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hello A/all - 12/23/2005 1:48:32 AM

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I came here hoping to find some answers about bdsm. I was curious, so I surfed the web. I am a college student, with a full time job in law enforcement, so this would have to be kept discrete. I would also like to meet someone in the Gainesville, FL area.

I do have lots of questions. I think I lean towards the sub side, in fact I know I do. I worry that if I submit completely sex will become solely about
pleasing the Dom... As much as I do enjoy making my partner wriggle with pleasure, I also need to be pleasured.

In real life, I am very much a leader, so in bed I like to be controlled. There is nothing better than a man in mid stroke yanking me down further on the bed, flipping me over, giving my ass a nice little smack, and taking it doggie style. Don't ask me, just do it.

I also like a little bondage, though I have not had a lot of experience with it. I have been handcuffed, and I have handcuffed my partner. I would love to be
tied down completely and teased till I could not take it anymore. I would set the limit that the Dom could not leave me there. I have used silk scarves a
little on my hands, but have never had my legs tied down.

I like to be spanked, and I also like to smack my partners ass when he is on top. Is this allowed? I bite, scratch, smack, and pull hair, not to the
point of bad pain, but enough to feel it. Oh, I love having my hair pulled. I have really long blonde hair.

I guess I am looking for more than just a sex thing though. I want to trust the person I am doing this with, I want to be able to have him around my friends,
even the Law enforcement ones, and no one know, have it be our dirty little secret.

I guess the only real limits I have are anal, in that IF it were to occur, it would have to be worked up to, and really slow, I don't mind a finger or a tongue at all, but have had bad experiences with anal. Leaving me tied down (and actually leaving,) and keeping it a secret. I am also not interested in scat play or watersports.

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RE: hello A/all - 12/23/2005 8:26:54 AM

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kitty,

that was quite the into for a new post and I think a very informative one.
On CM there is no doubt you will find your match, but might have to spend some time separating the wheat from the chaff.

good Luck

CP

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RE: hello A/all - 12/23/2005 10:22:12 AM

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Hello and Welcome!!!
The best of luck to you and I'm sure you'll learn more then you ever thought possible.
Merry Christmas and the best of New Years

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RE: hello A/all - 12/23/2005 10:25:13 AM

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Thanks for the warm welcome! Merry Christmas to Y/yall too!

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RE: hello A/all - 12/23/2005 11:20:48 AM

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Welcome whisperkitty! You have a excellent definition and I'm sure you will find some one to help 'train' you. In the meanwhile feel free to ask any questions you have. This is a caring community and the only question that is stupid is the question not asked! Good Luck in your adventure and have a wonderful Holiday Season!

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RE: hello Kitten - 12/23/2005 12:31:52 PM

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As I see you would to knowif you could handelthe sub side of BDSM let me tel you one thing Do not give it to easy if you think you can handel it do it but if you have any doubts don't, it can be a lot of fun and give you sattisfaction to please a master but if you'r not sure about being a sub or a dom, try to make up your mind before you make contect with a real master

hope to have given you a bit to think about and I hope to hear from you;
Bigod aka Big bad Cat

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RE: hello A/all - 12/24/2005 12:56:27 AM

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Hi from one kitty to another

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