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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:08:59 PM

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He said "no" when she demanded that he lick her mother's feet.

"yes" to possible skin cancer, "no" to foot licking. he's a fake!

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:09:33 PM

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I'm not sure if this is the correct place for this thread or not... but anyhow... I was talking to a potential sub and he told me he was 'sunstrapped'. I had never heard of this before, so I asked what it was. This is the response I got:

that is where i was made to lay out in sun till i was sunburned...then my owner took a thin leather belt and whpped my back FULL FORCE over the sunburned back, about 100 lashes usually...it was for SEVERE punishments ...i hated it, but i admit it has humbled me more

What do you guys think? Reasonable punishment or abuse?

Given the risk to your skin from sunburns, this isn't something I'd consider wise to do. If I invest enough to own someone, I need them healthy not just not but in the future too. Sunburns can happen but to make it happens is unwise in my opinion.

I'd also really wonder about the need for such a punishment. What exactly would require such a reaction? Is that frankly a level of disobedience that signals a deeper problem with the dynamic?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:11:06 PM

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We're all in a public chat room...

Okay, I'm out. No more commenting on chatroom fantasy stuff.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:11:17 PM

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If this story is true, then I can only say that these two parties should both seek therapy for some obvious problems. Any sane person would draw the line at something that increases the risk of cancer or would produce some really nasty scarring. There are far better ways to make your point.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:13:10 PM

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He said "no" when she demanded that he lick her mother's feet.

"yes" to possible skin cancer, "no" to foot licking. he's a fake!

I don't know Katy....maybe she had REALLY gross feet or something.

As for the topic of being strapped or whipped while sunburned....we've heard of a few instances of such on these boards in the past. Not something I'd be into.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:13:49 PM

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He said "no" when she demanded that he lick her mother's feet.

"yes" to possible skin cancer, "no" to foot licking. he's a fake!

He was her "slave" and felt that adding her mother into it was odd... I can totally see that point. I may have been incorrect about the actual circumstances but he did say "no."

This domme admits what she did.Although she doesnt judge herself as harshly. I am talking to her right now. He was in love with her and wouldn't tell her he hated her for her own amusement, so he got harshly beaten repeatedly. This is all sick and sad.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:16:59 PM

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Abusive. And really severe sunburn can merit trips to the hospital. Not to mention that if he was staked out there with no water he was risking heat exhaustion/heat stroke etc.

As far as the blackmail goes, the cops have heard it all. If he isn't a preacher of some fundamentalist sect then him having an affair with her and her threatening to tell his wife is action that will get her in jail. It will if he is some religious type also but then he risks losing his job, but not necessarily. After all, he only has to confess his sins to his congregation and recommit himself to the righteous path.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:21:24 PM

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Abusive. And really severe sunburn can merit trips to the hospital. Not to mention that if he was staked out there with no water he was risking heat exhaustion/heat stroke etc.

As far as the blackmail goes, the cops have heard it all. If he isn't a preacher of some fundamentalist sect then him having an affair with her and her threatening to tell his wife is action that will get her in jail. It will if he is some religious type also but then he risks losing his job, but not necessarily. After all, he only has to confess his sins to his congregation and recommit himself to the righteous path.

He wasn't cheating on her, he was her slave and in love with her. She threatened to tell his family, friends, and job about his slavery.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:23:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid

I'm not sure if this is the correct place for this thread or not... but anyhow... I was talking to a potential sub and he told me he was 'sunstrapped'. I had never heard of this before, so I asked what it was. This is the response I got:

that is where i was made to lay out in sun till i was sunburned...then my owner took a thin leather belt and whpped my back FULL FORCE over the sunburned back, about 100 lashes usually...it was for SEVERE punishments ...i hated it, but i admit it has humbled me more

What do you guys think? Reasonable punishment or abuse?

The whole story sounds like some sort of fantasy concoction for "wank" night for a male submissive who is very masochistic...or wishes he was.

