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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 10:30:46 AM   
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All too often the poor and weak would rather spend more time pissing and whining about how bad they've got it, than doing something constructive to improve their situation..

If I was a betting woman at the track, I wouldn't back a sickly, weak, mount either. I am placing my money on the strong proven winners.

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 10:48:44 AM   
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We might all have to get used to a totally different standard of living, and sitting there all gleeful with your cushy job doesn't work either, because it is coming to you.



I'm there now, and I'm finding it fascinating, to be honest. We have had such a cushy ride (as a whole) for years. Jobs in abundance, credit in abundance, buying what we want, vacationing where we want, not a care in the world (relatively speaking). I used to tell my ex husband, "At some point the pendulum is going to swing in the other direction." I also thought it would be interesting and perhaps good for the human spirit if it did.

So, my pendulum has swung! Boy has it swung! I lost all my money in my divorce and then I was laid off - woot! Out of a job for a year, squeaking by, and learned to live without. I'm learning a lot about myself along the way, too. I just told the man I'm seeing that this is actually really good for me! So, I'm working a temp job now, where we are pressure cooked against an unrealistic deadline, and working boo-coo overtime because we're pushed to, we want to keep our jobs, and hey the overtime is great. One of the temps I'm working with has three kids and was on government assistance, striving like mad to get off of it. She wanted to buy her own groceries instead of using food stamps.

This is a time when inner drive will get us through. A doom and gloom attitude will not.

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 11:51:54 AM   
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Well, well, well.
Our global economic system appears like it will get worse
before it gets better.
In the USA, the unemployment rate is rising with no end in sight.
I often wonder where all the thousands that are being laid off are going to work?

Sounds like we will have to extend and then extend some more "unemployment benefits".
It appears that many Americans understand that we are certainly sliding into a Depression.
Poll: Almost 6 of 10 Americans see depression as likely - Oct. 6, 2008

My theory has always been that the government won't come out and "say it", because they
don't want to start a panic.
When I turn on the news I usually hear stories like this:  More businesses are closing, more businesses
are struggling to stay open, thousands and thousands are losing their jobs daily, the housing market
continues to crumble, many homeowners are upside down on their mortgages, we are currently waiting
to hear if we will bail out the auto industry, we have already given 700 billion to the banks and they are
still slow to loan money, Wall Street continues the roller coaster ride, I heard this morning it probably won't go
below 7000, I am thinking maybe 6000 if we are lucky, school systems are cutting programs, states are cutting programs, and on and on and on. { Feel free to ad anything I forgot to mention}
 
On the UP side I bought gas for $1.99 a gallon yesterday, but I wonder how much that well help people those have no job, no car and no home these days?

Is there any end in sight?
Many state that we have not even hit rock bottom yet.

I am thinking it is going to take at least 2-3 years before we notice a significant improvement.
If we are not heading for a Depression, I don't know what to call it.

Anyway, buddy can anyone here spare a few jobs?
Is today's economic crisis another Great Depression? - USATODAY.com


This morning I listened to the recent Nobel Laureate in Economics first destroy George Will and then show why in the short run the government must bail out GM with draconian conditions attached.  I put his reasoning on the thread about bailing out GM.  I am a great admirer of Arnold Sharzenneger (sic) and he again surpirsed me by saying about an hour earlier on Meet The Press that if the government got concessions from GM that the government had to bail out GM.  Listening to reasonable persons raises my concern about the motives of certain parties.  Would people so mad about losing try to torpedo Obama to the extent that they will accept pushing the US into a depression?  Every economist I listen to says that there is not much choice and that we are headed into a depression if we screw up with GM in the short term.   I was a republican up until 2004.  When did republicans become so hateful, stupid, vicious, deceitful and lose all their perspective and patiotism.  We may be speaking about whether the nation survives and they play politics.  Even Pat Buchanan weighed in saying that if the republicans do not re assess the GM matter that the republican party will soon cease to exist. However, the importance of the filibuster proof senate may become very apparent shortly. I measure the economy's distress by the number of younger folks who have returned to the nest: one step son; one step grand daughter; two step great grandchildren and two step cousins.  Are we having fun yet?

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 12:40:28 PM   
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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 12:47:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

All too often the poor and weak would rather spend more time pissing and whining about how bad they've got it, than doing something constructive to improve their situation..

