Or just ingage in because of the stimulation it can cause to highten some great sex already going on? Is it a craving to some, a fear to others?

Don't care for it. For one its a little gross to me and second, I like having my cock sucked afterwards... and that would be pretty gross too! I've known more than a few lasses that really enjoyed some stimulation back there though, for which dildoes, vibrators and plugs come in pretty handy. Actually a vibrator up her ass while I'm fucking her adds to the experience for both of us.

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