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DOM000 -> RE: happy girl (12/22/2005 10:30:27 AM)

I just wanted to say after reading all the posts a huge thank you to all of you! I am the luckiest man alive to be fox's new master, and i have to say the attraction and pure love i felt for her was instantaneous, and just incredible! As you all know, she is a very level headed and creative person, her writing is just terrific and so readable, and some of the things she makes, she could easily make it as either an author or a fashion designer - she's incredible.She has both talent and heart-stopping beauty in adundance, and, although we have yet to meet, which we plan to in spring, we both feel so strongly about each other and have absolutely no doubts at all about how terrific we will be together. I can't wait to introduce her to all my closest friends, and equally look forward to going to where she lives in the US, as Ive not yet visited The States and would love to see it with the love of my life [:)]
Giving her sound advice about making sure she's safe and everything shows all you guys really care about each other, and thats fantastic - Ive never known such a community spirit on any other forum such as this, so thank you to all of you!
I can promise faithfully that i love fox with all my heart and soul - she captured my heart and captivated me from the very first time we spoke, albeit on cam.I just knew she was so right for me, everything was so instant and, after we spoke more and more, we found we had so much in common - its just beautiful and i am so lucky i found her, or she found me - either way, its simply wonderful !!!!!
Something incredibly special has happened - and i wish all of you the very same in finding your perfect partner in life! [;)]



Yourkitten -> RE: happy girl (12/22/2005 10:36:27 AM)

i am very happy for both of you. may you both find the happiness you deserve.

kitten hugs



DOM000 -> RE: happy girl (12/22/2005 12:57:00 PM)

Thank you kitten, I am sure we will - and i wish you the very best for the future and everything it may hold for you [:)] and merry christmas everybody x



Marquisd -> RE: happy girl (12/22/2005 5:13:13 PM)

congrats and remember they flog on the LEFT side...............everything is on the LEFT...............face slapping, flogging, kneeling.........................so if ya get confused...............come up to Canada....we are ambidextrous :)

cheers and good luck with it


Marquisd



MTslave -> RE: happy girl (12/22/2005 11:04:17 PM)

Master and I met online and are now real life and have been for some time. Following all safety procedures there is no reason why it can't work. Contrats and may you both find the ultimate in peace and happiness

Master T's



truesub4u -> RE: happy girl (12/22/2005 11:12:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Marquisd

congrats and remember they flog on the LEFT side...............everything is on the LEFT...............face slapping, flogging, kneeling.........................so if ya get confused...............come up to Canada....we are ambidextrous :)

cheers and good luck with it


Marquisd



LMAO......... good one there.



Rayne58 -> RE: happy girl (12/22/2005 11:21:33 PM)

Congrats foxglove [:)] Master and I have been together almost 2 years, He is Australian and I'm from New Zealand.

Between booking my flight to meet Him and the actual day of meeting we had close to 4 months to wait which was spent in getting to know each other as people as well as Master/sub. He had no qualms about giving me His name, address and phone number (landline) and several people from the site we met on had met Him in r/t before and gave me great references. I also gave His details to my friend in NZ and arranged to send her a text message every day so she'd know I was ok.

Be well, be safe and good luck to you [:)]



candystripper -> RE: happy girl (12/22/2005 11:30:45 PM)

foxglove, i'm not trying to rain on ypur parade; but before you emigrate, there are safety concerns to address. If this is something you'd like to discuss, please email me on the other side.

candystripper



imtempting -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 12:26:43 AM)

How long have you known him?



brightspot -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 2:05:42 AM)

quote:

The unimaginable has happened! I found a dom in my life to call my own! And its all thanks to this wonderful website. Sir is kind and compassionate, and Ive never felt loved like this before. And we havnt even met!


How long has it been since you started talking with this person?
Do you know for sure anything that is for real about him? Statements like "I've never been loved liked this before and we haven't even met" make me feel concern. I do understand the feeling of excitement but I hope you will take all the precautions you can before taking off to another country.

There are so many people who just jerk others around on-line, might even just be a teenager getting kicks or some real sick-o.
You can get really wounded heart wise and even as someone else mentioned
food for worms if not really careful.

I hope for you that his is a good person, if his is, I don't see where it would be a problem to take your time in getting to know him better before jumping the pond and maybe it would be safer for you to have him come here for your first meeting where you can have the security of others around you.

*Brightspot



KatyLied -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 4:36:54 AM)

quote:

Ive never felt loved like this before. And we havnt even met!