If I was a betting woman at the track, I wouldn't back a sickly, weak, mount either. I am placing my money on the strong proven winners.


Precisely, and to follow the metaphor, if I was one of the sickly weak mounts, I wouldn't run with the pack, let the rest run their own race, I'm off to feed on the grass in the padock. The race is only run because the weak want to join in. I'll be getting more than what I want just grazing away whil;e the other mounts punish themselves.

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 1:02:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Well, well, well.
Our global economic system appears like it will get worse
before it gets better.


I highlighted the key reason for the economic crisis.  I think outsourcing is just as responsible if not more so than the housing crisis. I keep hearing that Americans have been spoiled by a booming economy that was bound to come to an end. I'm saying I don't think it would have come to an end if not for this global economy crap. The US used to have good paying manufacturing jobs.  Jobs that paid a living wage. We were the richest country in the world because we were dependent upon ourselves, not China and India. Obviously people aren't going to be able to make their house payments if they lose good paying jobs and have to work for minimum wage, subprime lending or not.  The way to restore this country to what it was is to stay out of the global economy.                

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 1:44:45 PM   
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Well, the saying, "doing the jobs that Americans don't want to do" is no longer valid I think.
I read an article in Agora Financial about a guy who was layed off from his job and now drives around in his pickup looking for yard clean-up jobs, gutter cleaning jobs etc in differant neighborhoods and supports himself in that way.
As I type this I have two local guys putting in a hardwood floor for me in my condo;  kitchen, dinning area, and front hall for $600 for the labor, I paid for all materials of course.
About 2 days work, so about $150 a day each. CASH of course and it looks great! Really dresses up the place! They have all their own tools, table saws, mitre saws, etc.
The materials cost me about $1,600 so the total was about $2,200, Lowes wanted $2,900 for everything so I saved about $700!
And, I pay a local lady $100 every three months or so to come in and go right through the place and give it a thourough cleaning, takes her about 5 to 6 hours, cash of course. And she's a hard worker and does a great job! Other people in the neighborhood use her too. I make her lunch and actually have to tell her to stop! lol
She says that some days she does two houses.
So, you *can* find Americans to do just about *any* kind of work in this economy! It's the politicians with their wealthy friends who make fortunes off of cheap, illegal labor who try to tell us otherwise who are *full of shit!*
What they *don't* say is that "you can't find Americans to work for third world wages."
You can't even exist in this country working for $10 an hour anymore.
In the Northeast and California $15 an hour is at "subsistance" level.
So I really don't think that a working person making $30 an hour is "overpaid."
Ever notice that the people who say they are are the ones makinghundreds of thousands or millions a year?
So, President Obama had better not be trying any kind of "amnesty" or a "pathway to citizenship" for illegal aliens!
He won't have any support for it.
Especially in this economy!

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 3:27:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Well, the saying, "doing the jobs that Americans don't want to do" is no longer valid I think.
I read an article in Agora Financial about a guy who was layed off from his job and now drives around in his pickup looking for yard clean-up jobs, gutter cleaning jobs etc in differant neighborhoods and supports himself in that way.
As I type this I have two local guys putting in a hardwood floor for me in my condo;  kitchen, dinning area, and front hall for $600 for the labor, I paid for all materials of course.
About 2 days work, so about $150 a day each. CASH of course and it looks great! Really dresses up the place! They have all their own tools, table saws, mitre saws, etc.
The materials cost me about $1,600 so the total was about $2,200, Lowes wanted $2,900 for everything so I saved about $700!
And, I pay a local lady $100 every three months or so to come in and go right through the place and give it a thourough cleaning, takes her about 5 to 6 hours, cash of course. And she's a hard worker and does a great job! Other people in the neighborhood use her too. I make her lunch and actually have to tell her to stop! lol
She says that some days she does two houses.
So, you *can* find Americans to do just about *any* kind of work in this economy! It's the politicians with their wealthy friends who make fortunes off of cheap, illegal labor who try to tell us otherwise who are *full of shit!*
What they *don't* say is that "you can't find Americans to work for third world wages."
You can't even exist in this country working for $10 an hour anymore.
In the Northeast and California $15 an hour is at "subsistance" level.
So I really don't think that a working person making $30 an hour is "overpaid."
Ever notice that the people who say they are are the ones makinghundreds of thousands or millions a year?
So, President Obama had better not be trying any kind of "amnesty" or a "pathway to citizenship" for illegal aliens!
He won't have any support for it.
Especially in this economy!