That said; the whole thing comes across as abusive in my opinion with a heaping helping of stupidity thrown in on the part of the submissive. In the first place, where was his common sense in agreeing to that punishment? Afraid of blackmail? Then he was stupid for getting involved with this dominant in the first place...even so, to risk your health via a sunburn that turns into something potentially life-threatening and then, on top of that, add in harsh treatment of the already-damaged skin?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:25:05 PM

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Reply to thread in general -

I can't tell if it's BS or not - I can't see through the flies swarming over the pile

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:26:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid

I'm not sure if this is the correct place for this thread or not... but anyhow... I was talking to a potential sub and he told me he was 'sunstrapped'. I had never heard of this before, so I asked what it was. This is the response I got:

that is where i was made to lay out in sun till i was sunburned...then my owner took a thin leather belt and whpped my back FULL FORCE over the sunburned back, about 100 lashes usually...it was for SEVERE punishments ...i hated it, but i admit it has humbled me more

What do you guys think? Reasonable punishment or abuse?

The whole story sounds like some sort of fantasy concoction for "wank" night for a male submissive who is very masochistic...or wishes he was.

That said; the whole thing comes across as abusive in my opinion with a heaping helping of stupidity thrown in on the part of the submissive. In the first place, where was his common sense in agreeing to that punishment? Afraid of blackmail? Then he was stupid for getting involved with this dominant in the first place...even so, to risk your health via a sunburn that turns into something potentially life-threatening and then, on top of that, add in harsh treatment of the already-damaged skin?

If it is true, I agree. She told him he could stop it at anytime by saying he hated her, but he was in love with her, so he couldnt. And she admitted to me that knowing he had lied in saying it would have gotten him beaten more. So it was a lose-lose. If it's all true, which she herself claims that it is.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:30:16 PM

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It sounds like a wheelbarrow load of bs to me, from the sunburn to the blackmail it all sounds like one guys fantasy spanning the generations.

Ok... might be BS, but could be real. I'm going on the off chance it is, and wanted opinions on the punishment... not the story itself.

Opinion on the punishment (assuming the story is true)

Absolutely irresponsible, unless of course I imagined all those articles and health warnings about how sunburns increase the risk of skin cancer dramatically.

If she wanted him to suffer, she could have applied some vicious deep heat product and then cropped him, without the risk of a sunburn.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:31:32 PM

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And you're getting all this info from a chatroom? Better let them pull on the other leg for a while - you're beginning to walk with a list to starboard.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:32:11 PM

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Cmail, koolaid

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:32:50 PM

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And you're getting all this info from a chatroom? Better let them pull on the other leg for a while - you're beginning to walk with a list to starboard.

Both of them were there, very different speaking, chat styles, etc. She even asked him to leave so we could speak alone. If it's a scam, it's an elaborately constructed one.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:34:46 PM

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sometimes people who are friends will get together and makeup names and go into a chat and make stuff up =p when i was muuuuuuch younger i had a friend like that
it was always a riot =p

it's not like it's never been done =p

just wondering if this thread and this one -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_2294979/tm.htm -- are somehow connected =p

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:36:13 PM

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Well, the whole thing is pretty entertaining. Where else can you get sunburns, BDSM, a mother/daughter threesome, blackmail and toenail fungus all in the same thread?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:37:10 PM

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sometimes people who are friends will get together and makeup names and go into a chat and make stuff up =p when i was muuuuuuch younger i had a friend like that
it was always a riot =p

it's not like it's never been done =p

just wondering if this thread and this one -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_2294979/tm.htm -- are somehow connected =p

the names are different, but could easily be some boredom relieving fun, although this particular 'sub/slave' is begging me to let him lick my feet.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:38:12 PM

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Well, the whole thing is pretty entertaining. Where else can you get sunburns, BDSM, a mother/daughter threesome, blackmail and toenail fungus all in the same thread?

Only here. I love it! LOL Whether it be true or false, I am enjoying the entertainment value of all this. :)

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:39:00 PM

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well of course the names are different =p you (the general you, not specifically you) and your friend make up new names, you each have one, and you go in a chat and have a big public conversation or something to get someone's attention and just make up bigger and bigger lies until you get tired of it and leave
it's very "schoolyard" =p fun when you're young and stupid, chronologically or otherwise
don't get sucked in by it =p

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