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A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 7:31:15 AM   
RocketDoc


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Status: offline 		Greetings fellow Masters

I have collared my first slave for 18 months now. She has always been bi-curious and I intend to give her to another woman soon.

I have identified a couple in our area with similar interets. Phone and email contact has been very positive.
We have shared pictures.

We will meet next week for the first time for drinks and dinner.  If the chemistry continues, .we may go to their house for what will be our first shared scene.

I am asking for advice and insight into the dynamics that I will encounter.  The intent is for the girls to encounter eachother at our direction.

How might the two Masrers interact to optiomize the experience of all involved?
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What kinds of problems should I prepare for.

I look forward to hearing of your experiences in this area and any advice you may have for me.

RocketDoc



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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 7:39:11 AM   
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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 7:42:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Having been in a double dominant/double sub situation that went terribly wrong, please allow me to give some pointers.

1.  Each Master should be in ultimate control of their own slave.  This should be talked about between the four of you, not separately.  It is easy for the other Dominant to jump in and try to take over certain aspects and it is hard for the slave to know whether it is with her own Master's blessing.

2.  Decide in advance whether the two women will only touch each other or if any touching of the Master's will also be involved.  This is especially true if either woman will be expected to touch the other Master.  In some dynamics certain things are prohibited with another - such as sensual kissing.  It should be very clear up front.

3.  It can be easy to come down hard on your slave in front of another to show just how Masterful you are.  This can leave the slave feeling confused if it is harsher than your normal style.

4.  If one slave says something rude to the other about the way that they serve, it is good if their Master can step in and be supportive. 

5.  If one Master chooses to use his slave himself after the two slaves are done with each other it would be good for the other Master to at least pay attention to his own slave.  She can end up feeling cuckholded even though the Master in question is not her own.

Communication is key.  Watching out for her to make sure she is not too confused is second.  While it is ultimately about the Master's pleasure it is still his job to watch out for his slave's wellbeing.


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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 8:22:51 AM   
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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 8:32:59 AM   
persephonee


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Communication is key...and im all for everyone talking openly and honestly about hard limits on everyones parts....

That said, if possible, the less rules and restrictions on touching others the better...i mean, comeon, if a person isnt into sharing...then by all means, dont share...i have had very successful experiences and very very unsuccessful ones...the best are when all parties involved can agree that within the confines of the get together, no jealousies or untoward feelings will happen.

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 10:41:58 AM   
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Thank you for your thoughtful replies. Knowing what I need to establish up front will allow me to be more comfortable going into this and retain the command that my slave needs from me.

RocketDoc


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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 4:15:15 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Well the question is, do you want her to be performing for your pleasure, or to actually begin to form an intimate bond with another female?  Plenty of slaves can perform fabulously and simulate awesome sex with others if required.  But that should not be confused with an actual bond of intimacy which may be completely impossible given the circumstances.

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 5:13:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RocketDoc

I am asking for advice and insight into the dynamics that I will encounter.  The intent is for the girls to encounter eachother at our direction.


I think you might be putting the horse before the cart.  Women that have never experienced a sexual experience with another women is sometimes more fantasy than reality.   I have always found the term- bi-curious rather strange.  It always relates to me an idea that there is doubt or hesitation on the part of the person.  Where you curious about women when you reach adulthood?  Or where you like most hetro males... you were sure that woman sexually arosed you... it was only a matter of time to find a woman to have that experience with.  I suspect many het females didn't have trouble figuring out that men are sexually arousing for them. 

But.. when a person is "Curious"...well  that also means they are not sure.. and the answer might be OH NO THANK!!  or HELL YES.   It also can be something in between.. some women that are bi don't get into unless there is male energy involved... some don't require that male energy.. infact they find it a distraction to their enjoyment of a female.  

As much as it is rather hot to "Direct" women encounter with each other.  I think it is wiser to understand and answer the women's bi-curious desires.  I am not saying you both can't be involved.. but sometimes it's better to just set the piece of wood into the water and let the current take it where it naturally wants to go.  When you understand those under-currents of your girls sexual desires you will be alot more successful in having an enjoyable scene than if you didn't.

As a note.. alot of men actually get jealousy of their female partners in these situations.  Sometimes the fantasy is better left to be a fantasy for them.  Not saying this will be for you... but what about the other male.  Oh my there is so much that can occur... even when you are experienced... they are all different.  But I do suggest smaller steps.

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 5:16:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: persephonee
That said, if possible, the less rules and restrictions on touching others the better...


I agree... if the individuals are more concerned about staying within the rules.. it rather difficult to feel free to explore and enjoy

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 5:45:02 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		i was once in a three way with 2 girls who were friends of mine...they were a new couple and thought i would be fun...and i totally woulda been...howEVER...there were so many rules and restrictions that i ended up falling asleep....now that is simply too phukkd up.

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 6:09:07 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Ummm, not necessarily.  It depends on what people want out of the encounter and what lines they don't want to cross.

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ORIGINAL: persephonee

That said, if possible, the less rules and restrictions on touching others the better...

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 8:29:54 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: persephonee

....now that is simply too phukkd up.


well.... I know a guy that fell asleep while he was getting a bj....    Now that is fucked up!!!

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 8:46:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		i fell asleep whilst masturbating and left the vibe on and burned my clit a little once....okay, now i like the heat...so not just once.

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 8:48:27 PM   
persephonee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Ummm, not necessarily.  It depends on what people want out of the encounter and what lines they don't want to cross.

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ORIGINAL: persephonee

That said, if possible, the less rules and restrictions on touching others the better...



Yes, which is why the phrase, "if possible" was placed.

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 9:21:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: persephonee

i fell asleep whilst masturbating and left the vibe on and burned my clit a little once....okay, now i like the heat...so not just once.


lol... girl you are one hell of a slut..... mmmmmmmmmm I am thinking Tiger Balm is your friend

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/21/2008 9:59:59 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		hehe....look....hammer of the Gods to some, is a walk in the park to others....
Theres a guy named ironass i know...his ass wont bruise....
i refuse to accept my projected nic...cuz i may be a helluva slut, but im still a lady....

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/22/2008 8:16:35 AM   
KnightofMists


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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/22/2008 8:35:16 AM   
persephonee


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blinkblink
perse

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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/22/2008 9:23:52 AM   
RocketDoc


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I am very grateful that you cared enough to elaborate on your response.

Your comments will ensure that I fulfill my responsibility to my slavegirl to protect her and ensure her safety and security, both physicially and emotionally.

Once again, thank you for your willingness to guide me.
Dale


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RE: A two Maste/ two slave encounter - 11/22/2008 9:27:45 AM   
RocketDoc


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Status: offline 		Sorry, chamberqueen,

I confused your screen name with another. I have a learning disablity, (or something like that), that makes typing very hard.  I do alot of cuting and pasting.

I am very grateful that you cared enough to elaborate on your response.

Your comments will ensure that I fulfill my responsibility to my slavegirl to protect her and ensure her safety and security, both physicially and emotionally.

Once again, thank you for your willingness to guide me.

Dale



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