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RE: Phobias and hard limits - 11/12/2008 6:21:59 PM

kiwisub12

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LOL, yeah, like the grouchy nurses? ;)

Nah grouchy nurses I get, it is the smiling, pleasant ones that scare me.....You just know they love their job....

hehehe - yes - we do love our jobs!!

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RE: Phobias and hard limits - 11/12/2008 6:45:59 PM

kristileigh

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Feet!
I will freeze up quick. Master has tried to get me past it. i have never cared for my feet and just touching them will make me freeze up not quite a panic attack but just as bad.

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RE: Phobias and hard limits - 11/12/2008 6:49:20 PM

BKSir

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Feet!
I will freeze up quick. Master has tried to get me past it. i have never cared for my feet and just touching them will make me freeze up not quite a panic attack but just as bad.

Oh good god yes. Feet are a BIG no go for me. I thought about punishing my Dear One by tickling his feet, but, I couldn't even touch them. It's not that they're dirty or uncared for, it's just... feet... ew.

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RE: Phobias and hard limits - 11/12/2008 8:50:03 PM

NuevaVida

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Most times, many topics regarding hard limits haven't included a person's phobias. I was wondering if a person who identifies as submissive, if you would ask your dom to help you get over a phobia or if the phobia is a "do not enter" zone? Also, do you consider your phobias being part of your list of hard limits?

My phobias were never a "do not enter" zone for my former owner. I never outright asked for help in dealing with them, but I did find myself intrigued by my knife phobia, and we worked together to overcome it. Other phobias (to varying degrees) were discovered along the way - extreme confinement, such as being saran wrapped or having my head covered and pinned down would launch me into a panic attack. But doing such things weren't off limits to him, so no, they were not considered a hard limit. Once discovered, he handled them cautiously, but he didn't turn from them completely.

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