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PeonForHer -> RE: Hair pulling fetish (11/22/2008 4:05:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
I will admit it. I have a fetish for pulling hair.
It's so bad that at one point I would not consider dating a guy who did not have hair long enough to pull. So military men, men with shaved heads, etc - they were all overlooked intentionally. I could not imagine how I would ever been in any kind of physical relationship with a man who did not have hair I could pull.
I admit there have been men that I dated or crushed on simply because they had hair that I wanted to feel between my fingers. I never wanted to be with a man that fussed over his hair and was like, "Don't touch it," or was self conscious about it. I can admit there have been "famous people" whose hair I pulled (with permission) and hockey players, and the embarrassment or sheepishness of having to ask such a weird, odd question was WELL worth the opportunity to pull their hair; the payoff of doing it was far greater than the wondering "what would they think of that? won't they think I am strange?" Or worrying that they might say no. It's so rare that they do, it's worth the risk.
Part of it is the simple feel of hair between my fingers. But more than that is the way they react to pain; I have refined this over the years when I know I have one shot at it, or at least, the first shot at it, to go in quite slow, delicate, almost affectionate, and not actually cause them any pain until they've been lulled into a false sense of security. I study, quite carefully, the reaction in their eyes for when they register discomfort, then flat out pain, and then have my apology ready to go. Manipulative? Cruel? Sadistic? Probably.
"I'd really like to pull your hair."
"Sure, go for it."
"It's going to hurt; I have to warn you. I do mean it," I have learned to actually give warning, just to be nice, and, well, yeah, because it's kind of hot to see their reaction to that statement. "It's going to hurt." I can honestly say, everything about this exchange and the way it plays out is 100% self serving. It's selfish and conniving - that's why I can say this is a bonafide fetish. I am using the person to get what I want. I often do this without much care about who the person is (emotionally, since I don't know them) and with no romantic interest in them. But if they say fine, go ahead, then all bets are off, right?
It's not just casual, drive-by hairpulling that gets me hot though. I like affectionate hair pulling, lust-driven hairpulling. I absolutely adore muffled whimpers that come mid-kiss when I pull hair when engaging in sweet, romantic kisses. I love hair pulling when a guy tries to wrench his head free and out of my grip (roleplaying, of course) or hair pulling to force a man to look at me when I am talking to him. I love clenching my first in his hair to make him gasp in pain so I can gag him, or twisting his locks until his eyes water and he has to ask me to stop.
The fact that I can thoroughly and completely enjoy the act of pulling hair makes me think that it's the closest to a true fetish than just about anything, much like some men can have a foot fetish or latex fetish. I can entertain it in a totally non-sexual, non-intimate, non-affectionate way and still get a huge sadistic and/or sexual rush from it, and the guy probably doesn't even know and I will never even see him again.
In my experience, though, most men love it. They love any attention from a woman if she's flirty about it. Painful or not. It's just hair pulling, after all.
Anyone else over the moon for this stuff?
Akasha
Point of info: you are just talking of head-hair here, aren't you, A?
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