Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Hair pulling fetish


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Hair pulling fetish Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 5:18:45 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Do you really have to ask in My case?

For the folks that don't know Me, that's My way of saying I adore it.  Yes, I've done the random stranger hair pull.  It's not that unusual for Me to walked up to a stranger with a beautiful head of hair and ask if they mind.  Every now and then, I'll even bother to notice that there's a person attached to it.  If I think there's a chance that I'm going to get My kicks, I have no problem approaching someone to ask what may seem a very odd question. 

There's a wonderful male sub in Atlanta who has the most wonderful blond hair.  The Dominant that he is collared to has given Me full permission to use him for My hair jollies any time we run into each other.   The reaction from him to My pulling his hair is priceless!  Just the look in his eyes after My having My way with his hair, as he starts floating  is unbelievable.  By the time I've purred "thank you" in his ear, he's way up into space.

Come to think of it, I can't exactly say My feet are on the ground from the experience, either. 


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 6:09:46 AM   
TNstepsout


Posts: 1558
Joined: 8/3/2005
Status: offline 		Yup hair pulling. I love it from both sides. 

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 6:12:50 AM   
MaamJay


Posts: 2101
Joined: 9/2/2005
Status: offline 		Count Me in! I love touching and grabbing hair, though I'm not so much into the sadistic thing with it, more sensual. As a kid, My Mom had hair down to her waist, and one of our favourite ways of keeping me occupied was for me to brush, comb, plait, braid, tie ribbons in it and generally play with it! She'd go all spacy and I just loved it. I recall one time I'd given her dreadlocks (way before any of us ever saw or heard of them) and she answered the door to a travelling salesman all in her dreamy no-thinking state. The shocked look he gave her was priceless!

I don't insist on long hair (though I love that Master's hair is long and wavy) but they've got to have enough to grab. I'm not going to voluntarily take on bald or shaved, just don't like the look or the lack of feel! If Master suddenly went bald I'd cope ... or buy Him a wig just like His hair now.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

Edited to add:
Give Me a head with hair! Long beautiful hair, Shining, gleaming, steaming, flaxen, waxen
Give Me it down to there (where?) Shoulder length or longer ...
Yeah ok so I'm a child of the 60s

< Message edited by MaamJay -- 11/23/2008 6:15:44 AM >

_____________________________

Life is a song ... and I love singing it! (By me!)

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 7:58:59 AM   
DavanKael


Posts: 3072
Joined: 10/6/2007
Status: offline 		As an aesthetic, I love hair on men in general and having grown up very much a devotee of 80's hair bands and such, I'm sure that made quite an impact.  It is a strong preference.  I love the scent of the person captured in their hair.  I can definitely appreciate man who has nice hair and doesn't act like a primadonna about it.  I adore touching, running my fingers through , brushing, a partner's hair.  I also like, on some level, that it isn't the social norm and that some people find it unacceptable; it indicates a lack of slavery to convention, imo.  I also love having my hair (Which is also very long) touched, pulled, brushed, etc. by a partner.  About 35%-40% of my male partners have had long (More than shoulder length) hair.  It definitely is a trait I would rather have than not but it's not something about which I am fetishistic. 
  Davan

_____________________________

May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
-Leadership527,Jeff

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 8:22:30 AM   
SthrnCom4t


Posts: 343
Joined: 9/9/2007
Status: offline 		Akasha thanks for sharing that wonderful description! Ferns, I agree about the control...YUM!

In fact, that IS why Otter's hair is about the first thing that gets mussed up. I don't have to wait for privacy. He's not a priss by any means, but he generally has this look of respectablity about him that just seems to 'dare' me. It's a bit like -marking territory-, I suppose.

And, of course, in private it leads to the deep-mouth kissing and the muffled gasps of pain that are just so delicious. The perceptible widening of the irises, followed by the glazed over look in the eyes, and the inability to form coherent sentences immediately afterward, make it quite addictive.

Last but not least, turning it around and going through all the motions leading up, just to watch his look of disappointment can also be rewarding as hell. I just love keeping that boy on his toes!

Not a fetish for me, but definitely a sexual hot button for sure,
Sthrn

Honorably served by OttersSwim

(in reply to OttersSwim)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 8:28:28 AM   
MsStarlett


Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline 		I love long haired men.  Whether it's for pulling, grabbing onto and holding tight or just running my fingers through it when I pet my pup.  My Westie doesn't like his hair long but happily keeps the top just long enough for me to get a good hold and keeps the rest off the collar. 

Hmmmmm.... only famous person who likes me to run my fingers through his hair is Gunnar Hansen.  (The original Leather Face from Texas Chainsaw Massacre.)  We were both enjoying having me scratch his head and beard behind his table at a convention years ago when someone mistook me for his wife.  We both laughed, "No, just friends!"  He does have the most lovely head of thick, wavy silver hair.  Just to die for.

http://www.dvdtown.com/images/displayimage.php?id=5681


_____________________________

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

(in reply to DavanKael)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 1:38:49 PM   
sleuthingsub


Posts: 68
Joined: 1/30/2007
Status: offline 		haha, considering that I just had a conversation with my gf about what to do with my hair (it's been growing for about 8 months), I find this topic ironically poignant.  It's true, I do love getting my hair pulled.  I think particularly during kissing it can be quite intense, as the mind attempts to juggle the incoming pleasure and pain, while attempting to not loose focus on the task of kissing back.  Though it can really make about any scene or interaction more intense.  I don't think it's a fetish for either of us though.

