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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/23/2008 8:06:48 PM

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like my parts were not attached to ME anymore.

I think I saw them up for auction on eBay last week.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/23/2008 9:08:26 PM

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The bottom's desire to give oral sex is generally one-part female stereotype and nine parts devotion to his own fetishes. Anyone who took the time to ask me would know that this was not my favorite sex act....and I hate it when strangers start talking about extreme sexual intimacy with me without invitation. Yech.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/23/2008 10:19:23 PM

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Have you had - or would you enjoy having someone perform continuous, non-stop cunnilingus on you for more than several minutes at a time ? OR - For a full hour , or more ?

Hell Yeah! And Yes for long periods of time, but never with someone I couldn't or wouldn't kiss he was done there.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 12:09:59 AM

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The way that some people (mainly submissives) talk about oral service you'd think the experience would be like a bulldog trying to eat a pot of yogurt without a spoon.

OMG stella, your writing is usually magnificent but you have out-done yourself here! That's hilarious and so true! I am thanking the divine that I wasn't eating or drinking anything at the time I read it.

Therefore being great at oral service to me is a myth unless she says it.

And hear hear! Thoroughly agree with this too. I can take it for as long as it takes to get Me to 2-3 orgasms, after that it's "I need a rest!" And while I do enjoy it, it's just ONE of the enjoyable experiences possible, I love kissing the mouth too. Though not heavily into the whole tongue thing, that's something reserved for occasional moments of particular passion, but lip to lip ... yep, gotta have that. Lots and often!

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 12:23:15 AM

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All I'm going to say is.....

A thread with "oral service" in the title and DC isn't here to debate the terms with Me. <sigh>

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 12:50:12 AM

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I am with you. While I do love it, as part of the whole, there is a point where it gets boring, & I have had enough. I don't know why, but it seems that for many submissive men, they seem to think that giving oral is a quality all dommes want in their submissives. Quite frankly, I prefer to teach my submissive how to give me any stimulation I might want, or not.

I thought I would add here, that if he is any kind of submissive for me, if he doesn't know how, he will quickly learn how to give good oral service, if that is what I want. It won't matter how good he is before he came to me.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 1:05:05 AM

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love pleasing my mistress orally

love when she cums too love sharing that with her for all the wonderfull things she does to me

the lady is a squirter love when she squirts

she says i have a talented tongue and with her squirting thats a high for me too when she does so

its like getting a pat on the back for a job well done when i get a mouthfull of her fluid

very itimate and erotic i think it is when a lady squirts and when she gives you her fluid i feel swallowing that is a must ...very yummy indeed

whether she sits on my face ...love the view

or her laying on her back as she wraps her sexy legs around me holding my face in place buried inbetween those sexy thighs love pleasing her orally as much as she can take until she says its time for a break ...then i move up and hold her and kiss her feeling the softness and smoothness of her body

have fun ..mal

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 2:19:30 AM

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Admirable sentiments as always, Mal.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 5:24:24 AM

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I find it amusing that so many are sooooooo skilled and happy to and in fact can perform for hours... as a lesbian with a lot of experience on both sides of this... I suggest this is fantasy... if you're doing it that long, you might be doing it wrong.. and trust me.. your mouth will really start to cramp up...

and I agree completely with you... kissing is important to me.. and oral servitude really isn't -- at least not for more than a few minutes.. after that, I find it annoying...

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 5:28:25 AM

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Not all D/s relationships are romantic... and often people do consider kissing a very romantic lover type activity...

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 8:09:22 AM

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Most of the responses here are focussed on getting to orgasm. While that IS a desirable goal for most, how about thinking of the gentleman's activity as simple altar worship (IE oral service = demonstration of devotion and adoration)? With that frame of reference, the act can go on much longer than if he was simply slathering at the Miss's button to get her off. Anybody want to chime in on this POV?

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 8:17:09 AM

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Most of the responses here are focussed on getting to orgasm. While that IS a desirable goal for most, how about thinking of the gentleman's activity as simple altar worship (IE oral service = demonstration of devotion and adoration)? With that frame of reference, the act can go on much longer than if he was simply slathering at the Miss's button to get her off. Anybody want to chime in on this POV?

I agree. There are plenty of things to lick in that area that would make it enjoyable for longer periods of time. I know Domme's who use queening and ass worship as both punishment AND reward depending on the submissive.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 8:38:50 AM

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"Most of the responses here are focussed on getting to orgasm. While that IS a desirable goal for most, how about thinking of the gentleman's activity as simple altar worship (IE oral service = demonstration of devotion and adoration)? With that frame of reference, the act can go on much longer than if he was simply slathering at the Miss's button to get her off. Anybody want to chime in on this POV? "

Except that generally , an alter is an inanimate object - and here we're talkin' about living breathing women . And though it's been said many times before - orgasms , or not - it's about what the Domme wants .

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 8:41:12 AM

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"Most of the responses here are focussed on getting to orgasm. While that IS a desirable goal for most, how about thinking of the gentleman's activity as simple altar worship (IE oral service = demonstration of devotion and adoration)? With that frame of reference, the act can go on much longer than if he was simply slathering at the Miss's button to get her off. Anybody want to chime in on this POV? "

Except that generally , an alter is an inanimate object - and here we're talkin' about living breathing women . And though it's been said many times before - orgasms , or not - it's about what the Domme wants .

Also true, but I know a lot of Domme's who consider oral service 'worshipping at their altar'... goes back to the "to each their own" thing

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 8:45:57 AM

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*grin* like most things... it depends... as a worship activity... or at least in my experience, worship activities tend to be about the worshipper... that said... want to worship me? do my kitchen floor.. it means a lot more to me... a flippant example but again, if you want to worship, do something that is meaningful to the worshipee...

and welcome...

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 9:10:12 AM

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if you're doing it that long, you might be doing it wrong.. and trust me.. your mouth will really start to cramp up...

When I was taught to play the piano as a kid, I was shown how to relax muscles in the hands and fingers at every possible point. This prevents your hands from seizing up within a few minutes with cramp. Same principle applied to the neck, jaw and tongue and all's peachy.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 9:12:07 AM

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This whole thread has me crossing my legs...

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 10:13:40 AM

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Most of the responses here are focussed on getting to orgasm. While that IS a desirable goal for most, how about thinking of the gentleman's activity as simple altar worship (IE oral service = demonstration of devotion and adoration)? With that frame of reference, the act can go on much longer than if he was simply slathering at the Miss's button to get her off. Anybody want to chime in on this POV?

So many other things we could do in that amount of time that would be equally if not more enjoyable and involve our entire bodies and minds. To be fixated on one activity is rarely a healthy thing I think.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 11:41:04 AM

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I don't like oral sex nearly as much as I do penetration. (shrugs) But if you want to show me your devotion, take out the trash all week without me saying a word about it, and get it out to the curb on the designated pickup day.

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RE: Seeking opinions on oral "service" - 11/24/2008 11:58:41 AM

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I'm assuming that comment was directed at subs in general, AL, rather than TammyJo. Tammyjo is both a dominant and rather busy.

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