I agree that Americans are now willing to work at jobs that they would not have gone near previously and for absurdly low wages.  One of the persons I support is an out of work musician.  I have watched him apply for menial jobs including  picking fruit for absurd hourly rates and not get the job.  There were too many applicants.  In Michigan the unemployed rate is scary.  He has hocked thousands of dollars of music equipment and was too proud to tell me so I might have saved the instruments.  About the only positive aspect of his predicament  is that since he had time I got him to register to vote and he did vote for the first time in his life.  He is 61 years of age.  But he now reads everything in sight and has opinions.  That is one genie that they will not be put back in the box. (I can't say we agree on anything given that he is an evangelical Christian and has a bible in the car but it is fun to argue.  Since we both have a morbid sense of humor, the atheist and the evangelical tend to keep everyone in stitches with evolution being a favorite.)I  feel very sad that a talented musician has been reduced to having absolutely nothing despite the fact he will do any type work for next to nothing.  The human cost of this is and will be astronomical.

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 4:10:13 PM   
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A recession is two consecutive quarters of negative growth.

A Depression is one that goes on for several years.

People still seem to be able to afford cell phones, premium cable and other things. Besides that LaTigress has stated my position very well.



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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 4:32:35 PM   
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I don't want to make my own life seem horrible, it is not, I have a roof over my head, and food in the pantry.  Still, I know that it is NOT guaranteed, and within a few years, I will have to be taking care of my auto company retiree parents.  We CANNOT move from SE Michigan, our homes are unsaleable.   My area has the highest foreclosure rate in the state.   I would love to move, and if I could get a job elsewhere, I would happily live in a motel and send the money home to the family. 

Yes, Americans have survived droughts, natural disasters, wars, and pretty much everything but a plague of locusts.  I well remember the fuel embargoes of the 70's, the many, many layoffs that my dad had, all that stuff.  I am here to tell you that the dollar is NOT worth what it was in the 70's.  It is NOT possible for a family to survive on catch as catch can cash work---especially if they intend to say, file a tax return!   That mindset is going to lead to a nation of homeless people, and we already have plenty of those.

I am 45 years old.  My competition for work is a 22 yr old fresh out of college, who will work much more cheaply, whether the work is in my field, or to be a cashier at the Walmart.   My best friend is 55 years old, and gave up a big chunk of her life to be the caregiver for her sick father.  After many years of experience in book selling, retail management, and other jobs, she is essentially out of luck.  EVERYONE is more hirable than her, at least in these parts.

I really envy you who are set for the rest of your lives, and I hope that you continue to do well.   I hope even more that you think a little about folks like my mom, who worked a full time job since she was 14 years old, and has lost her healthcare coverage.  Too bad that she is seriously, chronically ill, huh?  Maybe she should just get a JOB???

Sorry, this is turning into a rant, and I don't mean it to be.  I would just like to remind everyone that no matter how hard you work, the rug can get yanked out from under you.  Nothing is assured, no industry is safe, and you might be the one being told to just "wait it out".  Think about the other side a little, okay?  Not all of us are living in wretched excess.

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 5:28:31 PM   
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I have not only thought about it but I grew up in it. The OP makes it sound like things are horrible everywhere, but they are not horrible yet. Sorry about your Mom.

As far as excess, being a Business Consultant, I get to see a lot of what people spend on and most do not understand a necessity from a desire. Most also do not want to live without many of the things that are not actual necessities (not speaking about your Mom).

At one point in my life I went from a celluar tech to flipping burgers at a fast food place and then onto cleaning out sewers (not storm drains) just to do what I needed to to survive. Several years back when money was tight, I lived in my car and showered at friends house for three months, just to save the money for an apartment. If I am short on sympathy, it is because I see many people whining and not doing a whole lot. I do take into account there are some that cannot do anything, like your Mom, but she seems to be the exception and not the rule.


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
Think about the other side a little, okay?  Not all of us are living in wretched excess.


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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 5:33:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

We CANNOT move from SE Michigan, our homes are unsaleable. 


How much equity is in the home?

I'm not really directing this at you, mind you, but sometimes walking away is the best option. Or moving to a better job market and renting the home if you can.

