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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:45:24 PM

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Blackmail is that a letter written on balck paper with white ink? sorry can't help myself since PC speak has taken our freedom of speech away.
it would be abuse if the sub deemed it so, since he endured it, he is a masochist.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:46:38 PM

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im out.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:46:46 PM

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Ok when you are sunburned, you aren't necessarily going to have scars, the burn would just make it hurt like hell. (And probably make it feel like you got whipped harder than you actually did)

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:48:09 PM

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Just be glad it wasn't 30 lashes. . .he'd be turning your sports water into wine and walkin on the swimming pool. . .and when you put him on the cross. . .wow. . .that's when it really starts to get weird. . .

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:49:01 PM

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It sounds like a wheelbarrow load of bs to me, from the sunburn to the blackmail it all sounds like one guys fantasy spanning the generations.

Ok... might be BS, but could be real. I'm going on the off chance it is, and wanted opinions on the punishment... not the story itself.

They can't really be separated, if the story is bs then the punishment itself is also bs.
I think the story he is telling you is garbage, I also think the 'punishment and blackmail' go into the same slot.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:49:59 PM

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Just be glad it wasn't 30 lashes. . .he'd be turning your sports water into wine and walkin on the swimming pool. . .and when you put him on the cross. . .wow. . .that's when it really starts to get weird. . .

That's 32. LMAO. Funny coming from someone who somewhat resembles Jesus. LOL Thanks for throwing some humor into the thread.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:52:29 PM

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It sounds like a wheelbarrow load of bs to me, from the sunburn to the blackmail it all sounds like one guys fantasy spanning the generations.

Ok... might be BS, but could be real. I'm going on the off chance it is, and wanted opinions on the punishment... not the story itself.

They can't really be separated, if the story is bs then the punishment itself is also bs.
I think the story he is telling you is garbage, I also think the 'punishment and blackmail' go into the same slot.

I know there are plenty of people out there who have suffered at the hands of bad Masters. I also know blackmail is very real, or they wouldn't bother having a word for it. It could be BS. It could NOT be bs. That's pretty irrelevant.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:54:49 PM

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i think the two can be separated
if such a thing happened to you, what would you think? regardless of whether or not the story is true or if he's making it up
if it happened at all or heck, if he's even a GUY
that doesn't necessarily matter

for the D people - is it a punishment you would ever employ?
for the s people - how would you feel about it?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:56:38 PM

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i think the two can be separated
if such a thing happened to you, what would you think? regardless of whether or not the story is true or if he's making it up
if it happened at all or heck, if he's even a GUY
that doesn't necessarily matter

for the D people - is it a punishment you would ever employ?
for the s people - how would you feel about it?

Thank you, I see it the same way.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:57:39 PM

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You are asking for opinions on something that nearly everyone agrees is a fantasy, wank fodder or troll bait (choose your fav phrase), that in turn influences peoples responses.

Of course blackmail happens, of course abuse happens.

However when you mix in the ingredients consisting of:
Forced sunburn
Forced whipping upon said sunburn
Internet domme
Subs mother
Blackmail
Then it seems to add up to a pile of bs.

I'm sorry that you don't like my opinion but you asked for opinions.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:58:14 PM

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I'm talking to both of them, and she admits doing it. (the sunburn whipping thing)

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:59:19 PM

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For the basic concept of punishment. . . it's not even close to being punishment. It's called Flaying. . .the sunburned flesh will peel away. . .you'll leave scarring, potentially deadening the nerves in the area, possibly sending the body into shock resulting in death.

Think more likely, she spanked him after he had sun burn, he got drunk, did the mother, she got pissed and said she would tell people so he is trying to cover his ass with a story that is completely BS

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 12:59:43 PM

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I'm finding out a LOT. BBIAB with an update

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:02:27 PM

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I'm not sure if this is the correct place for this thread or not... but anyhow... I was talking to a potential sub and he told me he was 'sunstrapped'. I had never heard of this before, so I asked what it was. This is the response I got:

that is where i was made to lay out in sun till i was sunburned...then my owner took a thin leather belt and whpped my back FULL FORCE over the sunburned back, about 100 lashes usually...it was for SEVERE punishments ...i hated it, but i admit it has humbled me more

What do you guys think? Reasonable punishment or abuse?

To me, whether or not it's reasonable would depend upon the infraction which garnered the punishment. Is the punishment going to be so memorable that the actual crime is forgotten? In the dynamic I share with Himself, punishment is used solely to teach lessons so that behavior is modified to fit the path he chooses for us. The wording for this particular punishment was 'usually' 100 lashes after the sunburning which leads me to believe that such a punishment is not rare and I would be skeptical to believe that such a punishment would be valuable when geared towards a wide variety of 'crimes'. Ultimately, I would probably say it's 'not' reasonable by the terms of my own relationship because that punishment, used arbitrarily, would not teach me a damn thing except to avoid the punishment rather than modify improper behavior.

For a play scene, as opposed to punishment, I would not find it unreasonable though certainly it's edgy.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:03:32 PM

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I'm not sure if this is the correct place for this thread or not... but anyhow... I was talking to a potential sub and he told me he was 'sunstrapped'. I had never heard of this before, so I asked what it was. This is the response I got:

that is where i was made to lay out in sun till i was sunburned...then my owner took a thin leather belt and whpped my back FULL FORCE over the sunburned back, about 100 lashes usually...it was for SEVERE punishments ...i hated it, but i admit it has humbled me more

What do you guys think? Reasonable punishment or abuse?

To me, whether or not it's reasonable would depend upon the infraction which garnered the punishment. Is the punishment going to be so memorable that the actual crime is forgotten? In the dynamic I share with Himself, punishment is used solely to teach lessons so that behavior is modified to fit the path he chooses for us. The wording for this particular punishment was 'usually' 100 lashes after the sunburning which leads me to believe that such a punishment is not rare and I would be skeptical to believe that such a punishment would be valuable when geared towards a wide variety of 'crimes'. Ultimately, I would probably say it's 'not' reasonable by the terms of my own relationship because that punishment, used arbitrarily, would not teach me a damn thing except to avoid the punishment rather than modify improper behavior.

For a play scene, as opposed to punishment, I would not find it unreasonable though certainly it's edgy.

He said "no" when she demanded that he lick her mother's feet.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:05:09 PM

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For the basic concept of punishment. . . it's not even close to being punishment. It's called Flaying. . .the sunburned flesh will peel away. . .you'll leave scarring, potentially deadening the nerves in the area, possibly sending the body into shock resulting in death.

exactly
that's why i said it was stupid
and i figure a real person isn't actually likely to do it, unless they are trying to kill you =p

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:05:52 PM

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Her mom must have really wanted her feet licked.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:06:39 PM

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Maybe the mother had toe funk. . .wouldn't that mitigate the circumstances?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:07:52 PM

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