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fyreredsub -> RE: Straight Woman Blues (12/26/2005 9:01:38 AM)
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oh me, you are very good, perhaps you were a carpenter in another life, nailing that hammer[;)] right to the head of the nail.....so to speak, (bad analogy,i know, sorry )
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ORIGINAL: Sensualips
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Both actions bespeak a rage, and i need to review and try to ascertain what might have fueled that rage.
I would suspect that rage is a bit of an overstatement. From reading every post on both threads (wow, I am a masochist after all!) it it glaringly obvious to me some people object to what is perceived as a pattern of behavior. The fact that you do not recognize this behavior does not evoke rage, but just a feeling of exasperation. What is the point? It appears that for some the challenges of interacting with you outweigh the pleasure derived from it and thus ending those interaction is a logical choice.
If you are happy with your self, secure and unapologetic in your beliefs, and -- this really should not be a big issue. Other will be more compatible with you for budding online friendships.
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i cannot insult LA gratutiously but i will say i think your Master has given you some strange advice in advising you to emulate her. For example, LA has in the past touted the practice of playing/having sex with people she just met.
It seems you CAN insult her after all. See the pattern? Now you will say you did not insult her at all, you just feel that is an unsafe practice and have concern and it is her choice and not for you, and why do people pick apart your posts and not just respect you. But you already SAID it, the obvious connotations are there.
There are a few possibilities that explain this. The first is that you have strong opinions on what is right and wrong and those judgements creep out even as you struggle to take a I-just-mean-for-me stance. The second is that you serially and genuinely do not intend to give an impression that you give, but are just poor at expressing yourself accurately with the written word. The third possibility is that you are at some level well aware of what you are doing but enjoy the victim role, 13 page threads, and the opportunity to individually answer post after post in your oversized purple font as you sift through and determine who your "friends" are in relation to this site.
Perhaps there is another possibility. Perhaps collarme suffers from a mob mentality and everyone is ganging up on you because you are straight and monogamous and don't believe in casual sex. Perhaps you have done nothing wrong at all and people here just suck. Again. And again.
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