This screams sub frenzy to me.
Again, I hope you have plans in place for your safety.
People can say a lot of things in order to get to a meet.
People can present well on-line and be completely different in real life.
Proceed.with.caution.



andrew77uk -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 7:42:48 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: foxglove716

Yes, we have chatted on cam, there is no doubt this guy is genuine. As for the rain there, no worries, I live in seattle! So yeah, Im probably going to trade in my coffee for tea. Thank you so much for the kind words everyone! [:)]


cams dont show personality ;) and although I expect he's a genuine guy, just make sure you have other contacts here you know of, so atleast if things do go pare shape (god forbid) you have someone close by to go to:) if in doubt you can run to the american embasy in london:))))



ImpGrrl -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 7:57:16 AM)

Others are giving safety advise, and that's all well and good (though I think some is over the top - but that's a different topic).

However, a few things to think about.

You don't know each other. I mean, you really *don't*. You have spoken a few times on the phone? Lots on the Internet? See each other's pictures and cam. That's all a great start, but it takes spending time with someone to *really* get to know them.

I'm not talking about safety. I'm talking about - what if you two meet and realize your personalities *don't mesh*? What if you just don't like/love each other in person as well as you do online/phone?

What if there's no physical chemistry? I mean - it's *really* easy to be attracted to someone's writings, or their voice on the phone - but what happens if there's no actual *chemistry*?

I'm not intentionally being a downer - just expressing why I'll never start a relationship online. I'll get to know someone, I'll enjoy their writing and their personality online and their *friendship* - but until I've met someone and spent *some* time with them in person, there's no chance they'll be my girlfriend/boyfriend/d-type/s-type/anything else.




andrew77uk -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 8:00:03 AM)

You hit the nail on the head, I hear so many people falling in love online, and then meet and nothing.....Its a shame alas:( but they wont listen lol....still lets hope things go well, and thye can prove us alllll wrong



wolffeathers -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 8:12:38 AM)

As there have been more then one, I will through in both my congrats, and warnings.

I don't trust match making services of any type. I rarely even check the front page here, just the forums.

I hope this all goes really well for you.

But, I'm cynical.

There is to much of a chance for things to go REALLY bad.

My advice would be for HIM to come to the states, where you have friends around you, before you take such a grand leap.

If he's as loving and wanting of you as it seems, he should have no problems with that.

But, I also know what it feels like to have someone a distance away, and damned be those that say be careful.

Then again, mine was in the states.



foxglove716 -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 10:18:48 AM)

Yes, this is true Imp, I do realize people tend to be a bit different online. And yes of course I am in a frenzy, who isnt when theyre first falling for someone, but I havnt let that blind my common sense. In any case, it will still be a few months yet before my visit, so I dont really think I am jumping into anything. Ive never been to England before but I do have relatives there just in case. Thank you all very much for your concerns, its most appreciated! [:)]



DOM000 -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 10:21:20 AM)

ok, ok - a lot of posts here, some that make sense, some are just plain cynical - firstly, foxglove, the girl i have completely fallen in love with, has never visited england before, she really wants to come over and see it, and where i live. Norwich is a lovely city, and I cannot wait to show her around and introduce her to my good friends, who will all adore her. Secondly, i totally agree about her taking precautions and being careful, id want her to wherever she was going and whoever she was meeting, and i am grateful to all those that say she should do - and i am more than happy to let her know everything about me she wants to know, she knows this, and knows that i am always an open book for her. Thirdly i guess, you'll all read just how terrific a time we spend together sometime in late April, and i just know it will be beautiful for both of us - you'll see [;)] we will stay talking from now until she visits, and we both can't wait x [:)] itll be terrific, shes the light in this dark world, and she knows just how much i love her, we both feel it, so i hope in time you'll all be very happy for us x love and peace to all of you [:)] *including the cynics, we'll prove u wrong!* hehe - love u kitten *forever yours baby* [:)]xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx always x D



AAkasha -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 10:42:58 AM)


You have to admit based on their avatar pics they make a cute couple :)

While everyone is giving out advice and warnings, I'd like to ask both of them to keep posting updates as their relationship grows and changes. We hear here so much about new relationships then the people vanish and we wonder if they went off and lived happily ever after or nothing worked out and they left CM or came back with a new name.

Congratulations and best of luck!

Akasha



slaverubyred -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 10:52:55 AM)

Foxglove, Hi great news hope all works out well for you, im in the UK Yorkshire to be precise so if (long time till april can get to know each other in between if u would like) If you would like someone you can get in touch with while your over here for any reason please feel free to mail me n let me know [:)]



Phoenxx -> RE: happy girl (12/23/2005 10:57:03 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

foxglove, i'm not trying to rain on ypur parade; but before you emigrate, there are safety concerns to address. If this is something you'd like to discuss, please email me on the other side.

candystripper


Just have to ask why it has be be done on the sly. foxglove's Master is here on the forum. I'm betting anything said to her in private will be passed to him. Why not post it here for others who are thinking of moving to see it also?




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