I will not mention other measures that can be taken. (kidding).

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 5:36:43 PM   
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I've known a lot of people who have lost jobs or been laid off recently. It really is that bad. One friend, and his wife, both worked for the same company. They were laid off (they worked for a title company) about 6 months ago and when I last spoke to him both are still looking for work. She took a contract job for about 3 months, but it has ended. Another friend was just laid off about 3 weeks ago (telecommunications). I talk to people almost every day that have been laid off and are asking for extensions or payment plans for their bills. One woman lost her job at MCI when they filed bankruptcy and has not gotten a job since.  Even my daughters company, a retail store, has cut staff so much that many nights they have only two employees in the whole store, and it's a BIG store.

I have been on the committee to plan our company's holiday party and we were discussing our plans with a local hotel. We told them our budget was very small this year. They said they understood, at least we still get a party. Many company's are canceling them altogether. They have a contract with UPS to house all of their trainees while they go through 6 weeks of training. A few weeks before we met with them, UPS had called and canceled their entire 2009 schedule! This was back in August too before the bottom really fell out.  The DJ we hired (at a big discount) said his company which is much larger than ours, has cancelled their holiday party completely. With all the "extras" being canceled by businesses and individuals, how long will it be before there are more layoffs?

Three builders we work with have filed for Bankruptcy, two of them were pretty small, but one was a fairly large builder in the area. We have also lost a couple of Title companies. One of them had all of their records and checks seized by the state. I'm seeing more personal bankruptcies than every before. I'm adding about one new one a week, when I used to have maybe a half dozen on the books altogether.

Yes, it is that bad. Especially when you consider that we are in the early stages. Mia is right, this is, and probably will be, the worst economic times that any of us will face in our lifetimes (hopefully) because it is so widespread over so many industries, and because those industries have such a huge impact on the economy and because it has now spread to the global market.  There is just no place to turn for good news right now as every market is effected.

Running around panicking or being depressed will not help, but neither will ignoring the reality.  It's bad and it's going to get worse and those who prepare will survive it best. That's all.



Thank you for your usual wonderful post, TN.
If people don't think things are "that bad" that is surely their perogative,
but many/most of America certainly realize things are pretty bad.

TN, I am sure even during the middle of the last Great Depression, there
were people that thought "things were not that bad".
I agree that knowing that things are getting worse, and trying to "prepare"
as best you can is the best strategy.
I will continue to post my opinions, as others are certainly entitled to post
their opinions, also.

< Message edited by MzMia -- 11/16/2008 5:38:24 PM >


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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 5:46:04 PM   
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Does anything good ever happen in your dreams?


Do you ever tire of these types of comments?
No one is forcing you to read what I type.
I actually have wonderful dreams, my dreams

really have nothing to do with this topic.

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 5:51:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Well, the saying, "doing the jobs that Americans don't want to do" is no longer valid I think.
I read an article in Agora Financial about a guy who was layed off from his job and now drives around in his pickup looking for yard clean-up jobs, gutter cleaning jobs etc in differant neighborhoods and supports himself in that way.
As I type this I have two local guys putting in a hardwood floor for me in my condo;  kitchen, dinning area, and front hall for $600 for the labor, I paid for all materials of course.
About 2 days work, so about $150 a day each. CASH of course and it looks great! Really dresses up the place! They have all their own tools, table saws, mitre saws, etc.
The materials cost me about $1,600 so the total was about $2,200, Lowes wanted $2,900 for everything so I saved about $700!
And, I pay a local lady $100 every three months or so to come in and go right through the place and give it a thourough cleaning, takes her about 5 to 6 hours, cash of course. And she's a hard worker and does a great job! Other people in the neighborhood use her too. I make her lunch and actually have to tell her to stop! lol
She says that some days she does two houses.
So, you *can* find Americans to do just about *any* kind of work in this economy! It's the politicians with their wealthy friends who make fortunes off of cheap, illegal labor who try to tell us otherwise who are *full of shit!*
What they *don't* say is that "you can't find Americans to work for third world wages."
You can't even exist in this country working for $10 an hour anymore.
In the Northeast and California $15 an hour is at "subsistance" level.
So I really don't think that a working person making $30 an hour is "overpaid."
Ever notice that the people who say they are are the ones makinghundreds of thousands or millions a year?
So, President Obama had better not be trying any kind of "amnesty" or a "pathway to citizenship" for illegal aliens!
He won't have any support for it.
Especially in this economy!


