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marie2 -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 4:58:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold Psst! Should I be dialing all those cell phone numbers I get so I have at least one talk? Sigh Ha! I've gotten a few of those too. What's up with that?

MsStarlett -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:00:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Actually, it's not just men. I have recieved the same from women on both sides of the equation. That's 'cause you got a purdy mouth.... I mean long hair. yeah That's it. OP - Just get used to it. It's not going to go away. And all the NoStringsHouseboys will be at LEAST 500 miles away and know that they will never, ever have to pick up a feather duster. (Although I have one who promised to hand me his shoe strings when I met him at the airport.) I still believe houseboys rode off on the unicorns. When it comes to the "I want to serve you forever" guys... I just try to engage them in normal, vanilla conversation. I do NOT talk about the kink to them. They tend to go away pretty quickly. The ones who stay and chatt are usually very nice guys.

mystickoolaid -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:05:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 I'm a submissive, and I've got news for you, male doms do the same thing; They want to "collar you", "you're smokin' hot", "I really like you", "I can tell already", "I want to own you", blah blah blah, before they've even met you. The bottom line is that people will say just about anything to promote their agenda. A lot of men (subs and doms) want a peek at the hole, and will say just about anything to get it. Cynical? Maybe. But nonetheless I've seen plenty of it, and I take it as an immediate red flag when a man starts to put the cart before the horse after only a few talks. Ok so you're saying the common thread (no pun intended) here, is men...? Actually, it's not just men. I have recieved the same from women on both sides of the equation. Very good to know. Seriously... I was hoping CM was like everything else in life and attracted the ogres evenly, along with the angels. Gives me something to hope for amidst all these horrible ogre emails!

mystickoolaid -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:07:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Actually, it's not just men. I have recieved the same from women on both sides of the equation. That's 'cause you got a purdy mouth.... I mean long hair. yeah That's it. OP - Just get used to it. It's not going to go away. And all the NoStringsHouseboys will be at LEAST 500 miles away and know that they will never, ever have to pick up a feather duster. (Although I have one who promised to hand me his shoe strings when I met him at the airport.) I still believe houseboys rode off on the unicorns. When it comes to the "I want to serve you forever" guys... I just try to engage them in normal, vanilla conversation. I do NOT talk about the kink to them. They tend to go away pretty quickly. The ones who stay and chatt are usually very nice guys. I actually have houseboys in my state, within an hour or two or less... offering their services, including one in my city who wants to take me out to dinner to talk more about it... In a few days, I have gotten hundreds of Cmails, most from within my state.

JoyfulMistress -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:07:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Nope, sorry; we were given several nice templates we can choose from for introductory emails. Day two was "How to take a picture of your cock." ACK ~Laughs at the fact I actually spewed koolaid on my desk ~ OH thank you so much darchChylde I needed that giggle !

mystickoolaid -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:10:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JoyfulMistress quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Nope, sorry; we were given several nice templates we can choose from for introductory emails. Day two was "How to take a picture of your cock." ACK ~Laughs at the fact I actually spewed koolaid on my desk ~ OH thank you so much darchChylde I needed that giggle ! OMG, I'm on your desk?!? Those astral projection classes FINALLY paid off!

JoyfulMistress -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:11:42 PM)
~sets the kool aid WAAAAY far away from me and continues to giggle at all the wonderful answers~ ...you all are so witty and great for serious pick up on an icky evening Thank you so much ! From what I have seen similar emails ( though maybe not as many ) happen to both male and female subs ....I just wonder if such emails flood Doms boxes........ Hope everyone has a good evening and finds reasons to smile thank you for offering Me reason to laugh and now .. clean the desk from cherrywatermellon koolaid .

mystickoolaid -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:12:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JoyfulMistress ~sets the kool aid WAAAAY far away from me and continues to giggle at all the wonderful answers~ ...you all are so witty and great for serious pick up on an icky evening Thank you so much ! From what I have seen similar emails ( though maybe not as many ) happen to both male and female subs ....I just wonder if such emails flood Doms boxes........ Hope everyone has a good evening and finds reasons to smile thank you for offering Me reason to laugh and now .. clean the desk from cherrywatermellon koolaid . Too lame to leave up. LOL (what I wrote)

marie2 -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:21:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 I'm a submissive, and I've got news for you, male doms do the same thing; They want to "collar you", "you're smokin' hot", "I really like you", "I can tell already", "I want to own you", blah blah blah, before they've even met you. The bottom line is that people will say just about anything to promote their agenda. A lot of men (subs and doms) want a peek at the hole, and will say just about anything to get it. Cynical? Maybe. But nonetheless I've seen plenty of it, and I take it as an immediate red flag when a man starts to put the cart before the horse after only a few talks. Ok so you're saying the common thread (no pun intended) here, is men...? As I said, "people" will say just about anything to promote their agenda..... My experiences have been 99.9% with men, so that's what I referenced. The couple of times a female put the make on me, they were far more direct about their intentions than most men I've encountered. Just my experience, of course.

