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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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please don't feel like you're somehow LACKING or missing something because you can't orgasm from something getting shoved into your ass.

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How is it I have lived for thirty six years and am only NOW hearing of this fabled(?) ANAL ORGASM and could someone please explain how this is anatomically even possible? Is this G spot related cause I thought the G spot was on the anterior wall of the vagina.
F*ckin A, where have I been all this time??????????????

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Irish - do you have spontaneous orgasms from anal?

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Well, I can not speak for everyone, but for me...its all about pain. I get very turned on and aroused by the pain and the degradation of the act...and that in itself is enough to cause an orgasm for me.

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ORIGINAL: Chaingang

I think there is a powerful sense of transgression that accompanies many acts. What precisely is being transgressed varies from individual to individual and even from occasion to occasion. I personally find anal sex very transgressive for a number of reasons. I personally enjoy that so many submissives see it as transgressive also and enjoy the sense of being used, taken and the associations with rape. The act can even be accompanied by utterances that heighten the sense of control, humiliation, or shame.

I think one of the more interesting facets of anal sex in relation to women is the fact that the much more sensible location for sex is right next door in the vagina. The vagina is soft, dark, self-lubricating, surrounded by powerful muscles, and generally just delicious. To me, the beginning of transgression is in the nature of the act of anal sex to reject the vagina - to reject the woman's presumed key female trait. The woman is neutered - when you take her in the ass she's just a fuck hole.

I have used anal sex to reduce a woman to a more animal state, to remind her that there is a part of this in which she is just a receptacle for my pleasure - and even she cannot choose what kind of vessel she is, she may not even be female. I have also used anal sex for acts of near rape and also for punishment. And those acts are powerful.

Say what you like about the penis - but in the end we all know it's a weapon of a kind. It extends out from a man and bridges the empty space between a man and a woman. The penis is the singular part of male anatomy that defines his maleness. The center of femaleness is not located in a woman's breasts, nor in her vagina, nor anywhere else that she can find on her person - that which makes her uniquely female is actually an empty space. She is a sheath of flesh, a hole, a void.

The woman can be taken, she can be filled, and the man may even leave the mark of his having been there - that viscous, white, phlegmy goo that seeps from her empty spaces.

I return you now to your ordinary reality...

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ORIGINAL: Chaingang

I think there is a powerful sense of transgression that accompanies many acts. What precisely is being transgressed varies from individual to individual and even from occasion to occasion. I personally find anal sex very transgressive for a number of reasons. I personally enjoy that so many submissives see it as transgressive also and enjoy the sense of being used, taken and the associations with rape. The act can even be accompanied by utterances that heighten the sense of control, humiliation, or shame.

I think one of the more interesting facets of anal sex in relation to women is the fact that the much more sensible location for sex is right next door in the vagina. The vagina is soft, dark, self-lubricating, surrounded by powerful muscles, and generally just delicious. To me, the beginning of transgression is in the nature of the act of anal sex to reject the vagina - to reject the woman's presumed key female trait. The woman is neutered - when you take her in the ass she's just a fuck hole.

I have used anal sex to reduce a woman to a more animal state, to remind her that there is a part of this in which she is just a receptacle for my pleasure - and even she cannot choose what kind of vessel she is, she may not even be female. I have also used anal sex for acts of near rape and also for punishment. And those acts are powerful.

Say what you like about the penis - but in the end we all know it's a weapon of a kind. It extends out from a man and bridges the empty space between a man and a woman. The penis is the singular part of male anatomy that defines his maleness. The center of femaleness is not located in a woman's breasts, nor in her vagina, nor anywhere else that she can find on her person - that which makes her uniquely female is actually an empty space. She is a sheath of flesh, a hole, a void.

The woman can be taken, she can be filled, and the man may even leave the mark of his having been there - that viscous, white, phlegmy goo that seeps from her empty spaces.

I return you now to your ordinary reality...