Wonderful post Popeye!
I agree, it is easy to be critical of others when you are not

in their shoes.
America is going through changes like we have not seen in 70 years.
Like President-elect Obama said tonight {On 60 minutes}, we might not be in a Depression,
but we are in the worse shape we have ever been in, SINCE the last Depression.
I thought that was powerful.

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 6:35:35 PM   
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IMO, the whole thing is about doing what you have to do and planning ahead.  For instance, if you see that changing careers would greatly change your life for the better, then you and your partner tighten up, cut out luxuries like premium cable, go down to basic.  Eat Mac & Cheese a couple times a week or hot dogs (or Spam!).  Work opposite shifts waiting tables, pumping gas, working in retail, or whatever to pay the rent and put food on the table.  If you can, go down to one cheap car for now.  If you can get through the next two or three years until you finish whatever schooling or training you need, it will be well worth the sacrifice.  Just keep working towards the goal and keep your eye on the end that's in sight. 

My dad always told me, if you want something bad enough, you'll figure out a way to get it. 

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 6:52:57 PM   
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I really envy you who are set for the rest of your lives,



          It just never fails with these threads.  People offer ideas and suggestions, the voices of experience in getting through the hard patches, and we are dismissed as out of touch, and completely unsympathetic.  Someone has to try and make it class warfare.

         People are mostly as trapped by circumstance as they allow themselves to be.  Not every strategy is going to work for every person, and very often it is going to suck for a while.  I've had my food budget down as low as $15 a week (with thanks to a few for weekly dinners with leftovers).   You do what you have to do.

        Set for life...   Jesus H. Christ....

       

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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 6:57:31 PM   
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Set for life...   Jesus H. Christ....


I think it's difficult for many to believe that people actually work hard, harder than many for what they have in life.  Not everyone is handed a wonderful life and no one is guaranteed one.  People choose priorites and make sacrifices.  Or they complain and worry about things.


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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 6:57:32 PM   
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Funny thing is, you can be "okay" and still be VERY concerned.
I have tenure in the school system, I will probably be "okay".
I also am in one of the few fields that still has a shortage of
qualified applicants.
 
Yet, I have been starting threads like this for over a year.
Why? Because I care about those that are not as fortunate as I am.
 
Even if you are "okay", when MANY other Americans are not "okay",
and the situation is growing worse, it IS an issue of concern for many of us.
 
Maybe some of us are not our brothers keepers, but many still are.
I want the world to become a better place for our young people, and right now,
it is a lot worse than the world that I grew up in.
 
I am committed to starting these threads.

< Message edited by MzMia -- 11/16/2008 7:07:52 PM >


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RE: Buddy? Can you spare a job? - 11/16/2008 7:16:52 PM   
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Call me crazy but where I come from, you save when times are flush. If I were an elderly couple that had worked for many years at one of the big three my house would have been paid off and I would have a very hefty savings account. I would never expect to be able to depend upon a pension and social security.

I only say that because I know that auto workers have been getting paid well the last few decades and the benefits they've been fortunate to have, have been quite extensive and very inexpensive to them. On the other hand, I watched my grandparents work hard to come from total poverty, to being able to retire comfortably. They didn't work for a company that offered any benefits. Everything they had was because of their own careful saving and planning for the days they would no longer be able to work.

My grandparents were farmers. My grandfather didn't borrow money to farm, he saved. They didn't gain a pension, they saved. They didn't get a deluxe medical package from some huge employer, they planned. My grandmother had several hospitalizations and surgeries. She was on a colourful cocktail of meds for as long as I could remember. She couldn't climb stairs or do any strenuous activities like vaccuming. My grandfather would help her after he finishes his 18 hour days. Then my grandfather fell ill. They sold the farm and built a house on my uncles farm. First my grandmother died, shortly thereafter my grandfather had to go into a home. He was there for 2 years. Still, using his life savings to pay his way. When my grandfather died, everything had already been paid for. No one got a bill. No one was driven to poverty. My grandparents spend their lives comfortably but always frugal and cautious. Always planning for the rainy days. Oh, and my grandfather also cared for my, never married, great aunt in her last years.

I learned alot from my elders. They did live through the Great Depression, they knew how bad it could get.

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