mystickoolaid -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:28:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid quote: ORIGINAL: marie2 I'm a submissive, and I've got news for you, male doms do the same thing; They want to "collar you", "you're smokin' hot", "I really like you", "I can tell already", "I want to own you", blah blah blah, before they've even met you. The bottom line is that people will say just about anything to promote their agenda. A lot of men (subs and doms) want a peek at the hole, and will say just about anything to get it. Cynical? Maybe. But nonetheless I've seen plenty of it, and I take it as an immediate red flag when a man starts to put the cart before the horse after only a few talks. Ok so you're saying the common thread (no pun intended) here, is men...? As I said, "people" will say just about anything to promote their agenda..... My experiences have been 99.9% with men, so that's what I referenced. The couple of times a female put the make on me, they were far more direct about their intentions than most men I've encountered. Just my experience, of course. I was replying to the other part, which I highlighted in red.

marie2 -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:33:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid I was replying to the other part, which I highlighted in red. Ah, I gotcha. I think I made the assumption that you were talking only about male subs. Were you talking about both genders? If so, I'm curious, do you get the same thing with female subs?

sujuguete -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 5:51:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid OH... why didnt I realize the answers to this were going to be so hilarious! [sm=crop.gif] <--- This is all I have to say to the smart ass replies so far. Be afraid. LOL Well, you DID post this in the "Random Stupidity" section. [;)]

darchChylde -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 6:20:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sujuguete quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid OH... why didnt I realize the answers to this were going to be so hilarious! [sm=crop.gif] <--- This is all I have to say to the smart ass replies so far. Be afraid. LOL Well, you DID post this in the "Random Stupidity" section. [;)] Actually, she posted in "Ask a Mistress"; it was moved to "Polls and Random Stupidity". That was probably my fault, lol.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 7:18:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shymetalsub quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid Are there actually subs out there who don't send their first message introducing themselves by saying how they want to lick your feet, serve you forever, offer their undying devotion... to someone they DONT EVEN KNOW and HAVEN'T MET??? This is most if not all of what I am getting. It's a bit scary. Are these people serious? Are they sane? I definitely would not consider devoting my whole life and body unconditionally to some stranger on the internet! I'd really be quite interested to find out what percentage of male subs are batshit insane and lack basic communication skills. Perhaps we don't outnumber dommes as much as it seems when you exclude the incompetent ones. Lmao, any way you look at it, social Darwinism is depressing! I do see that this was moved from Ask a Mistress takes a swat at darkChylde shymetal, you are right. This concept has been discussed in the past on the Mistress Forum. There are a lot of HNG's just looking for a quickie thrill or some hot online chat and they don't view this site the way many of us regulars do. It is just a sex and fantasy for them. If you break down the numbers, the ratio isn't so horrible. It is just weeding through all that mess and then still needing to make a match. Geography, likes, dislikes, compatibility in other areas... Well, nobody said it would be easy. [;)]

darchChylde -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 7:32:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold I do see that this was moved from Ask a Mistress takes a swat at darkChylde ducks out of the way If you want to try that again, you're going to have to run it by Ma'am[sm=marionette.gif]

OneMoreWaste -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 7:54:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid Are there actually subs out there who don't send their first message introducing themselves by saying how they want to lick your feet, serve you forever, offer their undying devotion... to someone they DONT EVEN KNOW and HAVEN'T MET??? Yup. In fact, we even outnumber Dommes who aren't concerned about employment status or being "spoiled materially", and we might even outnumber "Dommes" who just want somebody to come and do all their scut work and get nothing in return. [8\|] Perhaps you're familiar with the acronym "GIGO"?

xxblushesxx -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 8:26:04 PM)
Uhm...without reading the rest of the answers, there are actually subs who make the dom(me)s come to them...and let the subs know what THE DOM(ME)S have to offer. (probably a lot of us.)

moonvine -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 10:27:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid Although, the ones who want to come do NSA housework and claim to understand I won't EVER touch them... and dig it... I'm curious about. LOL Sounds like a deal to me, if it's true... Which I highly doubt. This sounds like an awesome deal to me, and I'm submissive. Anyone who wants to come clean my house is welcome, regardless of orientation. I have 15 litterboxes that need to be constantly bleached, if nothing else, and it is a real PITA.

SthrnCom4t -> RE: QUESTION... (11/21/2008 11:45:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid Are there actually subs out there who don't send their first message introducing themselves by saying how they want to lick your feet, serve you forever, offer their undying devotion... to someone they DONT EVEN KNOW and HAVEN'T MET??? This is most if not all of what I am getting. It's a bit scary. Are these people serious? Are they sane? I definitely would not consider devoting my whole life and body unconditionally to some stranger on the internet! My advice.....Go Hunting:) I've emailed many men first, because I liked what their profile had to say. Ask Otter..he was only on the market for about 2 days. <grin> Sthrn Honorably served by OttersSwim

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: QUESTION... (11/22/2008 12:36:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Actually, it's not just men. I have recieved the same from women on both sides of the equation. I thought that was going to stay just between us darch. You sold me out. Shame! M

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