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SadysticJester -> whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/13/2008 6:45:38 PM)
i'm curious as to why subs/slaves when creating profiles they need to say things like"i'm a pain slut can you deliver" "i'm a slave can you Master me",all sorts of things that can and or will lead to misinterpretations/mistakes/emotional harm/physical harm....this goes on no matter what site you go too. then when you ask them for further info regarding such you get back all sorts of things besides what you would expect(which i wont bore you with-lol)..i have my idea's/suspicions but would like to hear from the subs/slaves on this matter,,thnx

xxblushesxx -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/13/2008 6:51:40 PM)
Perhaps they like testing their potential partners?

lovingpet -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/13/2008 7:01:25 PM)
I agree that testing is a possibility. The person may be a SAM personality. There is always the possiblity that the person is so new they have not a clue how such statements come across to a dominant. Just a few guesses. lovingpet

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/13/2008 7:10:25 PM)
Usually it's because they are scared of appearing "too stereotypically submissive," desparately want to be seduced into feeling secure, and don't really trust their own judgement.

antipode -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/13/2008 8:52:40 PM)
quote: you get back all sorts of things besides what you would expect It is generally called cut 'n paste. This is how they draw traffic to themselves, for what reason I do not know.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/14/2008 7:12:52 AM)
perhaps you should address the question to the profiles yourself. i don't want to presume incorrectly the minds of the profile owners.

peppermint -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/14/2008 7:23:27 AM)
It's their profile and they can say whatever they please. It isn't against TOS. Let's face it...you can't please all of the people all of the time. There may be people who object to something you have written in your own profile. What other people write is just not my business.

came4U -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/14/2008 8:00:51 AM)
I don't know many who do have those comments on profile but if they do, they are usually the first ones to post that they were beaten or humiliated on a first date and didn't get the respect they expected. Go figure.

DesFIP -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/14/2008 8:17:02 AM)
It would indicate that they are into force play not instant obedience. Like everything else people write, it's a way to try to not waste time with people you aren't compatible with. Although it would work better if they wrote it out clearly instead of hinting coyly at what they're into.

littleone35 -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/14/2008 11:34:56 AM)
I don't know why people would do that. Maybe that are looking for attention. Matt's littleone

MasterTslave -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/14/2008 11:44:49 AM)
maybe that is what they think will get them the most responses and they will have more to pick from? not sure, never dated online...doesn't work out well from the ones i've seen...jmo.

SadysticJester -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/15/2008 4:37:08 AM)
thnx for the responses,every comment crossed my mind as well.

celticlord2112 -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/15/2008 9:17:29 AM)
quote: i'm curious as to why subs/slaves when creating profiles they need to say things like"i'm a pain slut can you deliver" The same reason dominant types proudly proclaim their proficiency at punishment. It's called ego. It impresses some and bores the rest.

daddysliloneds -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/15/2008 9:22:44 AM)
some, not all, do it because they've found that they get far more attention by being 'challenging'.

beargonewild -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/15/2008 9:43:45 AM)
Could be a sub's way to indicate they aren't always compliant and have a feisty streak? Maybe using that stance sets a tone of sassiness which may appeal to a dom who likes a bit of fire in a sub? Could be outright arrogance of the sub or they feel they need to be a bit mouthy? Or it could be an inadequate way for the sub to let the other know they are able to endure a high level of pain stimuli? The reasons can be endless and it is difficult to be accurate on the actual reasoning.

RealSub58 -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/15/2008 10:18:56 AM)
I have been know to ask someone what they mean in their profile....... I usually get NO answer. That puzzles me.

sincitykitty -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/16/2008 1:42:35 PM)
I agree that it can be an ego thing. Also, I have seen many that 'play on line' with that sort of attitude, with no basis in real life interaction. It's easy to be a SAM when you're not actually really physically paying the price. I also agree it might be someone that is into force play... or they act out in order to get the attention they can't completely come to terms with just wanting. I have seen many overenthusiastic dominant personailities trying to impress upon any bottom personality that will listen... their adeptness at dispensing all sorts of discipline. I have had people tell me all sorts of things they could do to me (such as literally blistering my bottom, spanking me raw... etc. etc.) I tend to turn away from very blustery, challenging persons because I have found much of that to be a front for a different personality below. It's hard to really know why someone posts anything they post, until you've talked to them for a good while and gotten to understand them.

babygirlkitten -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/16/2008 11:20:02 PM)
I'm not sure why someone would put, "I'm a slave, can you master me?" That seems contradictory to what a slave would say, but what do I know? I'm not a slave. As for the pain slut aspect, I understand that. Pain sluts are not always submissive, and some of them enjoy provoking in the hopes that they further inspire their partner's Sadistic side. In my idealistic little world, I'd like to think that they would clear up any misconceptions and make sure that the person they're potentially playing with understands this, and is not the abusive sort before playing, but such is not always the case. Some people just don't consider that bit of it.

leakylee -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/17/2008 10:37:02 AM)
i would say it could venture from anything from a defensive stance (idiots do tend to bounce on nerves sooner or later) to the fantasy syndrome. the maso statement i almost understand. that is one of those rougher matches, although throwing it our like that isnt quite the hottest of bait. but you can ask the same question (and i have) of why a sensual dom requires a submissive with few to no physical limits. brain buster, and most likely fantasy driven drivel. lee

leadership527 -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/17/2008 10:46:04 AM)
quote: babygirlkitten said: "I'm a slave, can you master me?" That seems contradictory to what a slave would say, Heh, I agree. My off-the-cuff answer to a question like that is "no".

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