(in reply to AAkasha)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 1:49:52 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


Posts: 979
Joined: 6/29/2005
Status: offline 		I love hair-pulling and love to direct his face where I want it.  I also like to see him wince a bit when I do it.  When he gets his hair cut he knows he needs to leave his hair at least long enough for me to grip it.

(in reply to sleuthingsub)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 6:47:38 PM   
LPslittleclip


Posts: 1163
Joined: 9/29/2007
Status: offline 		my M'Lady loves to pull hair im in the army so i let it grow as much as i can but i would love to have long hair for her to pull. she did consider it when W/we met but ultimately it was not a deciding factor. she would love to have a hair slut of her own. O/our dynamic is based more on a overall respect for the whole family and each other.

(in reply to LadyJulieAnn)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 8:49:17 PM   
ShaktiSama


Posts: 1674
Joined: 8/13/2007
Status: offline 		It's not a fetish, but I will pull a man's hair if he has the appropriate response. I like the sensual yelp that my boykin makes when his hair is long enough to pull.

It's a toss-up, because he looks extremely handsome when his hair is cropped close--too close to pull. I have to trade one pleasure for another...

_____________________________

"Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea."
-- Robert A. Heinlein

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/23/2008 9:02:11 PM   
zakkan


Posts: 606
Joined: 4/15/2008
Status: offline 		Have there been any accidents before? Like when you pull too hard and leave with a fistful of hair? 

_____________________________

Silence! I keel you!

(in reply to ShaktiSama)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/24/2008 6:33:56 AM   
ChampagneMojito


Posts: 77
Joined: 4/8/2008
From: UK
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Ferns

I don't have a fetish for hair pulling per se, but I do adore gripping his hair in my fist to move his head, face, mouth where I want it, the level of control in that is lovely.  I have had men for whom that immediately puts them into a submissive glaze.  Delicious.



^ This.  Well said.

_____________________________

I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. ~Anaïs Nin

(in reply to Ferns)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/24/2008 4:31:30 PM   
MsStarlett


Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: zakkan

Have there been any accidents before? Like when you pull too hard and leave with a fistful of hair? 


*giggle*  No!  Not in my experience.  I don't pull that hard.  However, a long time ago, I used to make costumes for semi-pro wrestlers.  At that time Rick Flair and Hulk Hogan still popular.  Many wrestlers were bleaching their hair light blond to jump on the band wagon.  One of my clients did that.  The next time I saw him, his beautiful long hair was shaved quite short... almost military.  I asked about it... he said "My opponent grabbed me by the hair in the ring.  The bleach had damaged my hair so much that it all broke off in his hand.  Didn't hurt a bit, but I hammed it up like it did.  The audience went wild.  To bad I could only do it ONCE!"


_____________________________

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

(in reply to zakkan)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/24/2008 4:34:23 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip

my M'Lady loves to pull hair im in the army so i let it grow as much as i can but i would love to have long hair for her to pull. she did consider it when W/we met but ultimately it was not a deciding factor. she would love to have a hair slut of her own. O/our dynamic is based more on a overall respect for the whole family and each other.

And you guys wonder why I'm so pleased with him.  He even said "hair slut!"


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to LPslittleclip)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 11/24/2008 6:49:53 PM   
mummyman321


Posts: 2102
Joined: 10/31/2005
From: Dusseldorf
Status: offline 		The fingers running through the hair. The clenched hand pulling the hair and drawning back your head. The forefulness of the Domme as your head snaps back. Her voices echo's in your head. Her hot breath in your ear. You feel the adrenline rush all over your body. I must say I do love it :)

_____________________________

Life - Its not about where you are but about the journey to get there - I prefer to choose the road less traveled

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 12/3/2008 2:31:19 PM   
bootw0rshipJT


Posts: 71
Joined: 8/23/2007
Status: offline 		I'm growing my hair back again, after having it shaved over the summer.

I love for my hair to be pulled, love it when a good chunk of it is grabbed whilst she makes her sadistic demands.

(in reply to mummyman321)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 12/3/2008 8:23:25 PM   
MlleVolanges


Posts: 15
Joined: 6/3/2008
Status: offline 		Mmmm yes please. With my sub girlfriend, it's also a great way to give direction while she's servicing me. :)

(in reply to bootw0rshipJT)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 12/3/2008 8:43:42 PM   
Lynnxz


Posts: 4813
Joined: 10/3/2006
From: Atlanta
Status: offline 		I adore pulling hair, and having it pulled. I am submissive to C, but luckily he has a strong, strong masochistic streak, so we get into all kinds of hair pulling, biting, scratching, happy-fun-sexy time. 

_____________________________

HBIC



(in reply to MlleVolanges)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 12/4/2008 7:56:49 AM   
chezzy71


Posts: 412
Joined: 4/19/2008
Status: offline 		Let's see..i am fairly bald...but my head shines or if you will my solar panel collector.I wonder aloud if Mistress would be pleased buffing my head with a cloth and then gagging me with it???..LOL

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: Hair pulling fetish - 12/4/2008 12:32:32 PM   
wickedondine


Posts: 16
Joined: 11/18/2008
Status: offline 		I once had a partner who stubbornly insisted on using gel on what was otherwise perfectly serviceable curly hair. God was it frustrating. I don't really consider it a fetish, for me, because I get by just fine without it- but I really like long hair on my partners because it definitely adds something to be able to drag their heads around as I see fit and make them wince.

One thing about being a dom who's smaller in stature is I have to take my power however I can get it- and since this seems to work and I like it, I rely on it extensively. Partially relevant: I found some pictures of subs in shibari with their hair partly wound in holding them up today. Incredible. Just sayin'.

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Hair pulling fetish Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.250